Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
Modern society is obsessed with blaming men for women's issues and if you happen to be male and speak out against this, then you are sexist. Only one opinion is right, and that is one of the social justice warriors - even if they are misandrists. So girls - here are ways you are sexist on a daily basis and here are the things you should look out for because if men are being held accountable as a whole gender, then women should be too. It is gender quality after all, not female supremacy.
Here is a list of things that women do that are actually sexist (yes, women can be sexist too - shocker):
1. Accusing all men of being as awful as one man
- Listen ladies, if you get offended by one man that did something, do NOT blame the whole gender simply because it's convenient to do and it's socially acceptable. Blaming an entire gender for the act of one individual is called SEXISM. Shocking huh? So don't do it.
2. Using the word "men" with a negative intonation
- When talking about males as a gender, try not to say the word "men" with disgust in your voice. It's the same as if guys talked about women and said the word "women" with hatred in their voices. You're tyrannizing a whole gender and it's SEXIST. Use the word in a neutral tone to describe people that happen to be grown males, but don't throw us all into the dark pit.
3. Using the "look".
- This is something I read about in feminism blogs and women like to give other women the advice of giving the "look" to men they think are misbehaving. They think men are children in big-boy suits and if you give them the motherly look of shame, they will stop misbehaving. Guess what ladies, this is SEXIST.
For one, grouping all men into category and therefore giving everyone the blanket treatment violates the first point of this post. Secondly, these looks are extremely denouncing - you are effectively putting the man down under you in the social chain - what ever happened to equality? Further, men aren't little children in grown up outfits - this is just straight up rude and disrespectful. Women also misuse this all the time and innocent guys are victim to this. This brings us to false accusations.
4. False accusations
- No, I'm not talking about false rape accusations, I am talking about very simple accusations that happen on a daily basis. These are horrible and they affect innocent men like me. Number one: don't make snap judgements. Just because you don't like the look of someone or their behaviour, it doesn't indicate they are sexist pervert pigs - it simply indicates your prejudice and short sightedness.
Men are people too, okay? One can be a sexist pervert rapist but that doesn't mean all of us are - if you think this way, you are SEXIST. Using the "look" also falls into this category. Just because a man looked at a woman or even smiled at her (if this is still legal) doesn't mean he sexually harassed her and there is no need for the "look" because he is just a normal person with a healthy libido and he is attracted to you - he doesn't deserve to go to jail, and all men don't need to be accused of being overarching sexist patriarchs.
5. Blaming men for all women's issues
- Yes, some issues are transcendent and both genders have to work towards progress. However, I don't see women working towards ending men's issues so let's not put so much responsibility on men to solve women's issues. Yes, there are gender issues in the workplace and yes there are instances where men dominate a workplace and it's hard for women. But guess what!? Men also face that same discrimination in female dominated establishments - but men have no right to complain about this nor make it a women's issue.
The service industry is female dominated, the nursing industry is female dominated, and the fashion industry is female dominated. The education industry is becoming female dominated because men are constantly accused of sexual harassment and perversion - that's right, men can't be teachers now because society looks at men like sexual delinquents and eventually another man will get falsely accused and fired. Okay ladies? So we have a host of our own issues that spur from the rigid walls of society, so help us end sexist discrimination by recognizing that men are human beings too with just as many issues as women and we need help too.
Men are not gatekeepers trying to keep women miserable - so don't make us miserable by saying all women's issues are men's issues and we are awful people for not trying to help. So women, you have to take responsibility for your own actions and your own results and not blame everything on men. It's all too easy to get away with it in modern society because everyone is doing it. Women are human beings too - and that means having responsibilities for your actions.
6. Acting like men's issues don't exist
- I'm talking about victimizing all women and villainizing all men. This is all too common. Proponents love to scream and shout that men face 0 issues and all reported issues are coming from female victims. Not all women are victims. There are campaigns to end physical abuse against women but there are no campaigns to end psychological abuse against men. Pretty convenient when one side of the equation is greyed out.
Yes, violence is not the solution, but we should teach men that there are awful women that psychologically abuse men for their own please and they need to be left - not hit. That is the simple answer, men should be taught to have some self-respect and leave. There is no education going to supporting men's mental health.
- The legal system favors women over men. In a simple domestic abuse case, the cops always force the man to leave the house even if he is the victim of abuse. "Help end violence against women"? What happened to men? Is it just okay to be violent towards men, because the media makes it look hilarious? Should we only work to improve the lives of women and just neglect men? The courts usually take the kids away from the man and give them to the woman even if she is the worse parent. Men are just assumed to be bad humans. This is SEXISM.
- There are social barriers to men wanting to do things outside the "manly thing to do". What if I want to stay at home and raise my kids while my wife goes to work and earns an income? I can't because society looks down upon that. What if a man wants to wear make-up, dresses, and heels? He can't, but women can wear whatever men wear.
One step further: Ladies, please imagine the genders reversed. Imagine men giving you dirty looks for looking at them sexually. Imagine being accused of being sexist because someone else failed to accomplish something. Imagine being blanketed under one descriptor of your gender "all women are pigs". Imagine hearing the word "woman" and it's always in a bad way. Imagine that men are allowed to wear everything you can do, but you can't wear everything men can. Not fun is it? Speak up for male rights and REAL gender equality.
If women and men are to be equal than we must treat BOTH genders in the same way - and not give preference to one over the other.
What Girls & Guys Said
1 2I agree with most of the points you made, and I am definitely guilty of some of these things. It is really hard to change a system that's centuries old, although gender strictures seem to be slowly melting away. I'm not saying misandry is okay, but considering (in the US) how women have participated in liberation movements for other oppressed groups of people (and even experienced discrimination from other activists while supporting some of those movements) since the 1800's, could you understand how some women might consider this to be their time to shine? I still agree with you, because that makes sense historically but not on a personal level, because a period of women's liberation could span your whole life. I think it would only strengthen the women's movement to not stereotype men.
I think that whole "pig" (sexually and in general) stereotype is one of the worst. It's all so drilled into our heads, I find myself saying to my boyfriend, "Aren't you going to eat more?" and expecting stereotypes of him in other ways that just aren't fair.
The whole world needs a better mental health program, from childhood.
I know a guy in school who is going to be a nurse - he's a great guy.
I almost wanted to disagree with you because I expected this to be another rant about how badly women have treated you, but you've made very valid points. I am 100% for equality, but women have to accept watching how they treat men as well.
I agree, I saw a commercial that said: "Teach him when he is young, violence against women is wrong." They were implying that every man is natural abusive. Imagine the outrage if it were a commercial that promoted men's rights. Misandry is a issue.
At the same time, telling your daughter this same message instead of "violence against men is wrong" perpetuates the one-sided advice that tells boys they can't hit women and tells girls that boys can't hit them. Why don't we just teach girls right from the start that they are royalty and boys aren't? Or have we done that already.
@Screamsgutter The Marxist feminists have already promoted that matriarchal BS for decades.
Oh, I know. And they try enforcing it with the 'men are stronger and hurt women easier' argument, meanwhile girls grow into adulthood with the 'women are weaker, so they can't hurt men' nonsense. And any grown woman who still parrots this silliness does so because it's to her benefit, not because she's too dense to realize it. Never marry a woman who has this opinion.
Hell, don''t even date her.