Girlfriend wants sex rough and forceful. Needing some tips and ideas please as I've never treated a girl like this before?

As in the heading, she wants it rough and forceful, any ideas please? I'm new to treating a lady this way. Thanks
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  • First of all, I vehemently disagree with @slackercruster. How women want to be treated in bed is in no way related to how they want to be seen in "real life." In my experience, some of the most aggressive and assertive ball crushers in real life are the most submissive and masochistic in bed.

    Dominance is more in your mind than anywhere else. The best advice is to just let out that animal all us guys have inside. Be selfish. Just grab her like the slut she is (ask her--there's a slut in every woman and a lot of them like to let her out if it's safe to do so) and do whatever you do in your darkest fantasies. If you think she's being a bad girl for wanting it rough, toss her roughly over your knee, bare the naughty, sassy ass, and spank the fire out of her, scolding her for being such a tart. If they're into it, and she clearly is, she'll love it. Just go all cave man on her.

  • First of all, decide on a safeword.
    Communication is key, so you may also want to introduce dirty talk is always good, so you should ask for constant feedback, like "you like that, don't you?" or "you won't be able to sit for 3 days when I'm done with you." as you do your thing, make sure you're commenting on what you're doing to her and how aroused it makes you feel.

    You probably should start with spanking her ass, then maybe her tits (lightly, increase intensity if you feel she's up for it), if she's okay with all that, maybe even her clit and face, though when you move onto those you should curb yourself and start with the once again with lightest of slaps.
    Grab onto her head when she's blowing you.
    When doggy, push her head into the mattress, you may even want to put your foot on her head, or have her suck one of your toes.

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  • Spank her. Ask her who's she is (answer is she's yours). Pull her hair. Blindfold her. Pin her down softly. Command her flatly. Tell her to spread her legs, she'll spread them. Tell her to start giving you head, she'll do it. She wants you to own her & control her, and you can still be loving about it.

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  • I'd tell her NO!

    Sure I can push her around a little. But if she wants someone to abuse her, choke her, slam her up against the wall and treat her like a whore... get somebody else.

    Even though I love to handle a gal like an octopus and it may not be respectful that way. When it comes to sex I try to treat girls tenderly, lovingly and caring. I treat them like a lady should be treated.

    • Yeah I'm with you, plus with all these false rape accusations coming up more and more, it would be real easy to be charged with rape. If the relationship goes bad, she can show the police picture of her bruises that she may receive from the rough sex, and your life is done forever.

  • I wouldn't have rough sex. If the relationship goes bad, she can go to the police that you raped her. All she's gotta do is show the marks that were left on her body from the rough sex and it's donzo for you.

  • through her legs all the way back and give it hell, that should work.

  • She probably wants to feel like she is not in control rather than feel physical pain.
    You can do that by tying her up gently, and maybe blindfolding her.
    Try Ginger or toothpaste on sensitive parts, stuff like that.
    Enema play is another option. You can get her to drink a lot of fluids then not let
    her go. Either of these can get messy when they can't hold it any longer
    so do it somewhere it won't matter.
    You'll find out what floats her boat...