Girlfriend has a fetish that makes me uncomfortable?

My (21M) new girlfriend (24F) makes me sexual requests that makes me uncomfortable.
I try to please her that way, but I still feel uncomfortable about them.
Should I tell her, and how?
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She asks me to stay still and pretend I'm dead.
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I do my best to be patient and understanding, especially because her ex yelled at her and went around making fun of her for this. She's always very sweet and supportive with me so I don't see why I should treat her even if I'm a bit unsettled. She also says she'll do everything I want because I indulge her fantasies, I think it's a good thing?
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  • It's a matter of with what you are BOTH comfortable.

    That said, hopefully, she does not suffer from necromania. THAT would make me uncomfortable. It would be interesting to know if SHE would be comfortable pretending SHE was dead.

  • Just tell her you feel uncomfortable in a calm and respectful way. Couldn't be easy to share it with you, so you shouldn't shame her.

    • Since she has such a good nature about this whole thing, maybe just try your best to love it. Sounds like she'll do the same for you :)

    • You are right, I want her to be herself with me and love her that way

    • Just think of it this way: A usual fetish many guys has is cum fetish. We want them to do all kinds of stuff with that, swallow it and such, but we know they don't like the taste, but if you do this stuff, you might be able to get stuff like this.

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  • Well, it is up to both the guy or girl to set limits of what they are comfortable with. If you don't want to do something speak now or forever hold your piece. ( not peace for all you who think I can't spell).

  • Tell her this bothers you

    • Thanks 😊

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  • Just tell her it doesn't work for you. If you will, tell her you'll do it once in a while.

    • With her offer of "anything" and my sadistic tendencies, I'd be all over that.

  • Sex shouldn't be uncomfortable, that defeats the purpose, so being honest (very carefully) would be helpful. But the playing dead thing does sound odd (to me).

  • wow.. never heard of that one..

    she probably gets off on seeing if you lay still, will your penis stay hard af?

    • generally yes

  • I mean, I've told girlfriends to roll over and pretend they're a puppy, doesn't mean I want to fuck a dog. Is this literally a necro thing or is it just easier for her to get off if you lay there while she does the work?

    • No, she literally likes to pretend I'm dead and we do watch necrophilia themed movies.

  • Just plain tell her. That could get boring real fast, if she always wants you to just lay still, like you are dead. Just plain tell her how you feel. It's possible that you are sexually incompatible, if she wants you to always play dead.

  • You should be upfront and tell her that you're not comfortable with her requests.

  • Im just curious what does she want you to do

    • Probably she would ask him to stay still and act like dead and then come over him, put her pussy on his face, press her hole against his nose then rub it hard. Make his whole face wet from his pussy juice.

  • It almost sounds as if she wants to make a fool of you or something, next to being into necro stuff.

    • You mean hurt me?

    • It gives me the impression that she's trying to be really sarcastic and tell you to stay still and pretend to be dead as if she thinks you're thick or mentally challenged and won't understand that she wants to be in control. But like I said, it might be that she's into that necro shit. Dead body fetish.

    • I think she's genuinely into it. Not to the point of digging up graves, but the idea really turns her on. She was ashamed and I had to be very patient about it. She likes messing with me and showing me gore on the phone to make me squirm if that's what you mean, but she's also very kind with me and told me that if I don't like it to tell her. She's conscious about it.

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  • That’s kinda weird. Ask her if there is a better fetish that she maybe into that you can switch to. The dead dog sounds weird.

    • Maybe she would be down with switching to massage/ customer role play as it’s kinda similar to not moving for the one on the table.

  • Run bro. Run Bro. That is fucking dark.

  • Update: What does she do with that?

    • She straddles me.

    • Like Cowgirl on the dead?

    • Yes.

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  • Time to move on! Imagine how your kids would turn out!

    • What? I want to stay with her, no matter this.

    • So... No reason for your post if you already know what you're going to do. Looking for justification? I doubt you will find it here. Many fetishes have become acceptable over time. Hers? Not yet.

    • I'm trying to sort it out as I admit it unnerves me a little, but she always treated me well

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  • What requests?

    • She asks me to stay still and pretend I'm dead.

    • Yea I cannot say I have heard of that one. Could you give more context. Like what happened leading up to the comment or maybe after the comment.

  • Lmao she's a necrophiliac

    • I know, should I be worried? She's extra kind with me and helpwd me out with a lot of stuff

    • Tell her you won't do it anymore And let's see how she acts into the future Only then will you get your answer

  • Yeah that's uncomfortable. You should tell her about how you feel

  • Tell her how this makes you feel, if you don't this will begin to be an obstacle in sex and it will be a big issue in the relationship. Hope this helped.

  • Yes.

  • Lmao she be up on that opossum dick XD

    • You think that's funny?

    • 100% bro

    • Idiot

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  • There's a male flipside toj the same fetish. The babydoll submissive. This case the female can't break character. She must remain lifeless as a rag doll. Her man then prepares her. Does her hair and make up to his liking dresses or leaves undressed. Then sexually he has his way with her even sharing her if it is his choice. She mustn't moan make faces or show any acknowledgement of pleasure or pain or anything not doll like. Switch it up bet she'll dig it

  • What does she want you to do?

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