Girls, do circumcised guys have trouble with orgasms from oral sex? Guys, if you are circumcised, is oral sex hard to climax from?

[Anonymous]

I just ask, because I do, and I am circumcised, unfortunately.

[RickPen]

I can count on one hand the times I've orgasmed from oral sex, and each one has taken no less than two hours without a break. While it is technically possible, it's a miserable experience for the girl, and not exactly pleasurable for me.

I also can't really orgasm from sex, either. Nothing is wrong with my penis, other than damage from what's considered a very normal circumcision. Urologists often see this in adult men from I've been told by some of the ones I've seen, along with a host of other issues.

I am very much against forced circumcision and even a preference for it. If we're appalled at cutting women, we should be equally so regarding men. Sadly, the US dislikes males and thinks a normal penis is dirty, or inherently diseased.

[pepperhicks]

I am circumcised but I do not think circumcision has much to do with ability to orgasm. If you cannot cum from oral sex with a woman you are attracted to, it is most likely a different issue.

[Asker]

So you can do it?

[pepperhicks]

Yes, in as little as 60 seconds if the woman is great at it and it is without a condom. There are "milkers", great women who do not want your first easy orgasm. They want you to go again and make them cum, and for you to cum again.

[Asker]

Well, I am getting better at being able to orgasm through penetrative sex. If it is a different issue, then what seems to be the issue? If you do not mind me asking, how large are you? Larger guys tend to have an easier time, since they aren't suffering from performance anxiety.

[pepperhicks]

I am a bit above average but if anxiety about size is a problem, know that most women are not looking for huge cocks. It is an inconvenience in the least. My wife is petite and I have to take is slower with her than with other women I have been with. I would not want to be any larger. In any case, there are relaxation techniques you can use to be comfortable with a partner and to manage anxiety in general. https://www.mindful.org/how-to-meditate/ Women want their partner to be relaxed but confident and willing to show them how much you treasure their company.

[Asker]

I would like to be a bit larger (I am 6 inches, about 5-5.5 inches in girth) by one inch, but I have to play the cards I am dealt. I am shocked that you say you wouldn't want to be larger... At least with a large penis, guys can learn to use it without hurting their partner. Whereas guys with small dicks... They can only do so much (Guys with large dicks can learn good foreplay and to eat her out too). Like did you have any complaints about your size? I know that in your lifetime, you have to have one person comment about it. Well, I am told that I am about above average like you, although I still think it looks small. The one I am with now, says that I do touch her cervix, but I do not hit it, and I apparently make her vagina hurts after sex... I doubt that means that I am large by any account. However, I am getting better, especially with the use of Sildenafil, as it makes my experience a heck of a lot less stressful.