Girls, If a guy spits up & wipes his tongue after oral sex?

He goes down on you and right when you finish he wipes his tongue with a towel (that he keeps by his side) and spits up as if he's disgusted, is that a turn off or deal breaker?
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I asked this because girls justify spitting out... I personally enjoy swallowing and giving is fun for me. I think swallowing is probably the biggest accomplishment cause it's the fruits of your labor
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  • What a strange guy, this is the first I have heard of such behaviour, because for a guy not to enjoy everything about going down on a girl and feel as if he needs to wipe after is very bloody strange. This would be like, wtf are you doing, you really know how to make a girl feel good about herself, and make an effort to find a guy that appreciates the talents of a woman, not some crazed fool thinking he is making a valid point, because all he is doing is making himself look like a jerk, a big one. What a weirdo.

  • LOL because this has always been how I explained swallowing to girls.

    I'm definitely not afraid of my girl's juices, though.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Not a deal breaker but it would definitely be a turn-off. I imagine that's how guys feel when girls spit which is why I always swallow when I give oral and never complain. I wouldn't force a guy to go down on me but if he did I would expect at least somewhat of the same amount of willingness and enthusiasm and for him to not act disgusted by me.

  • I imagine it would be a turn off but not a deal breaker. When you think about it, it is practically identical to a girl spitting so its highly hypocritical to say "girls shouldn't have to swallow something they don't want to", yet at the same time say that the guy spitting is wrong and that he should just swallow.

  • Not a dealbreaker, but yes, a turn off. I wouldn't mind him wiping his lips or rinsing his mouth, but actually spitting in disgust? I wouldn't be too into it, especially considering that I know I don't smell or taste bad. I like swallowing myself, so I think he should be able to handle it too...

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  • Once, I'd let go.. but more then that.. would be the last time.

    Maybe if I was a squirter.. I'd likely be ok/better about it then...

    But then, I swallow.. so dude, keep up your end of it.

    • Smart girl! Great answer!

  • Lol! I have never had a guy do that to me or even heard of a guy doing that. Interesting.

    • My boyfriend has told me his first girlfriend when he was 18 (he's almost 33 now) smelled so bad when he went down on her he literally went to the bathroom and vomited. He doesn't really give oral because of that. It has "scarred" him so to say. So instead of wiping his tongue he just doesn't really give oral. He has only given it to me once since we started dating 7 months ago. But I have been with guys who loved eating me out. But never one that wiped his tongue with a towel lol.

    • lol my ex had a similar "trauma" lol he still wanted to go down on me though. after he "confirmed"

    • Nice.:) I like giving more than receiving so it's not a biggie for me.

  • No girl should stay with a guy like that.

    • I wouldn't stay with a girl who didn't swallow, so don't feel bad.

  • I'm a swallower, so if a guy did this to me I'd probably kick him in the head at that moment and tell him get his shit and go.

  • Yeah maybe the guy just thinks you need to wash down there better because you taste gross...