Girls, if a guy taps on the head during a BJ, what do you think that means?

I thought this was the universal sign that ejaculation is imminent. I have started seeing a girl and during the BJ, I tapped her on the head, then released in her mouth. She tried to spit it out, but ended up choking on it. When she could breathe again, she told me that I was very rude and disrespectful. She said she never swallows and that a guy should always verbally ask a girl’s permission before ejaculating in her mouth.
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  • Oh my god. You don't just assume that all girls swallow. It's not even right. Why would you do that? At first you see how things go when she is giving you a blowjob. The more quicker does that sort of thing the more further away she wants your cum in her mouth. Overall you learned something. Don't ejaculate in a girls mouth until you're pretty sure they can tolerate that sort of thing or maybe even better announce her you are about to ejaculate and she'll figure it out herself where she wants your cum to end up.

    Some people are different and some people are not really into these sort of intimate things so you've got a part to know wether she is up for it or not.

  • haha there is not "universal sign" for anything during sex. you ALWAYS have to verbally say what you're going to do. I mean do you consider touching your dick the "universal sign" for her wanting to have sex? NO. because you need to get consent first. DUHHHHHHH. That would be very rude and disrespectful and I would never see you again. You just assumed she knew what you were thinking and then were surprised when she 1) didn't know what you were thinking and 2) was angry about your assumption that she was A-OKAY with you cumming in her mouth. That's a dick move.

  • It means he is about to get there.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Obviously she did not read the "Rules for Blowjobs" manual. Oh, wait. There isn't one! There are no universal signs for things like that. And even if there were, people would not know them until they experienced them, and then it is too late. Communication is the thing. Find out what is acceptable before you get there. If she is going to give you head, ask her what "the rules" are. Does she or doesn't she? What kind of signal does she want to warn her? Find out before.

  • True that
    and gals prefer talking
    never signals
    I don't know why but I guess that's where all those mouth always open jokes originated in movies, etc.

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  • Yeah, I'm pretty sure the "universal sign" is "I'm going to cum."

  • I'm not very familiar with BJs but I do know that most girls don't like giving heads and especially not swallowing cum. That's why you should ask where she wants you to cum.

  • Tapping someone on the head is not the way to tell them you say I'm going to come. It's absolutely rude to not give her warning even if she would swallow

  • If I don't tell the guy specifically, I pretty much expect that he'll just go in my mouth. Buttt, that being said, I do prefer if he says b4 he cums just so I'm ready for it when it happens. Just easier to deal w/ :o)

  • You're supposed to tell her you're about to cum.

  • First you should ask if you can finish in her mouth,
    second you should just say when you are "ready" it's easy to say and also fast :)

  • Like the most commenters say you should give a warning when you're cumming. My bf once did this to me i almost choked and i spitted everything out. I don't know about other girls but sometimes i find it really horny when a guys say that he's cumming lol

  • I have always swallowed with BJ's and I've never had the "tap on the head" I always kinda expect them to cum. Warning is usually pretty good, coz when we are deep throating you, we are holding our breath, if you cum as we are trying to inhale then we end up choking and its not pretty. The best thing you can do is say "I'm going to cum" it gives us notice to be prepared rather than hold our breath for 30 seconds and then cop a mouth full of hot liquid. If she doesn't want you to cum in her mouth and you give her warning she'll prob tell you where she wants it or pull off you a bit.

  • He should ask.

  • I definitely wouldn't think it was a sign he was about to cum. In my experience, the universal signal that a guy is going to cum is him saying "I'm going to cum."