Yeah man. Maybe one day she'll decide she might want to try it again, but it's hard to convince a woman to want to have anal when she is totally convinced in her mind that she doesn't want to try it. This is without coming across as an asshole or a dominant or too pushy mind you.
Maybe, talk to her about it and see where her head is at about it. Like you have to be casual when you talk to her about it. Not bring up what happened really. You can even do reverse psychology, in that, you can say, "Man I love your ass right now, I would love to play with it". Or something like this. Get it in her head that you enjoy being around that area and that she is beautiful around that area. Most women that love anal, are confident in that area of their body or are confident that the person they let touch them in that area loves to be around that area of their body. Usually, the reason women don't want to be touched in the anal area is because they feel it's dirty for both involved, or it will hurt, or it's not proper. If you can get her to see that you or she won't feel this way about you being in her anal region, than she will be more receptive of you playing with her ass and eventually anal perhaps.
But, you can't push it, you have to let her feel comfortable with it again.
she tried it once you had your shot, you should have made sure she liked it, lots of lube etc etc, you cannot expect her to try again, if she didn't liked it its going to be scary as hell for her to try again.
my suggestion is to stick with Normal sex, lick her pussy good! be playful with her ass, show her how much you love it, start with fingering the ass, with lots of lube, if she finds fingering good she will keep it relaxed, and once she is good with fingering she would want something bigger! thats when dick one in the game.
wish you luck..
Well you could ask her why she doesn't want to try again. And maybe sometimes ask her during sex if you can try it out again. But ya, if she really doesn't want to do it, nothing much you can do about that. Just have to respect it.
Yeah that's good advice. Thanks a lot :)
You're welcome :)
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Respect her wishes and don't push it. She doesn't like it from what it sounds like and I don't blame her. Anal is not natural and is often harmful for the woman. If you truly love her, you can learn to enjoy natural vaginal sexual relations with her.
Well, dont then. The only thing you can do is not have anal here. If she doesn't want to do it... there's got to be a reason behind it. Talk to her. And if she doesn't want it, then youve got to forget the idea of anal.
Stick around woth her more.
All the best. Cheers
Give it time and start small and slowly gently approach do not ever just dip right in the backfires u must lube the hinges very well and take it very slow then she will get the same enjoyment and maybe even a phenomenal orgasm you may even use an oral approach with a delightful surprise pinky
Backdoor not backfires lol
Three years! Are you guys married yet?
Ask her to keep a plug in for some time.. it'll help her deal with the pain..
Mine had same problem..
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