Girls and guys, how do you bring up trying something new in between the sheets (or anywhere you want to get frisky)?

You are welcome to share what you tried or keep it secret😍
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Most Helpful Guys

  • It can be just in an open conversation or you slip it into some role play.

    work out some role play, then each of you put something into the scene you want to try.

    You talk about it before hand to get agreement and afterwards to see how it went.

    Surprises are not really best idea.

    • @emiliamazing thanks for MHG, most appreciated.

  • My girlfriend and I are pretty open about sex. We are both willing to listen and share with the other. We have tried several things including bringing toys to bed. Other things we have discussed such as anal we have both agreed to try just have not done it yet

Most Helpful Girls

  • One of two ways. You can check in with each other and talk about if you’re both satisfied and bring it up then. Or you can playfully suggest it while they’re turned on. I personally wouldn’t just go for it tho, because the rejection my kill your mood.

    • Awesome advice!

  • I can tell you a story that will knock your socks off, but only if you want to hear it. It's not about me.

    • Totally up to you, no judging from me😊

    • I work 12 hours at night, and I have nothing to do but chat online. I met a woman who said she was going to cheat on her boyfriend. I asked her why, and she just said she doesn't know why. I told her to not cheat, but instead, ask him if it was OK. She said she was afraid to ask, but I insisted, because I hate cheaters. She sent him a text (he was at work) and he loved the idea. He got on Craigslist and found her a guy that same night. I don't understand how her mind worked, but I just didn't want her to cheat. Her boyfriend found hundreds of guys for her. I didn't judge her, because it's not my circus and it ain't my monkeys.
      Girls and guys, how do you bring up trying something new in between the sheets (or anywhere you want to get frisky)?

      It worked for months, but then it got dark.

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  • Perhaps you should suggest playing a game: Winner Says, Loser Does!

    Need some excitement in the bedroom? Are you willing to take a challenge? ↗

  • I guess we have done it 2 different ways... if it’s something such as a new position, etc, we just do it in the moment and say, “hey, want to try this out? “
    If it’s something such as a kink like bdsm, we have talked about it beforehand

  • usually it's guys who want to try new or weird things

    • I believe that!

    • I disagree!

    • @JessicaEarl you are amazing at prompting thought and activity!

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  • Typically it would be something like, don't you think this would be fun? And if they show a little bit of interest then continue the conversation a little further.

    • Good idea!

    • It's worked in the past. A little bit of playing in public, well a little more than a little bit. Multiple places

  • I find watching porn together than includes what I want to try is an easy way to broach the subject. Also visiting a sex shop can be a good place to bring up things.

    • Great ideas!

  • Oldies getting horny..✌️

    • Thanks for sharing Sam!

    • Pm me

    • Think I’ll pass

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  • I just tell a biitch straight-up what I'm gonna do to her.

    99% of the time it works, she goes along with it.

  • You have to catch them in the right mood and then you also have to execute your plan. Like lingerie, for instance, once you suggest it, have some ready and provide it on the spot. For men, just get us hard, then we will probably say yes to anything you suggest. I could think of more if you want.

    • Thanks president!

    • No problem at all. Good luck! :)

  • Watch a video with what you want to try..

  • I go like, "I like to try with you, it would be so hot". Or a little bit more dirty

  • Communication is always best but I find it easier to talk about it during or after sex. Usually it helps talking about after do the deed then say hey let's do it in the kitchen or wear your cheerleader outfit.

  • Not sure on that one I've been there and she seemed to have got mad when I tried that I brought up toys to use to spice things up even tried asking about anal with her trying new things and she got mad so no clue there

  • We just try it. We don't know what we'll like without trying it. If we don't like it, we don't do it again.

  • My wife and I are pretty open. We’ve been together for over a decade, so that helps. But communication baby. That’s the key to life really.

  • Have a dialogue with your partner be open and share with each

  • Just open communication.

  • I clearly tell my girlfriend, that I am going to penetrate her ass

  • Talk about it when you are not having sex. That way the conversation can be non-demanding and conducive! If it turns out that there is a mismatch of expectations, then you should let it go but most of the times might be pleasantly surprised.

    • Great advice!

  • I don’t bring it up. I just do it.

  • I usually just do it.