Girls: How soon (time or number of dates) with a new partner, is it appropriate to?

Anonymous

A. Give a blow job
B. Receive oral sex
C. Have intercourse.

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Anonymous
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A. Give a blow job: after a few dates (3-4)
B. Receive oral sex (same as above)
C. Have intercourse: after I'm sure he's serious and not just using me for sex. So a few months for me
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- Asker
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  Noting your age. Since when did they allow sane women in here?
- Opinion Owner
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  Haha, we exist! We just keep a low profile and try to avoid drama on here
- Asker
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  **Tips hat** Yes Ma'am.
AudreyB88 Explorer
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Depends on the individual but these are my guidelines:
A. after the 4th date.
B. ^
C. After 6 months of dating.
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- Heiniken
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  Your A/B are reasonable, but 6 months for sex... yeah that seems wayyyyy to long.
- AudreyB88
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  @Heiniken These are my own guidelines. If the person I'm dating does not agree, then he should find a more suitable partner.
- Heiniken
  +1 y
  No I imagine they do, I certainly would leave. How many dating partners have you had that have gotten to six months?
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- AudreyB88
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  @Heiniken Three. 2/3 were only willing to have sex when married and I respected their wishes.
- Heiniken
  +1 y
  Men that wanted to wait until marriage? Uhh that's extremely weird (sure they had penises?), but thank you for answering my questions.
jasmine420 Xper 2
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A. Give a blow job 1st date
B. Receive oral sex 3rd date
C. Have intercourse. Wedding night
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LtJackass Xper 7
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I don't understand why people put oral sex at such a causal level.
"Whatever you put your mouth on is the most intimate thing ever. It's either yes, or fuck no!"
-Bill Burr
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AustinMan Influencer
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It's not about time. It's about connection. When it feels right, do it.
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vanezzaDD Xper 3
+1 y
5 minutes
15 minutes
1 hour
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- MannMitAntworten
  +1 y
  Great answer, but 5 minutes? Somebody strips down slow.
- vanezzaDD
  +1 y
  I don't take my clothes off when i give head
- Asker
  +1 y
  No need to. CFNM can be very appealing.
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- vanezzaDD
  +1 y
  CFNM means?
- MannMitAntworten
  +1 y
  Road head aside, very time someone gave me head they were buck naked.
- MannMitAntworten
  +1 y
  I was wondering the same...
- MannMitAntworten
  +1 y
  Every* time
- vanezzaDD
  +1 y
  Oh lol and I kinda like being dress when i give head I make guys cum fast
- MannMitAntworten
  +1 y
  I have never cum fast from oral... I'll tell the next gal to stay dressed to see if that speeds things up.
- Asker
  +1 y
  Clothed female, naked male. It counteracts the submissive role of a girl giving a BJ because only the guy is exposed and vulnerable.
- MannMitAntworten
  +1 y
  I have never thought of myself as being vulnerable when in the buck. Exposed, that's just a given. I never think of it as a submissive act either... just two enjoy the pleasure of an intimate moment. We are likely going on one another... and I never feel submissive when going down on a gal. If anything, many women see giving head as the position of power. At least the women I know think of it as such.
- Asker
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  @MannMitAntworten CFNM really isn't submissive, but it has seemed comforting to girls such as vanessaDD. And cunnilingus IS absolute control.
rinx91 Xper 5
+1 y
After 350 date
1 engagement
1 wedding ceremony
Lol 😂
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RoyClark Xper 6
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My girlfriend did it all on the first date.
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jacquesvol Master
+1 y
Different for each couple
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Ben228 Yoda
+1 y
Non of the above until marriage. So far.
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Anonymous
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After 3 or 4 dates but bj doesn’t always come before intercourse in my experience sometimes it’s after
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Anonymous
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There’s no rules
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Anonymous
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A) Never.
B) Never.
C) Never.
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- LtJackass
  +1 y
  PRAISE JESUS!