Girls, how much does it hurt/ what does it feel like having sx for the first time?

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Most Helpful Girls

  • Its paaaaaaainfullllll

    I'm sorry if I scare you but its close to the worst pain I ever experienced. It took me weeks to open up down there. Its a long process.

    You have to communicate with him. Tell him if you need more foreplay, if he should go slower if he should just stop etc. You are gonna have to tell him you are a virgin and you may need to open up more and more over time. If you use tampongs those are usually around 1 cm². The avarage penis is 10× as thick so... take your time. You might not loose it in one day.

    Evan though all this pain I am happy I lost it. I learned more about myself and what I like and not like. And more about me as a person.

    Don't hurry with it. You are very young. Make sure you loose it to a man who would take a bullet for you. Because evan if it ends, you won't regret it.

    • Thankyou for MHO:)

  • It hurts a lot so you tell him when to stop and go 😮‍💨 by the way that's my experience and its different for everyone BUT it gets easier with time

    • Feel it by the inch

Most Helpful Guys

  • It's best to do foreplay first, like eating out, kissing, licking, and things like that, so that you get wet enough. The girl I was with at that time, we made sure we messed around with each other before we had sex, and when I took her virginity, she said it didn't hurt. A little pressure, but that was it.

    Everyone's experiences are different though.

  • I've taken a few girls virginities and none of them complained of pain.

    Most of the problems comes from the woman not being ready, the guy being a clumsy idiot. Like a lot of guys don't know how to make the girl emotionally comfortable. And then the foreplay is what makes her relax and open up.

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  • Ask a 100 people you'll get a 100 different answers. But generally if your not ready, aroused enough or he's incompetent its going to hurt.

    • Someone i know said she was completely ready for it and was excited but when the time finally came she started crying. She won't tell me more

  • If you use tampons it won't hurt

  • Depends on the guys skills I assume. It will hurt a little bit in the beginning but if the guy is carefull it shouldn't last very long and the pain will make place for nice feelings

  • A sharp pain for 10 or 20 seconds. Although horny and aroused I did not enjoy I was penetrated.
    I started to enjoy after the fifth time.

  • Little bit but the pain goes away and is replaced by pleasure

  • Curious? Or planning it soon?

    • Curious. Not doing it till marriage😅

    • Well, it is a sharp pain, but it only last for a minute, and it's quickly reducing in intensity

    • Do you bleed first time?

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  • i think its a little for most.

  • It depends on the people. Some guys will have huge or thick dicks and others not that big. The same for women, some are more open than others and have different pain tolerance. Most people it will hurt, at least a bit at the beginning but you get used to it and enjoy the pleasure.

  • Nice question..
    Yes hurts but more enjoyable

    • Hurt u can bear it not like Childbirth and pregnancy