Girls, does your boyfriend ask for blowjobs? Guys, do you ask?

And girls tell me how you feel about a guy asking you to suck his penis
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I've always been a open and up front person and find that the easiest way to get something you want is to not beat around the bush about it and just ask. I love sucking his penis in the first place so can't imagine anytime I wouldn't be up for it when he asks.

  • I've never been asked for one, it's something I automatically like doing so it happens enough anyway I guess. I'm not sure I'd take well to being asked, but it would depend on the situation and how they went about it.

  • He doesn't ask.
    And he doesn't push my head because that's a good way to get slapped!
    I think if he did shit like that I would not do it. That said, this doesn't mean I don't do it, because I do.

Most Helpful Guys

  • I don't ask. Some just do it and if they don't, I assume they don't want to so I don't want to ask them. Its wonderful but not a requirement for me. If I love her, it doesn't matter, there's more than enough other things to keep me very happy.

    • ty 4 mh

  • It works better to suggest naptime or playtime and let her decide what to play with

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  • My fiance has never asked me to give him one in the 6 years we've been together. He doesn't like to make me feel uncomfortable because he knows that I don't like doing it. I honestly think it depends on the guy that you have.
    I wouldn't do it if he were to continuously asked me to do it and he knows that I don't like it.
    But if he Just asked once Nicely I might consider it

  • my most recent ex boyfriend didn't have to ask me for anything when it comes to the bedroom. it actually would have turned me off if he did ask. you just have to let things happen it is more exciting and enjoyable that way.

  • If a guy asks me right by just grabbing my hair instead of sounding pouty. Its a huge turnoff when guys wine when they ask. If you do say it say something like suck it bitch..that makes it ok. A lotta the time im the one adking if I can suck it though. I love it

  • He shouldn't have to. I have never had to be asked but I guess I would be cool with it. Usually its kind of like the minimum expected requirement.

  • I went down on him before he really had to ask me to. I tend to like to take charge, though.

  • I don't ask for services no one does well.

  • No I've never asked. I wouldn't want it if she didn't want to give it.

  • I have never been asked, because its something I do on a regular.

    • I'm in love...

    • lol, funny guy

  • If he asks nicely, I'd do it. But not if he uses the same phrasing as you did lol

    • I originally wrote "suck his disgusting penis" but then I thought that wasn't objective enough

  • I ask. Any man/women who has a problem being asked needs to do some growing up before they get involved in sexual relationships.

    • Are you stating that as a fact because you have solid evidence backing it up? Or is it that maybe you think saying something boldly somehow transforms your opinion into a human reality, allowing you not to question yourself by contemplating the possibility that your own perception of a sexual relationship might not be the absolute truth, which might consequently shake your evidently strong belief in how right and mature you are?

    • Communication is a vital component for healthy mature relationships, this is a well established fact. If you disagree with this then please provide the solid evidence to back it up. You are either really bad at veiling your projection or you are in fact asking those questions. If it's the first then you should take your own advice and not worry so much about how highly I choose to value communication skills in intimate relationships. If it's the second then then answers are no, I simply prefer to speak plainly.

    • Having a problem with something being asked of you has nothing to do with lacking communication. However saying that they have a problem with it is actually a stellar manifestation of it, and to cripple the legitimacy of their feeling with your ill-founded claims of immaturity is manipulative. Speaking plainly is absolutely fine, I don't have one bad word to say about it. But so is feeling any single way about it. I might even say that anyone who states otherwise might need some growing up to do.

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  • Yes he asks. And I'm honestly shy about doing it but I'm okay with him asking. I do it. And it pleases me to please him. I'm not amazing at blow jobs , I probably suck. But I try my best for him lol. Practice makes perfect right? Haha.

    • sucking is the point

  • No my boyfriend doesn't have to ask for one, I give him one anyway I just know when he wants one. But if he does ask then sure! There's no certain way to feel when they ask you?

    • What if it was the norm that whenever he wants a blowjob he asks you for one?

    • He can wait whenever I feel like it. I'll do him a favor unless he does me a favor, I would get annoyed he wants one I'll give him one but he can be patient :)

  • I didn't realize it was something that needed asking.

    Usually when I come home from work I sit on the couch and she brings me a beer and gives me one while being on her knees.

    Been that way for 5 years now.

  • Most guys ask for one at some time in the relationship.

    • What if he asked for it regularly?

    • My guess is it would depend on if you like giving them or not?

  • he doesn't ask and i wouldn't want to be asked to (especially how you worded it) unless we were already fooling around. i would rather do it as my own idea (randomly) than be asked to like im some kind of on demand sex robot.

  • He doesn't need to ask, I just do it. Blow jobs are fun and I enjoy them and I love to surprise him with one.

    • How would you feel if he asked you for it? And if he asked you every time he saw you?

    • I wouldn't care, he can ask too. As often as he wants. I just think it's really hot to give him one out of the blue but only if he is okay with that.