Girls, Girls- Can I continue to wear this underwear to bed at night when me and my girlfriend move in together?

[Anonymous]

This is a question for girls to answer. Me and my girlfriend have been dating for little over a year, and are about to move to move in together. She is aware that at night I sleep in just my underwear, no pants, no shirt, but what she doesn’t know is that the underwear I wear to bed at night is not the same as the underwear I wear during the day. During the day I wear boxers, when I have slept over place I was wearing boxers. But when I am home at night I wear mens Hanes bikini briefs. I have attached photos of the underwear from the target websiteI only wear these to bed at night, usually the blues or reds, I just find them more comfortable to sleep in then boxers. As you can see these are not your typical mens briefs. I am not sure what my girlfriend is going to think the first night we are living together and she sees my coming into bed in nothing but these bikini briefs. I am also not sure if I should tell her about this in advance, cause when I go to bed I only sleep in my underwear. No shirt no pants, just these bikini briefs. Girls what would you think the boyfriend you were about to move in with only slept in these bikini briefs? Would it be something that you could get used to? Would you be ok with it? Do you think I should tell her in advance?

[Katie1964]

If that's what you want to wear, sure why not. It's a lot more than Hubby wears around the house and in bed.

[Asker]

Im honestly not sure if I should tell or not because right now whats basically gonna happen is the first night we are living together and it time for bed Im gonna basically be walking in the room to get in bed in just those bikini briefs the same as I do every night, and hope she doesn't complain. The reason I think she might be a little bothered by them is because obviously they look like women's briefs and I primarily wear and have the red and blue pairs. Is there any joke or something you would suggest I say to easy the tension for if she is a little bothered by it?

[Katie1964]

I don't think they look like women's briefs. Just own them and you be you. She probably will think that they are sexy.

[Faith18letsgo]

Absolutely! Those are so cute! She’ll probably try to play with you, you showing off your package and all. But jokes aside, lots of guys wear bikini breifs and I don’t think you have to worn her in advance. Also congratulations on moving in together!!

[laraWM]

I wouldn't mind. I mean if my boyfriend is comfortable to sleep, I'm fine with it

[Asker]

Is there something that you would recommend I say when she sees me in them as a joke or something? Because right now this is basically Im walking in the bedroom in just these bikini briefs ready to lay in bed.

[laraWM]

No just act normally. Everything will be ok

[BrookeAZ90]

There's nothing wrong with them. You're not going to have an issue.

[Asker]

Is there something that you would recommend I say when she sees me in them as a joke or something? Because right now this is basically Im walking in the bedroom in just these bikini briefs ready to lay in bed.

[BrookeAZ90]

What on earth would you need to make a joke about? Just get in bed. Nothing about this is complicated.

[Asker]

What I mean is if she acts a little odd about them and I need to break the tension some how.

[Sour-rose]

Hhhhm. Yeah, i dont' see what's stoppin' ya

[Asker]

It nit so much whats stopping me, when I am home and go to bed at night, I sleep in just those bikini briefs, I find them comfortable to sleep in. She is going to see me in them the first night we are living together. The concern is that they do look a little girly.

[Sour-rose]

Okaaay? I don't need to drop an example of what men do that may seem girly to some

[Asker]

Anything else?

[Sour-rose]

Nope. If you find them comfortable, then you don't be worried about what is to happen when she comes. Reminds me of a creepypasta honestly. Guy wears a ski mask every night, regardless of his new wife. She did't get it but he got the girl.

[Apple1996]

Those undies are cute. Wouldn't bother me if s guy slept in those

[Asker]

Im honestly not sure if I should tell or not because right now whats basically gonna happen is the first night we are living together and it time for bed Im gonna basically be walking in the room to get in bed in just those bikini briefs the same as I do every night, and hope she doesn't complain. The reason I think she might be a little bothered by them is because obviously they look like women's briefs and I primarily wear and have the red and blue pairs. Is there any joke or something you would suggest I say to easy the tension for if she is a little bothered by it?

[Nikki1989]

Yeah, why not?

[Asker]

Its not the “why not?” thats the problem. When I am home and go to bed at night, I sleep in just those bikini briefs, I find them comfortable to sleep in. She is going to see me in them the first night we are living together. The concern is that they do look a little girly and Im not sure the best way for her to find out about them?

[christinaG]

No it's not bad I believe that you have to wear these during the day also

[Asker]

Why would I have to wear them during the day also?

[rociosal]

It's normal it's fine, you will see things from her too

[Asker]

Guys sleeping in their underwear is normal. But the bikini briefs I wear to bed do look like women's briefs. Is this something you would be ok with if your boyfriend wore to bed. Please keep in mind I don't wear a shirt or pants just the underwear.

[Asker]

Is this something that you would be ok with your boyfriend doing?

[rociosal]

Both are underwear, it's normal for me