Girls, how many of you would consider trying fisting?
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don´t just go "ew". if you´re not a grown woman, don´t answer this. this is not a question for immature kids. just tell me why in a respectfull way if you don´t ever want to try.
think about a guy you really like and already have regular sex with wanting to try it with you. you can 100% trust him to stop when it get too much for you.
men can share their thoughts and experiences.
I would never wanna try that
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i could see myself giving it a shot
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i tried and i liked it
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i tried and it was awfull
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i'm a guy and wanna see what girls said.
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i wonder if people just say eww because i told them not to or if they didn´t even read and are so immature :D
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share_some_leanXper 5
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It sounds quite unnecessary to me. I've heard it can be quite painful, even 3 fingers can become painful. Of course it depends on the women and what works for her. It's a very extreme, next level kind of thing, so if you were ever in that situation I'd say to consult your s/o or whoever you're with before doing it. I, personally would not be into it.
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Asker
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As with anything sexual, the premise here is consent first. Of course I don't just do it. But you're too young for this question anyway :P
share_some_lean
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Believe me I have been in the situation. Times have changed. Now a days, 14 isn't too young for anything sexual. Even if it is, it doesn't change people's actions. However, yes consent is the main idea here.
MachiavelliXper 6
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Asked him to try in the heat of the moment and failed because it couldn't happen, I watched too much porn but fisting is not as easy as it seems on TV. It hurt like a bitch and only his four finger tips went in. It killed his erection and he started to insult me. Some men's ego is so frail smh. Nothing a little break up can't fix.
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wow his reaction is so bad... good thing you broke up. i know it´s not as easy and i wouldn´t ever expectmy hand to just go in there xD but man if she asked me for it, that would be such a turn on (as she asking for anything would be). i think you just overestimated yourself, which isn´t bad at all xD a least you have the kinky in you, which is worth a lot :P
Machiavelli
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Yeah was the same way I asked for anal at 18, I was super horny and just said do it. He did it and I loved it and it was his first time doing anal too. But as for fisting, I don't think many women can do that because I couldn't and I ain't no punk. I've never wanted it after that though. It was spur of the moment, I had no idea vagaga was so little until you really look at it with a mirror. Birth is a miracle.
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+1 y
Well obviously you gotta work your way there XD
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+1 y
Can't just shove it in like that
CountessSarahGuru
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I like big toys, but there's something about having someone hand up my ass that just strikes me as weird. Toys and dicks? Great. Hands? No. I'm not a purse, you don't get to just rummage around in there.
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+1 y
XD i mean pussy mostly not ass. but you find it ok to have a guy finger you right? so there´s part of his hand already in there xD
CountessSarah
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There's a difference between a finger which can only go so far, and an arm that can go so deep my partner could make me talk like a puppet.
Asker
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haha i´m not talking about him shoving his whole arm in. it´s not about going as deep and wide as possible at any cost. it´s about giving her pleasure above anything. i mean her vagina won´t fit a whole arm anyway xD i mean a "Big toy" can be as big right?
CheerGirl38139Guru
+1 y
That sounds completely unappealing and unnecessary for sexual pleasure.
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+1 y
well it is unnecessary xD but if you find it completely unappealing, i of course understand.
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jacquesvolMaster
+1 y
I never met a girl saying she wanted it.
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i know 2 girls, one irl and one on gag that did it and 1 girl irl that is into it and would probably try.
Nope. I don't find it attractive, arousing, highly doubt I'd find it pleasurable and have no interest in seeing how wide my vagina will go unless a baby is passing through it
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+1 y
so seeing your guy being aroused by this would do anything for you?
Wonderer89
+1 y
At the expense of my vagina, no. Luckily he's not into it, but even if he was I'm not obligated to say yes to everything that arouses him. Just like I wouldn't expect him to say yes to me watching him get pegged by a pro wrestler, our partners have hard limits and they should be respected
Asker
+1 y
of course you´re not "obligated" but if my girl wants me to do something for her that really turns her on, i would probably like it not cause i normally like it, but because i see her turned on so much by it. of course i respect hard limits but at the same time i feel like this isn´t "ruining" a girls vagina xD i mean i´m not speaking about just punching inside. i´m speaking about going sensual and slow one finger at a time :D but maybe i´m wrong about that and it actually does harm her vagina... so i´m not gonna insist on it being right.
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Wonderer89
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It doesn't really matter what you feel about it doing to her long term, it's what she is comfortable with. And my distaste towards it completely outweighs my want to please him on this particular act. I'm not unadventurous sexually, I'll compromise on anything but my hard limits for which this is one of them and luckily my partner respects that for anything our interests differ in
Asker
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ok fair enough. i completely understand and respect this.
nohass321Xper 5
+1 y
Eeewww
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MakeuphoarderExplorer
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I wouldn't want to be stretched out like that. It does not sound pleasurable at all. Multiple fingers don't even fit.. A fist? Sounds painful
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+1 y
in my experience, the best sex is when it feels so good, it's verge of pain. but if you find nothing arousing about it, i get it.
Asker
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*on the verge
Makeuphoarder
+1 y
Yeah no, I think it the experience should be enjoyable for both parties and not just one. Nothing about fisting arouses me.
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Asker
+1 y
ok fair enough.
PengedXper 5
+1 y
Let me fist you instead 😉
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if you´d agree to do it, you could make that an argument and maybe i´d let you try but i doubt it would do anything for you to fist me so that´s why i don´t see a point in it.
Penged
+1 y
So you won't let me fist your butt?
Asker
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i will be open to discuss that if you´ll let me fist your vagina :P
faucheleventMaster
+1 y
I wouldn't. Sounds painful and kinda unnecessary. Besides, I don't like fingering much so I doubt I'd like that, which is basically the super extreme version 😂
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+1 y
yeah girls are incredibly different. some don´t like penetration at all and there are girls who exclusively like that xD so weird.
nowhere_daniXper 6
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Because a grown ass man asking women on a social media site if she likes to be fisted is so mature lol Okay, okay. Sorry. You knew that one was gonna be said.
Oh and the answer is a solid and definite no.
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Asker
+1 y
i don´t see how asking for a preference in sexual practices is immature but you can have your opinion xD
nowhere_dani
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I give up on this site.
Asker
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if you´re not a fan of sexual questions, then ignore that topic on this site. you coming to a topic you don´t like just to tell them that they are stupid for asking tells more about you than you probably like.
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nowhere_dani
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I was joking in my original comment
nowhere_dani
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And I answer sexual questions all the time yo
Asker
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xD it´s hard to see that sometimes... lots of weirdos on here. it didn´t sound like a joke to me XD so sorry for getting it wrong.
nowhere_dani
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Nooo. I'm sorry. I really shouldn't have poked fun about a topic of interest like that and not explained myself further.
Asker
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i´m surprised most women seem not to be this kinky though xD like everyone and their mother wanna try bdsm but fisting, hell no xD makes no sense to me.
nowhere_dani
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Wish I could give you a reason why on that but, for me, it looks very painful. I understand that babies are bigger than a fist but a woman's body prepares itself for childbirth to ease the baby through. Nothing's gonna ease that fist in except for some lube, I guess. Still doesn't seem pleasant.
Asker
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well it´s not meant to hurt. if it´s too much you´re supposed to go with what´s good for her and not just push for it just to get there xD
nowhere_dani
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Ah, gotcha. Not sure I'm convinced yet lol
Asker
+1 y
you don´t have to be :D i mean it´s really extreme and i don´t even know if it would be good to do it. i´m just curious about it.
nowhere_dani
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Hence the poll - It is really extreme. I'm scared to even look at it haha
Asker
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i wonder if it´s the same for you as it is for me watching guys getting hit in the balls xD
nowhere_dani
+1 y
Quite possibly haha I cringe just thinking of that too though..
Asker
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i wonder why though ^^ i mean you can´t know what it feels like right?
nowhere_dani
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Nope, I couldn't - but just the idea of someone getting hurt anywhere on their body makes me cringe. Not that I'm equating this to fisting because that's different.
Asker
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well i guess it would be quite similar if fisting would mean he just punches his hand inside regardless of anything.
nowhere_dani
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Yeah, it definitely would be. But I reckon most guys are pretty cool about it when they understand the way it's supposed to work. Or.. I hope so.
Asker
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what is really interesting to me is: when we talk about fisting, it´s kind of obvious that you go slow and don´t try to force it right? but when it comes to having the first sex with a girl, it´s still a common stereotype that it´s best to do it quick like removing a bandaid and she´s expected to bleed xD so absurd.
nowhere_dani
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You make a very good point. I don't understand what's with the whole do it quick thing but I've also never gone that far so I wouldn't know.
Tamera952Yoda
+1 y
Fuck no. Most chicks take years to warm up to the backdoor, and u want them to take a fist full of fun? Ooooh man!
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not speaking about the backdoor xD
Carley99Yoda
+1 y
His penis can't even get in there properly let imaging an entire fist its not possible for me and I would even want to try that.
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amalia23Xper 5
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EEEEWWWWWW
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BeautifulPromisesxYoda
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ewwwww
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Dudeman1234
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Lmao
bubblybexXper 6
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i wouldn't do it it just doesn't appeal to me
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if you´re not into it, then it would of course not make sense to do it ^^
Naughty_PoppinsXper 6
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I love it. More pain, more pleasure.
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Jude_Wills
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Are you into bdsm?
Naughty_Poppins
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Yes, I enjoy pain, I'm into many more things.
Jude_Wills
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You really interesting 😊 love to know which kind of things you like?
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Naughty_Poppins
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I like all sorts of things, things that you can't even think of
Jude_Wills
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Whipping, spanking, which things tell me
Naughty_Poppins
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Oh darling you are so naive
Jude_Wills
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You really seducing me 😈 by the way do you like to be Dom or sub?
Naughty_Poppins
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I'm a sub. Supremely submissive
Jude_Wills
+1 y
That's nice
Anonymous
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Oh hell no
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Anonymous
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I personally wouldn't as it really looks painful and hurts after 3 fingers. But I know people who like it so depends on the persob
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Asker
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True. Not everyone can be into it.
Opinion Owner
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Exactly :) though kudos to who do. They're more into pain than I am
Asker
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i think it´s more enjoyment than pain for them ^^
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Opinion Owner
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:) might be. But some like pain so probably both
Anonymous
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No that's a turn off.
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Anonymous
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You mean fist fighting like in Ireland? Sure, I did it, and I won, a certain beatch was knocked down ;)
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Asker
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pretty sure you know what i mean but i appreciate this answer more than just a straight up "ew" :P
Opinion Owner
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Thanks :D
Anonymous
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Sounds painful, hell no
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Asker
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you´re too young for this anyway xD
Opinion Owner
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Thankfully
Anonymous
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No, our vaginas are designed to hug something dick sized for pleasure and even a few fingers can feel great.
Just because a baby's head CAN squeeze through doesn't mean it's something we will or should ever grow to enjoy.
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Asker
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so you think you may not enjoy dick anymore if you go that far?
Opinion Owner
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No, I think going that far would be painful and pointless.
Asker
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the point to me is, that the best sexual stimulation is on the verge of pain. like not quite pain but by that logic in my mind it could be interesting.
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Opinion Owner
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Fisting is waaaay over that line.
Asker
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well if you´d go that far just like that, sure that´s too much. that´s like trying to shove a big black dick into a virgin pussy without warmup xD
Opinion Owner
+1 y
This sounds like way too much fantasy on your part and not enough reality.
Asker
+1 y
maybe you´re right but there are girls that do it and enjoy it.
Opinion Owner
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Some of your perception of that is a fantasy too. Women's public sexual persona, especially with vast pornography viewing, is pressured to pretend things for men's enjoyment.
Asker
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i don´t expect women to do anything they don´t enjoy for a mans pleasure. i mean sure giving handjobs and oral to each other is a mutual interest right? we do it to please our partner cause we like pleasing our partner. i think about fisting like i think about fingering. it´s supposed to give her pleasure and it also arouses me. if it doesn´t bring her pleasure, then i don´t want it.
Opinion Owner
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Fisting brings her pain, not pleasure. I mean real pain, not "the verge" of pain.
Asker
+1 y
i know that there are girls that enjoy it. if you´re not one of them, i get it. i guess my question should have rather been focused on if you´re willing to find out or not.
Opinion Owner
+1 y
You're really hung up that a woman does this for you whether she really wants to or not. And that women enjoy it despite women telling you otherwise. Case in point about many men willfully ignorin our true sexuality.
Asker
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i know "some" girls do enjoy it. i fully acknowledge that this isn´t for everybody. if this isn´t for you or the girl i´m with, i won´t do it. i am just curious to find out if i am even into doing it outside of my phantasy and i would only do it with a woman that also is curious about it or already knows she likes it. i´m not trying to force anybody to do something they don´t wanna do.
Anonymous
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nope that would stretch me so much. don't even think a guy would be able to
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Asker
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well if it won´t fit or hurt you, he will stop. but the question is if you´d let him try.
Opinion Owner
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no I wouldn't.. don't want to get all stretch out
Asker
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i feel like it´s not like a permanent modification of your body xD but if you just don´t wanna go that far, cause it might spoil the smaller things for you, i 100% get that ^^
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Opinion Owner
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yeah. guys fists are big lol
Asker
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to be honest i´m really turned on by the thought of fisting a girl but at the same time i´m really concerned that my dick can´t do anything for her anymore xD
Opinion Owner
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yeah true that is a good point
Opinion Owner
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can't imagine it would even fit in most people tbh
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