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My girlfriend who had lived with me for two years was helping me clean out my attic. She found a box of my things and in it was a dvd with the name Melissa, which was my ex. She asked me what was on it and I told her she didn't want to know. I had forgotten it was even there. girlfriend runs downstairs and throws it in DVD player and suddenly sees me screwing Melissa. She watches for about three minutes before she turns it off, asking why did I keep it do I still have feelings for her? I tell my girlfriend no that I don't and I just forgot it was there. She throws the DVD at me and says I'm lying and storms out, sending a text later that she'll be staying with her sister tonight. What did I do wrong? Seriously I forgot it was there! Should I pursue her or leave her alone for a while? (FYI, my girlfriend and Melissa knew each other and my girlfriend hated her, and obviously still does).
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Thanks for all the replies. She sent a text at lunch today and asked if she could come over, and I'm thinking of course you can come over you live here!!! But when she got here she apologized for her behavior, and I apologized for having it in the house to begin with. I did what y'all suggested and broke DVD in front of her an that made her noticeably happier. Seems like this may blow over. Thanks to all.
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14 18Let her deal with it on her own, if she gets over it and comes back good. But you have to remember you made it and you have to take responsibility for it. If she asks questions be honest but don't volunteer anything else not a single word. Then let it go never go back to it
She's being uptight and not mature about it, just give her space
Let her cool off
haha yeah son, that's it.
Lol these all girls would be saying direct opposite if it was a guy in this situation, Explains why they lonely and bitter and like to make up shit on net
Well try to think of how you'd feel and how you'd react if you found and watched a sex tape your girlfriend had made with another guy while helping her clean her stuff out. Would you just not care? Would you be able to get that image out of your head? Would you be hurt because they did that with someone else?