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  • I have an interesting perspective. I'm happily married to an awesome guy who 16 years younger than me. He's a great husband, great stepdad, and great dad to the 2 kids we've had together. However, the age gap wasn't an issue for us largely because he lacked many of the traits that make dating younger men difficult. He was very mature for his age (so we matched in maturity) and he was a college grad with a good job (so I was never a "sugar mama"). The kids thing also wasn't an issue because I always wanted more kids (only reason why I didn't is because of my ex). I was also able to, but even if I wasn't he said he'd be happy to adopt.
    There are major perks in being with a much younger guy. He's got a lot more energy, lasts longer, and has a rocking body. However, I still would have much rather dated the typical man 20 years older than me than 20 years younger than me. The reason it worked out for me and my husband is because he's much more the exception than the rule.

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  • Older. Biggest crush I ever had was 7 years older than me.


    He said I was too young. 😕

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  • I'd date guys my age, but I prefer older men.

  • Older like up to 25 years older... they're not as wild... they typically don't use drugs... they have money to take me out with... and they like blowjobs which i love to give.

  • Older. Between 30 and 50 is my "sweet spot" as far as men go.

  • Usually older. I am 26, I prefer to date men from the age of 26-30. (I have dated older than that but prefer not to) But that being said, when it comes to just sex I don't mind them being a few years younger. Especially since they tend to be more excited.

  • Older (8-12 years). I’m 21.