Girls, has a guy ever refused a sexual request?

[stratford]

Like a specific sex act, fetish or fantasy?

What did you do when he refused?

[Andres77]

I refused to help a girl live out her rape fantasy. When she told me I realized there had been a lot of damage in her past. Now I know I'd gently encourage her towards therapy to deal with the trauma and scars. Back then at least I knew that contributing to her fantasy would have done more harm than good. Even though I didn't understand why

[stratford]

You are a good person. A lot of guys would have just taken advantage of her.

[DizzyDesii]

Maybe phone sex or getting sexual in public bt never just sex or oral or anything like that lmao. I prob didn't stick around too long after 😂 i like phone sex and doing stuff that may cause us to get caught

[stratford]

I love the idea of getting caught :-) Also talking dirty is a huge turn on - I normally get a damp patch from all the precum.

[DizzyDesii]

Amazeballs

[AliciaLee]

Oral sex on me, but he eventually tried to after a little while, I could tell he still wasn't into it, but the gesture to try was amazing of him, because he loved me

[stratford]

Going down on girl is one of the most arousing experiences for me.

[Katie1964]

Well the only one I have made any request known to is my husband. He is way more adventurous than me, so he did not refuse.

[stratford]

What was it?

[Katie1964]

There have been several. LOL we have been married over 25 years.

[sassy_receptor]

yes. i was a little sad at first but it was ok.

[stratford]

What was the thing he refused?

[sassy_receptor]

going to a bathroom to have sex in a public setting

[CubaPirate]

The coward lol

[sassy_receptor]

no i was honestly in the wrong in that situation. not his fault at all.

[CubaPirate]

🤣🤣🤣

[juliammm]

It is very rare, but it happens.

[Rizzie_talks]

A few times but can't discuss here

[stratford]

Would you be ok to PM me about it?

[Agape93]

Yeap. Said ok and found something else to do

[stratford]

What was the thing he refused?

[Agape93]

Cnc, he didn't feel comfortable doing that. Perfectly fine and valid, no issue

[stratford]

Ah, so you wanted him to do things to you without your consent in a kink / fantasy kind of way?

[Agape93]

Yeap. Roleplay or not, its an intense one so I don't begrudge anyone who isn't comfortable doing it.

[JessicaEarl]

What’s cnc

[Agape93]

Consensual Non Consent

[Ms_Facesitter]

Not yet.