Girlfriend feels pressured to sex, but not by me. What do I do?

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend feels pressured to sex. She says that I do not pressure her, but that the expectation is what makes her feel pressured. Im not sure what to do, since she does not know herself. The thing that bothers me a bit, is that she had a friends with benefits for over a year before we met, so it feels weird that she does not want to have sex more than once a month. I feel like an asshole for saying that, but im also frustrated by IT.

[mark000h]

You're pathetic. Dating a slu4 and getting to wait for something she gave guys she knew for 5 minutes.

[Berethor]

You get the worst of both worlds, a girl with slutty past who is shitty at sex.

[WhitneySnow]

She’s talking about societal expectations. Just tell her you don’t mind waiting.