It is extremely rare that I ever "don't feel it." Many of my partners have been well-endowed or, at the very least, had good sizes on them, and I've been told by several guys that I'm tight down there. However, I did have those occasions back in college when I could barely feel anything due to the penis being smaller than average. In those cases, I don't exactly stop. I still continue, but I suggest that we change positions. That's usually all it is. With me, I found that I could get pleasure from a small penis better through the missionary position with my legs lifted high in the air and bent back, almost like a yoga position. This allows the penis have more depth and the chance to hit my most pleasurable spots. If done right, it can feel really good. The problem with it is the position is not always the most comfortable and I often feel like I'm doing more to pleasure myself than the man. To answer your other question, I NEVER fake it under any circumstance. If you fake being pleased by bad sex, this would only encourage the man to continue doing the bad techniques that aren't working. If anything, you want the sex to stop being bad. In that case, you be polite and honest with him and tell him that what he's doing isn't working. Keep trying new things until you find something that works. If nothing works and sexual pleasure is very important to you, it's best to move on.
I've ever only stopped sex completely when the position was hurting me (my leg cramped, he was hitting my cervix...) or I was emotionally distressed and upset (may it be something I'm personally going through or or an unresolved situation that isn't making me feel intimate towards him) - and my boyfriend would always, no questions asked, stop to check up on me. But I've never stopped mid way cause I wasn't "sexually feeling it", if something isn't working out midway through our sexy play, I'd switch it up to get some pleasure out of it so we can both get off.
I would prefer if my partner doesn't fake. I am also aware that sometimes, it just doesn't happen. I trust her that she'll say if something's wrong, and I trust her when she says it feels good even if she doesn't orgasm.
I would continue and keep faking it until its over because if i say in between that i am not " feeling it" then it will be really rude and would hurt the partners feeling
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Haha not really. You can go back to the kitchen now
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If i'm not feeling it we're doing something wrong and i'd tell him that so we could switch something up so i'd have some pleasure too
Ill stop slowly and tell him "baby im just not feeling it right now" he usually understands... its awkward but i think thats the best way to handle it
That is a very awkward situation.
Well that's never happened to me so I don't know I'd just keep going
I continue of course, it would be kinda rude if I was like "I'm done" and he was enjoying himself and all. I'd fake it yea pers until he finishes
I have faked it before
Once I've started, I'm letting him finish.
I stop
A girl called me and begged for sex. I didn't feel like it but fucked her anyway. She came several times. I struggled
Sex isn't one sided... LOL at the women that say they would just stop... Sometimes your lack of orgasms is not the mans fault... If i was not feeling it, i would not stop, id make sure she felt good..
See, that's the thing, men CAN'T continue if they are not feeling it, it will go soft and sex will stop whether we want it or not. You can't really fuck without a boner, right? I had it happen couple of times that a man goes soft in the middle of penetration, it happens. So, in this sense, men are forced (spared) to stop if they are 'not feeling it'. But women CAN continue and fake it. This is what bothers me. Can you imagine fucking with no boner? No you can't because it's anatomically impossible and it would probably feel like crap right? That is how it is for us when we're not feeling it, like crap. But we have a choice to bare with it for the sake of partner. It's just kind of unfair, biologically speaking, that men don't have to make that choice; they will be forced to stop a crappy sex, and that is okay. But if a woman decides to stop it, it is seen as an insult. I've had it happen plenty of times, and every time I decided to stop I was shamed and he was angry. The usual following question was "why did you lead me on if you don't want it?". Men usually get aroused visually the moment they see a woman naked (even before), but for women it's different, our arousal happens (or doesn't) DURING the act. So why is shamed if it doesn't happen and we want to stop?
Its not shamed, its one sided. For a man to stop in the middle causes frustration. Leaves us wanting more.. If that makes sense. Reverse the roles, say you're massively turned on, and he just arbitrarily stopped, i guarantee you would be upset.. Now its a massively different matter if you are hurting, or its uncomfortable. If my wife wanted to stop for that reason, it wouldn't be an argument, i would simply stop. I dont want to cause her pain. and if she wanted to stop if she was not into it.. I would stop.. But i would also be less likely to initiate sex in favor of masturbation in the future.
I had it happen that a guy just stops when I'm hugely turned on and I was never upset. Sure, I was sad and a bit frustrated, but I would rather him to stop then not enjoy it.
No, I wouldn’t just stop. I’ve only faked it when I know It isn’t going to happen for me, mainly to get him to finish. Sex is about both of us, not just me.
I think would respect the partners desire and try satisfy them
Continue like a good submissive slutty bunny 🐰
The biggest mistake men make is they don't do enough oral... That's how you make a girl orgasm.
Men don't get to say no in the middle of sex...
Yeah you do. Don’t want to continue, then pull out. It’s not hard.
On paper your theory sounds correct. In reality, have you ever said no to a woman? I've ended things mid sex and was subjected to nothing but emotional drama because she was angry my objectified body didn't fulfill its function to her. Women actively shame men who turn down sex.
Lol Don't base your own experience as a general consensus for all females
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