Girls help. I met a guy and he is asking me to Dom him?

I met a guy 2 months ago, he asked me to Dom him in bed, like bdsm style and i was surprised but did it once, i liked it and he enjoyed it but he is asking for it often. He is very respectful and nice. Is it a thing? Can a guy be totally submissive during sex? Have you met a guy willing to be submissive in bed?
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  • Yeah I think guys like a bit of variety, they don't always want to be mean and put a girl in her place in bed, it's nice for a girl to do what she wants with a totally submissive guy.
    Like I'm a submissive guy. I love the idea of a girl taking control in bed and getting the pleasure she wants to have. If she likes the feeling of being in control then that's all the matters!
    If you enjoy it, then do it! Don't question the guy

    • Why do you question something like this? Since you liked it

    • I'm just surprised. I never met a submissive guy before

    • Were you a dom girl before him or not? There are plenty of us out there 😂

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Most Helpful Guy

  • if it is working out for you i wouldn't over think it

Most Helpful Girls

  • Nothing abnormal about it. Being submissive actually puts the attention on focus on that person. It also removes decision-making, which can feel easier. They get to just relax, be lavished upon, and not have to perform at all.

    It's good for balance. Everyone should switch roles, or take a passive role, from time to time. Rigidity in bed is not good; well, except...

  • It's pretty normal. Just remember that you have the right to have boundaries too.

    • Oh, alright. Thank you

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  • lots of guys are very submissive actually

  • Yes, it's quite common.

  • Whats wrong? I'm a submissive guy so this is something i like.

    • There is nothing wrong with being submissive. I'm just surprised to meet a guy willing to be and enjoys being submissive.

    • Yea there are loads of us out there but there's a stigma so a lot deny it.

    • That's sad because no one should be shamed for their preferences.

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  • Us men have to control every aspect of our life. So to let go, and give someone else control is liberating.

  • some of us prefer being submissive

  • join fetlife, it is free, get some ideas

  • This is pretty normal. Actually, it is MUCH easier to find a submissive man than a dominant man in BDSM. Most people (men and women) prefer to be submissive.

  • I am a submissive man, there are lot of us. If you like it go for it.

  • Just come to an agreement about how frequently you want to do it.