Girls, Do women really "check out" men in public?

Do women check out men? I never seem to see women doing it, and I feel like as a guy all I do is check out women.

My question is do women "check out" men at all in public? You know, like stare or admire them as they're walking by.. stuff like that.

If so what body parts do women admire? It's not like men usually where very tight fitting clothing or expose much. So the only thing you could "check out" could be men's faces, right? So often I (you?)

Hear that for women sexual attraction really is not about the physicality of it, but about the mind and about connection.

It's a basic knowledge that people always check out what they are attracted to. Girls aren't attracted to guys until they form a emotional connection with him, so logically looking at random guys is as boring as looking at pillar, signboard and street.

Another thing is attractive guys doesn't attract women because women don't know them personally, women are attract to the person whom they feel comfort and know personally. So, they are sexually attracted to ugly guy whom they know personally?
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  • Honestly

    Youngsters/students do it heavily, especially those living in the 'gett laid' culture when young. But apart from young girls and <21-23ish

    I've NEVER EVER seen women checkout men in public.

    The most I've seen is ugly or fat women do it when in a bunch and make it obvious, but even those be 99% young immature student sort, early 20s.

    Apart from them, no, never. The most I seen is quick glances.

    My two best mates always tell me 'she was staring at you' or 'she was looking at you when you were there' but I never see it lol and never know when that happened either so I usually disagree with them.

    It happened last night at the fuel station wound 11.30am. This girl pulled in and she was pretty and heavily dressed up. Obv on a night out, but wearing nothing sleazy. Everyone at the station was staring at her, guys driving laps to see her. Me and her did a first glance as soon as I pulled in. We both looked away. She had long hair falling in front of her face sides so unless she flicked your way, she wouldn't see you and you couldn't really see her face either (she was facing away from everyone).

    Mate said that while I was outside the car talking to him, she was 'checking you out'. He said you went in and she had already come out but she sat in car staring at you through the window for a while.

    But I fail to see that happening. Maybe it's my car they look at...

    Sometimes I think both the mates must be weird. As I never notice such girls.

    But both of them DO stare at girls. In a really creepy way.

    Me, I rarely look or stare at a woman in public. It's rare. Unless I'm laughing at her for something strange like her silly clothes.. It's rare.

  • Yeah, women check men out. They just pretend they don't and say they weren't looking at you when they get caught.

    • Hahaha

    • SO TRUE LOL

    • @latinabutterfly96 Yahh we dudes have pretty much figured it out😄

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  • I check out guys way too much lately. I’ve kinda reached the point of feeling desperate to find a boyfriend -a really awful feeling! (My 2 year older sister just had a baby with her boyfriend through 4 years and my 2 year hunger sister is living with her boyfriend that she’s been with for nearly 6 years. -I live alone in a small flat in a town where I don’t know many) So it’s like every guy I pass my mind just automatically check out and a small conversation will start in my head, starting with either “he’s cute” or “no, not my type” and I feel so judgemental! And it just seems so wrong that every time I pass someone I “scan them with the goal to find a potential mate” -it feels very primitive to me and the conversation in my head usually ends up with me calling myself a shallow creep! But I can’t really control it!
    Usually I fouls on the face of a guy, but also how he’s overall built -and no, buff guys with a crazy six pack is not the sexiest thing in the world 😉

    • Aww you'll find someone! You're beautiful so any guy would be lucky to be with you

    • You have no room to judge. You have messed up teeth. Lol

    • Lol no she doesn't. They're not even bad

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  • It's rare that I check a guy out, but it happens when it's someone very attractive. It only happens a few times a year though. Most men are ugly or average to me and I don't check them out. And no, it's not true that women can't be attracted to someone before they known them personally. A random guy can definitely be attractive. That he's attractive doesn't mean I want to have sex with him though. It means I want to get to know him and wonder what it would be to have a relationship with him.

    And no, I don't check women out or think they're sexy. I have no interest in women, I'm straight.

    • Do you checkout women more than men? If yes then why? Most straight women of this site say, they can't feel sexual attraction without being in a relationship with the person even they don't find guys attractive before knowing the person. They can't recognize good looking, sexy face until they know the person. When do they see their opposite sex they can just recognize whether the person has symmetry/asymmetry face, chicken leg/masculine leg, chicken hand/masculine hand, whether they are tall or short but until talking with them, until knowing them they can't recognize them which guy is attractive. It is widely said that women feel physical turn on only if they have some sort of connection with the person. They don't feel physical attraction before knowing the person. When they see guys doesn't matter how hot they are they won't feel any attraction physically or sexually until they know him a little bit and until interaction with him.

    • I told you already I don't check out women. I have no interest in women and do not check them out at all. And that's bullshit. It may be true for some, but for all women definitely not. We can feel physical attraction before we know the person. However, like I said, just because I find a guy physically attractive that doesn't mean I wanna have sex with him. I have no interest in sex with guys I am not in love with.

    • Sexual attraction and action is different. SO you don't feel any attraction when do you see guys?

  • well i mean of course they do, though they usually play it off as shy shit and giggle. i've been next to a lot of supposed shy girls only to watch them put their hand over their mouth, looking shy but actually talking about how she'd like to have sex with them or what his dick size is and other freaky shit. not all do that obviously but trust me, they check shit out too lol

    • Do you checkout women more than men? If yes then why?

  • the "girls aren't attracted to guys until they form an emotional connection" isn't that accurate. i do check men out, a lot, especially if they're hairy or wearing thobes, or just look hot (my taste) in general.

    i'm not embarrassed about it and can confidently say i also do masturbate to the thought of the men i check out. =)

    • young arabic girl ,,,, still 15 and knows all that stuff

    • lol why

    • very young of that

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  • I don’t check out men though I appreciate the way they look. I check women and I’m straight because I’m always trying to look my nest when I see another female looking good it motivates me To do the same. Men I find aren’t attractive enough to fully check out unless they have a mind on them worthy talking to first

    • What makes you straight then if you don't attracted to men at the first place?

    • I’m attracted to men but it’s weird I don’t have a drive to go checking them out. I’m attracted to their personality and I like dick not pussy.

    • How can you recognize his personality in the first place?

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  • Definitely check them out, but not necessarily intentionally. If a guy is really attractive, I’ll turn my head, sure. I think that’s just people in general though, unless they’re the type not attracted to anybody.

    • Do you checkout women more than men? If yes then why? Most straight women of this site say, they can't feel sexual attraction without being in a relationship with the person even they don't find guys attractive before knowing the person. They can't recognize good looking, sexy face until they know the person. When do they see their opposite sex they can just recognize whether the person has symmetry/asymmetry face, chicken leg/masculine leg, chicken hand/masculine hand, whether they are tall or short but until talking with them, until knowing them they can't recognize them which guy is attractive. It is widely said that women feel physical turn on only if they have some sort of connection with the person. They don't feel physical attraction before knowing the person. When they see guys doesn't matter how hot they are they won't feel any attraction physically or sexually until they know him a little bit and until interaction with him.

    • Can’t speak for all women. As a straight woman, I check out men far more. I can recognize a woman that is attractive that I might aspire to be more like, but there’s no sexual attraction there. I can be attracted physically to a guy, but if you’re talking about a deep, sexual attraction where the only thing I’m thinking about is that guy, then yeah. There needs to be some sort of emotional connection there.

    • But what is the difference do you feel when do you see attractive member of your same sex and opposite sex?

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  • I always do. I evaluate how well they’d feminize.

    • Mmm love it feminize me anytime

    • do you checkout women also?

  • Think we all know who this asker is, based on the phrasing and the fact that there is no "Women check out men" option.

    • LMAO 😂 a sexist bastard who has a sick obsession to evolution in order to boost his ego?

    • @latinabutterfly96 Do you checkout women more than men? If yes then why? Most straight women of this site say, they can't feel sexual attraction without being in a relationship with the person even they don't find guys attractive before knowing the person. They can't recognize good looking, sexy face until they know the person. When do they see their opposite sex they can just recognize whether the person has symmetry/asymmetry face, chicken leg/masculine leg, chicken hand/masculine hand, whether they are tall or short but until talking with them, until knowing them they can't recognize them which guy is attractive. It is widely said that women feel physical turn on only if they have some sort of connection with the person. They don't feel physical attraction before knowing the person. When they see guys doesn't matter how hot they are they won't feel any attraction physically or sexually until they know him a little bit and until interaction with him.

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  • To be honest, I don't check on men because I'm simply not interested in mingling yet, but I've seen a few of my friends at school check out guys that are probably their crushes. It's just me.

    • Why are you even in this site your 13

    • @soreel34 Teenagers want to learn stuff too. Nothing wrong with that.

    • I get it but dammn when I was 13 I was worried about my basketball skills

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  • There isn't an option for women check out men... that is the answer. women do it all the time!! I do it all the time, my friends do it all the time, random women I don't know, I see/hear them do it all the time. I usually check out their face for the most part but it's certainly not limited to just facial features. Also some people are better at hiding it... I, however, am not so discreet.

    • 😮 wow

    • Do you checkout women more than men? If yes then why?

    • are you also attracted to girls?

  • Lol your poll options are so biased.

    If I see an attractive guy and I'm alone, I'm just kinda like "omg don't stare don't stare"

    If I'm with girlfriends, I'll nudge them and point him out. But either way, I try to be discreet. Staring is rude and creepy.

    • Guys need to hear stuff like this more often, your doing the lords work

    • Do you checkout women more than men? If yes then why? Most straight women of this site say, they can't feel sexual attraction without being in a relationship with the person even they don't find guys attractive before knowing the person. They can't recognize good looking, sexy face until they know the person. When do they see their opposite sex they can just recognize whether the person has symmetry/asymmetry face, chicken leg/masculine leg, chicken hand/masculine hand, whether they are tall or short but until talking with them, until knowing them they can't recognize them which guy is attractive. It is widely said that women feel physical turn on only if they have some sort of connection with the person. They don't feel physical attraction before knowing the person. When they see guys doesn't matter how hot they are they won't feel any attraction physically or sexually until they know him a little bit and until interaction with him.

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  • Yes, we do. Although I'm very subtle and you're probably not going to notice.

    I'm generally a physique/muscle girl - go to the gym and I'll notice you. (as long as you're not a completely ripped bodybuilder, there's a fine line in looking good and it being too much).

    • Yeah that's generally the case with most women. I don't know why some guys don't go to the gym

    • Do you checkout women more than men? If yes then why? Most straight women of this site say, they can't feel sexual attraction without being in a relationship with the person even they don't find guys attractive before knowing the person. They can't recognize good looking, sexy face until they know the person. When do they see their opposite sex they can just recognize whether the person has symmetry/asymmetry face, chicken leg/masculine leg, chicken hand/masculine hand, whether they are tall or short but until talking with them, until knowing them they can't recognize them which guy is attractive. It is widely said that women feel physical turn on only if they have some sort of connection with the person. They don't feel physical attraction before knowing the person. When they see guys doesn't matter how hot they are they won't feel any attraction physically or sexually until they know him a little bit and until interaction with him.

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  • Yes they check them out often. why is there no option 'yes women check out men' I mean that is the question. its like you want them to vote no.

    • Do you checkout women more than men? If yes then why?

    • no, I'm not a lesbian or bisexual. I'm only interested in men so I check them out. it happens that I look at a woman and admire her clothes, or nice hair or nice figure, but its a very different way. when I check out men I think ''wow he's fine''. I look at men 100% more than women. I don't know why you think heterosexual girls would check out girls more

    • It is widely said that women feel physical turn on only if they have some sort of connection with the person. They don't feel physical attraction before knowing the person. When they see guys doesn't matter how hot they are they won't feel any attraction physically or sexually until they know him a little bit and until interaction with him. Thats the reason straight women don't feel any impulse to check out men rather they feel safe to check out random women. Women are 100% more sexier than men and their body amuse women more than men. Most of the time sight of an attractive women turn women on. That's why women are pretty disinterested to look at random men whom they never meet before or don't have any emotional connection.

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  • I look at both men and women but I don’t stare I just glance

    • So, you are attracted to both men and women?

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  • Depends on the woman. For me personally, not really. I don’t care. When I’m walking outside, I’m so focused at getting from point a to point b that the people around me become a blur. I focus more on the cars/buses and trams.

    • SO, you checkout girls?

    • No. Like I said the *people* around me become a blur.

    • So, you are asexual?

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  • I checkout men but i've never seen a man checkout a woman

    • You've never seen a man checkout a woman? Really? Have you ever been outside?

    • @StickStickity13 of course, but most guys (and girls for the most part) are actually really subtle about it. You wouldn't be able to tell. I know this is a wogs vs aussies video but it kind of illustrates what I mean https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FBUGdpmkOwA at 2:14. Most guys aren't the second type they're the first, you couldn't tell.

    • Wow. You should look at me "check out" girls, sometime. I just keep staring at them like a freaking idiot, and it probably makes them all uncomfortable (maybe). And I go hit my head somewhere, for making them feel like that.

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  • I don't really catch myself checking out guys like ever.
    Some ladies might browse with their eyes though :)

    • Do you checkout women more than men?

  • They are subtle you will usually only see it when there is a group.

  • Oh, all the time if he is my type, especially if I am with friends.

    • How do you know whether he is your type or not until knowing him for a long time?

    • Two words: pretty boys

    • Do you you checkout women more than men?

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  • Yes but i

    • do you checkout women also?

  • WTF is with these options. I check out men all the time.

  • Um, of course. I think we tend to be more discreet than guys about it but yeah, we do it

  • Yes, we just happen to be more subtle than most men are when they check women out.

    • Do you checkout women more than men?

    • I don't see what that has to do with the question at hand.

    • Nothing but I am curious. Do you checkout women more than men?

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  • I glance at guys walking by but i don't gawk or stare or... be as open as guys are with it.. but i do look. Lol

    • Do you checkout women more than men?

    • Answer?

  • Is these a troll poll?
    I assume not looking for real reply :(

    • Do you checkout women more than men?

    • I don't think so Think kind of the same for the most part

    • It is widely said that women feel physical turn on only if they have some sort of connection with the person. They don't feel physical attraction before knowing the person. When they see guys doesn't matter how hot they are they won't feel any attraction physically or sexually until they know him a little bit and until interaction with him. Thats the reason straight women don't feel any impulse to check out men rather they feel safe to check out random women.

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