Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
Pretty intense title, I know.
This myTake is for the girls out there who are afraid to enjoy themselves sexually because of what gram-gram told you when you were eating alphabet soup.
Your grandma was doing the things that she condemns you doing and it's because she knows exactly how much you'll love it and possibly run away with Fabio's luscious manly body.
I say, fuck what society thinks. We are the new generation and we decide! I'm not saying there should be open orgies down at the grocery store, what I am saying is to not fear what it is you want to do!
You meet a really sexy guy but are afraid he'll think of you as a slut. If he got to know you, and you can sense that he's into you for you - go for it, because you'll only be missing out on tons of fun and new heights of living.
This whole feminism thing has gotten way to out of control. Woman like a man who can seduce them and give them passionate sex till the wee hours of the morning. Don't kid yourself. How do I know? Because I live it everyday.
And for any guy reading this, you're welcome. Don't be ashamed to go for what you what, be ashamed if you're going about it the wrong way! Go out there and be a desirable woman, like attract like, and you'll find yourself a desirable man ;)
Let your hair down and live! Viva la vida!
What Girls & Guys Said
20 25Slutshaming is BS, Its societies way of trying to control sex, which is also BS
Honestly do what you want
Be a virgin or don't I personally don't give a flying horse's ass
lmao dude, we dont need to encourage women to be sluttier than they are now.
I sometimes get this urge to hit people in the head who talk stupid.. Should I be fearless and act on it as well? Who's to judge right?
You answer your own question. Sex is something that needs to happen. We have laws regarding age, mutual consent, and doing it in a "private" place. Whenever sex happens under those parameters - anything opinion is social policing and is entirely up to the partners to listen or dismiss. Hitting people in the head on the street will surely have consequences. The guy beating the shit out of you, you getting arrested, you getting ostracized by that society (because you're being odd and just smacking people who are stupid). Should you be fearless and act on it as well? I say no. You say whatever you want. The consequences will follow.
i love sluts.
Anyone who listens to this. Enjoy your foodstamps.
This post is so retarded. Inviting women to be whores, can it get any worse?
I agree. I never call someone a slut before. The only place that I would call someone a slut is in bed in a kinky fun way
Slut shaming should go both ways or neither.
i think you're lost. You have no idea what you're talking about. Congrats!
Oh yeah.
slut shaming is bullshit.
also, not calling a slut a slut is bullshit.
see what i mean?
slut = both sexes. It's ok the explore your body and get the most out it with pleasure
it's not ok when you act on purpose like somebody DEVIOUS liying to get sex from
whatever dude/girl you happen to encounter.
fuck sluts... & fuck sluts!
okay women have to get over this whole slut shame shit
cause guess what most of these women do it
so please stop this bull crap I call it like I see it
if she's a slut I'll call her a slut end of story
"it's mostly women who slutshame" "if she's a slut i'll call her a slut"
Who's dirtier - the girl who after having sex with 2 guys weekly but cleans herself before and after and keeps up with general personal hygiene or the girlfriend who sucks her boyfriend off after he gets home from the gym and is all sweaty and disgusting. I think a monkey could point out the cleaner one. You're right, slut shaming is done by girls to girls. But also by guys who get upset when a girl doesn't pick them over some other guy.
Girls are bad enough whores as it is...
Quit feeding them...
It's bad enough all they have to do is lift two fingers and call it a "job," to survive...
The girls I know are going to school for med, law, or writing and all seem to devote numerous amounts of time to their careers and hobbies AND have a healthy sex life with guys.
Don't allow to slutshame you? lol
How can girls prevent it?
Be stronger than their influence.
feminists try to make people not to slutshame. So they should try to not get offended instead?
I'm not understanding, help me understand.
This stuff's good, especially that it's targeted at people who are afraid of this.
But then there's a huge problem with girls feeling insecure when the sexy man only wants that - sex, and doesn't want a relationship. Lots of us girls just have no clue how to stop feelings from getting in the way. For those of us with lesser control, it's probably a safer bet to keep our legs closed until we see an emotionally reliable man, and build confidence and a relationship with him, rather than keep opening our legs, and keep feeling like we've been used every time when we become rejected as soon as our feelings and personality come up rather than our body.
I'm not saying your take is wrong by any means. Your take is great! It's just that I wish more girls would bear in mind they don't NEED to explore sex with every single guy they want to have sex with, especially if they don't think they're able to handle the emotional stress they may feel yet. I just get frustrated when I see girls hurt over their stupid fuckbois.
ironic that I've been slut shamed countless times and I'm not promiscuous at all, I'm a virgin for gods sake!
It is ironic. That's how intense the slut shaming is. It's people own internal issues that cause them to want to control everyone else's lifestyle and be the validator of what's right and wrong. Just because the majority thinks something does not make it true, it just means that's 99.9% the decision that will be "policed" on to everyone else.
Couldn't have said it better myself :) totally agree with you
a slut rest a slut even if a lot of guys does likes slut
Another guy who is groveling at feminists feet. Grow a pair and tell these ladies to stop being whores.
America NEEDS sluts. Serve your country today, freedom ain't free!
I've gotten slut shamed and I'm a virgin.