Why don't you use your fingers first. And yes, GO MORE SLOWLY. Girl has never done this before, so she has to "feel through it," WITH you. It's an experiment. You might encourage her to explore herself on her own, so she can tell you what to do better. Good luck.
Try less swiping, gentle. Everything is new so everything will feel overwhelming. Have her touch herself and ask her what she wants u to do to help her.
I don't think it's you at all, if she has never touched herself which is, strange, she is going to be ultra sensitive. Have her touch herself so she can see what it's like. Did she say why she has never touched herself?
She comes from a very religious family so masturbating/sex was always a big deal to her.
Touch it gently without inserting anything. Go slowly and let her movements dictate what happens. That's how I masturbate my girlfriend
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New sensations can be overwhelming for anyone
Ur probably not doing it wrong…. I’m the same way…. I can’t relax. I’m tooo self conscious.
Take your time with her, and be patient. It is her first time.
If it's foreplay, let her get aroused first. Don't just finger and fuck her on the spot. Use ample lube and rub the clit slowly.
She's not use to having someone go down on her, so don't give up.
Finger her with her clothes on first.
She's a lair
Maybe too much on the clit
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