Girlfriend says she can't feel anything during sex: what's wrong?

We have had sex four times and she says she likes it but also tells me she doesn't really "feel" much when were doing it.

I'm a big, alpha type guy- 6'4 and around 230 lbs so I dont think my junk is too small.

Could it be that she's just not sensitive down there? I want here to feel it somehow.
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  • Fundamental reason: you penetrated her before she was aroused sufficiently.

    Explanation:
    Girls feel orgasm differently from us guys. We are easy: thrust in a vagina and we will climax.

    Not that easy for girls. She may need to feel emotional connections. She may need breast or clit or butt or... stimulations before penetration means anything to her.

    To do:
    1) hold back your junk. You may show it, but not use it until all the following are done.

    2) take a warm bath or shower together. Offer to lather and wash her. Do it with care. Make her feel the intimacy.

    3) give her a full body non-sensual massage. Start from her head and shoulders, then back then hands then legs.

    Follow by sensual massages. Start from her breasts, then kiss and lick and caress her naval. Then give firm rubs on her butt and thighs.

    Finally her clitoris and surrounding area.

    4) alternative between hand job and now job on her clit, and if you dare, perineum + anus (you just bathe her...)

    5) she will reach a point where she is very we and "begs" you to penetrate her.

    She is ready.

    A) try doggy style and hopefully she has her g-spot stimulated to orgasm; or

    B) invite her to do cowgirl, reminding her to keep stimulating her clit by rubbing her groin region against yours.

    Finale: she should have either a clitoris or g-spot orgasm. Tbis means she finally feels something.

    Have fun and good luck.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Mine says that too, but it's because my black penis is smaller than average.
    She does it to humiliate me, which I like.
    Maybe your girlfriend is using too many vibrators or masturbating too much and it's decreasing her sensitivity?

Most Helpful Girl

  • You have to focus on her clit for a while.. maybe fuck her from behind while You rub it a certain way

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  • She needs to get her junk checked out

    Because it's not you

  • have you used steroids?