Girlfriend is too sensitive down there?

So, my girlfriend is a virgin and she’s never touched herself. ever. Yesterday, she finally agreed on letting me go down on her. But as I was doing it she kept whining and trying pulling my head up and saying it was “too much”

I don’t know what I’m doing wrong…Should I just go (even more) slowly next time?
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  • Why don't you use your fingers first. And yes, GO MORE SLOWLY. Girl has never done this before, so she has to "feel through it," WITH you. It's an experiment. You might encourage her to explore herself on her own, so she can tell you what to do better. Good luck.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Try less swiping, gentle. Everything is new so everything will feel overwhelming. Have her touch herself and ask her what she wants u to do to help her.

Most Helpful Guys

  • I don't think it's you at all, if she has never touched herself which is, strange, she is going to be ultra sensitive. Have her touch herself so she can see what it's like. Did she say why she has never touched herself?

    • She comes from a very religious family so masturbating/sex was always a big deal to her.

  • Touch it gently without inserting anything. Go slowly and let her movements dictate what happens. That's how I masturbate my girlfriend

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Just her first time, she'll get used to it

  • New sensations can be overwhelming for anyone

  • Ur probably not doing it wrong…. I’m the same way…. I can’t relax. I’m tooo self conscious.

  • Take your time with her, and be patient. It is her first time.

  • If it's foreplay, let her get aroused first. Don't just finger and fuck her on the spot. Use ample lube and rub the clit slowly.

  • Finger her with her clothes on first.

  • She's not use to having someone go down on her, so don't give up.

  • She's a lair

  • Maybe too much on the clit