Girls' orgasm vs guys' orgasm?

[Anonymous]

so I heard that I female orgasm is like 17x more intense than a male orgasm . not sure where but I thought that was interesting. I know that its hard to compare because no guy has had a female orgasm and no girl has had a male orgasm . but ladies what does it feel like? how long does the feeling last? for guys its pretty quick. what could you compare it feeling as good as?

[Ratty1975]

The longest orgasm I have ever has lasted around 40 seconds so to say that male orgasms are always really short is a bit of a myth. That particular orgasm though was the exception for me rather than the rule. I had abstained from ejaculating for about a week and a half and I was using an Aneros prostate massager. I had also taken my time, only stroking myself very gently and 'edging' for long perios of time. When I finally allowed myself to come it felt utterly amazing!

Usually though my orgasms typically last around 5-8 seconds. But, and here's the trade-off, the male orgasm is significantly easier to acheive than the female orgasm. As a man I'm usually pretty much guaranteed an orgasm every time but for some women there is no guarantee of an orgasm whatsoever.

As for the female orgasm being 17x stronger than the male orgasm - I'm afraid that's total hogwash! there is no evidence that I know of that conclusively proves that the female orgasm is that much more intense than the male orgasm. In fact, it may even be the other way around and that it is the male orgasm which is more intense than the female orgasm. In some ways that kind of makes sense, the female orgasm is less intense but lasts longer while the male orgasm is more intense but shorter.

Either way the important thing is to try and give your partner the most enjoyable orgasm you can give and also to give yourself the best orgasm you can give. I have never felt jealous of female orgasms - they might look or sound more intense but trust me, it ain't as simple as that. Women always tend to be more vocal during sex than men which can often give the impression that they are receiving more pleasure than you but in reality, the sensation of pleasure is usually about the same.

[Ubetiburn]

First off it is spelled ORGASM. Although our orgasms are short, they are physically and mentally draining. At the point of orgasm all our muscles tense as if the body needs the power to push our seed out then it is over and done with, time to sleep.

With a female the path to orgasm is long and tiresome but once they hit they do not come down until the feeling that pushed them stops. Then it is more like free falling through the sky and the jerk of the parachute is the ending.

Or so it has been explained to me.

I would want to be a female for a day or three just to feel and experience sex and orgasms from their point of view as well as to know what it was like to have boobs the objects of most men's thoughts...

[Anonymous]

nothing in my life has ever felt as good as an orgasm...and that's with masturbation, it must be even more amazing if a guy can make me cum...a few have been close but not quite there. hopefully my next boyfriend can. basically two guys were close through fingering or oral but they didn't keep doing it long enough for me to tip over the edge.

it is amazing! they vary in intensity though. I have only had one vaginal orgasm which was REALLY intense...usually I only have clitoral orgasms those can be really intense too and they are extremely pleasurable! like, AMAZING. nothing can compare in how good it feels.

i obviously don't know what a male orgasm feels like, but I have also heard that female orgasms are more intense but not as easy to achieve, men can come much more easily. for a woman it is often more mental. we have to be in the right mood, mindset, comfort level...i think men can get off more easily. it isn't always easy for me and after a lot of practice I can do it in a few minutes to myself if I am in the right mood but it can often take 15 min or more..

they are the best when you have not touched yourself in more than a day. if I do it every day it is good but nothing compares to an orgasm that I give myself after not masturbating for a few days...freaking heavenly! they also seem best around the time I would be ovulating.

[Opinion Owner]

oh and they usually last around ten seconds or so maybe more..they are sometimes long but they start to die down. they last much longer/feel stronger when as I said above I have gone more than a full day without doing it.

[samhradh_leannan]

They don't always feel the same or last the same amount of time, but for me they typically last about 10 seconds- or what feels like 10 seconds, anyway. There's nothing else that it feels like really, it's quite a unique sensation. The intensity varies as well, but it can be quite strong. It's definitely hard to describe and hard to compare.

[thisusername2]

I heard men's orgasms are stronger but women's last longer. Mine do last longer than any of my ex's. I hate it when they start asking if it was good and it's still going. LOL Can't really explain how it feels, can you explain how yours feels? It's not easy is it?

[Loveme2438]

Usually every men explain it's not as intense and stronger than a woman's orgasms. And then it was scientifically proven females do in fact much. ore stronger and longer and multiple orgasms than men.

[dan87]

i'd love to experience a 17x stronger orgasm

[Loveme2438]

Try becoming a female 😉

[Cowboy5]

If true, that may explain why girls get so attached to guy after sex. It may explain why some girls go from guy to guy so fast looking for the next one just like they are addicted to drugs.

[samhradh_leannan]

Girls get attached during sex more easily than guys do because they release more oxytocin during orgasm than guys. Of course, the additional oxytocin could somehow be linked to the additional intensity of the orgasm. WHo knows.

[Cowboy5]

Interesting article... would female's orgasm kill men? link

[TheUglyOne]

Interesting, but reeks of pseudoscience lol.

[Ratty1975]

Actually, it is usually the male body which produces more oxytocin following orgasm. Oxytocin is largely responsible for the refractory period (the period of time when, following orgasm, a male is unable to have another erection) it also makes us sleepy and feeling almost physically drained. If your partner falls asleep after he has cum, more than likely he can't help it - it's just a part of how mens body chemistry works!

[Loveme2438]

@samhradh_leannan this is biological and scientifically proven to be true. Females tend to produce much more oxytocin which allows them to experience a much more intense orgasm. As we all know oxytocin allows us to feel a stronger bond with one another. But what many don't know is that oxytocin allows for much more stronger and longer experience of orgasm and allows to experience multiple orgasms. Because the woman is the sex that produces much more oxytocin than the male body does, it was scientifically proven that females do indeed experience a much more intricate and intense overall orgasmic experience than males do.

[Loveme2438]

Also unfortunately testosterone inhibits oxytocin.

[antonlikesmlb]

If my orgasm was 17x more intense then my d*** would fall off.

[Asker]

Right that's what I'm saying I couldn't imagine it being that much more intense

[Loveme2438]

Try becoming a female 😉

[Anonymous]

Girls orgasms are great

[Anonymous]

Female orgasms are great

[Anonymous]

just ejaculating is not an orgasm men can have lengthy orgasms even multiple orgasms which would be very intense. But a female orgasm is different depending on if it's a clitoral stimulated O or a G spot stimulated O my most intense orgasms are clitoral but I only squirt with g spot it feels like I have to pee and it gets more intense and it's a plateau effect and the contracting makes it like little O bullets every time the walls contract it's a quick heighten intensity.