Girls giving BJ after sex VS Guys eating out after sex?

Girls can be expected to give guys a BJ after cumming, but guys can't be expected to eat girls out after cumming inside them. Do you think this statement is fair or unfair?
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In case you didn't get it, I'm trying to figure out how many people see this as a double standard and how many see the difference between the two situations.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I totally agree with Evangelina.

    I don't necessarily think it's a question that needs a fair/unfair answer, I just believe the it depends on the people. Guys don't really want to lick themselves up in a sense, Girls sometimes are a lot more comfortable with that aspect. But I believe that there are some people out there who would do whatever to make you happy. My guy, likes to have me suck him off afterwards, because then It turns him on again, he thinks it's incredibly hot. If a guy was up for the same for me, I would think it was hot too. But like I said. It's the people. If you think it's unfair then find someone who doesn't have a problem doing that for you. With relationships comes so many different factors; sexual compatibility being one of them.

  • I think guys prefer eating out a girl as part of foreplay,to give the girl an orgasm and prepare for vaginal sex.

    I think both genders see vaginal and male fluids differently.Many girls like kissing after a guy goes down on them and guys like kissing after going down on a chick,but some girls like kissing after giving a blowjob,and many guys don't.Vaginal fluids are viewed differently than penis

    I wouldn't expect a guy to eat me out after c*mming inside,but I would give a blow job after c*mming.

    No one should expect oral sex at any time

    • I didn't mean "expect" like they have to give oral. I was getting at, like you said, the difference between male and female fluids.

    • I just added that,I wasn't necessarily directing it towards anyone

    • And I picked "Fair"

  • I don't think anyone should "expect" anyone else to do anything, it should be done if both people involved want to do it.

    Personally, my partner and I have no problem with either situation. That being said, if he didn't enjoy eating me out after he came inside me, it wouldn't bother me and I wouldn't pressure him to do it.

Most Helpful Guys

  • if I come outside her I would provably eat her out no problem

    if I came inside its no way I'm going down on her that's like eating my own come

    i wouldn't try and force a girl to suck me off after sex but honestly I would proably try and talk her into it

  • I'll come inside her, eat her out, then stick my tongue down her throat. If it won't poison her, it won't poison me. Good sex is messy. If you can't handle that fact you shouldn't be doing it at all.

    • Eating your own come does not equal good sex.

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  • she eats my come it doesn't kill her

    ill eat my come it doesn't kill me, it really turns her on.

    its not like your cuming in her ass and sucking it out.

  • I'm fine with it as long as I don't come inside of her. But I don't expect her to give me a bj after I've been inside of her either. If she does that, it is on her but I wouldn't ask or expect that because she may not want to taste her own fluids.

  • man juice is like cells and stuff women juice is probably a lot closer to water than anything so I don't think its the same thing.

  • unfair, you scratch my back and I'll scratch yours

  • I think what's fair for 1 is fair for the other...that also goes for women on their periods..men should please them as well if the man gets pleased :)

  • if I am going to give a guy a BJ then I want him to eat me out

    • befor or after sex