Girls, how bad does sex hurt the first time?

I'm extremely scared to have sex now i've seen all these things about how it hurts so badly and now i'm worried. I've heard things from "a pinch hurts worse" to "its way too painful". please tell me does it feel good or just hurt, and should i be scared or no.
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  • I'm not a girl, feel free to follow me and you can ask me any question relating to sex you would like. Do you still have your hymen? That's the painful part, you've heard the term when he breaks your cherry?

    • ok, I don't know if i have a hymen since some girls break theirs or aren't born with one

    • Have you ever masturbated? Like tried to slide your finger inside? It's a very simple process, it's a tip of your finger hits an obstruction then you have a hymen

    • If you're hymen is intact, it could very possibly be painful. You need to make sure that you're excited, wet down there. Foreplay is very important. The more turned on you are, the more accepting you're going to be. You have to make it very clear to him that you're a virgin and then he's going to have to go slow

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  • It can’t hurt hurt as bad as you think if you follow these steps : do lots of fore play (until your vagina is extremely wet ), Make sure you are relaxed (if you don’t it will hurt , if you don’t let him do the work), and most importantly DO NOT rush anything (take your time doing fore play and having him penetrate your vagina, do things slow. Make sure he knows that you want to do it slowly )

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  • I bought myself a medium sized sex toy before my first time because I didn't want it to hurt.

    • ah, did it work?

    • Yeah, I didn't have any pain during my first time, maybe a little bit of discomfort at first just because it was a new experience and it can be difficult to relax the first time but once I got into it I thought it was great!

    • ok tysm, this helps a lot!

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  • You should wait until marriage anyway. :)

  • Not a guy, but it varies widely. Some hurt and bleed, for others it is a walk in the park.

  • hurts real bad, makes you reall sore

  • Are you curious about it?

    • yeah

    • Have you ever play with yourself?

    • yeah

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