Girls. If your boyfriend can't satisfy you sexually. Would you stay with him?

If your bf couldn't sexually satisfy you as other guys can, would you stay with him then?
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  • Sex is clearly not everything in a loving relationship, but sex is an expression of love and it's important to me at least. If you're just frustrated and unsatisfied all the time, you're probably not going to have a very strong emotional connection with your partner. I'd say if my guy was having trouble in the bedroom but was willing to talk about it and work on it I'd definitely stay, but if he thought he was God's gift to the earth and refused to try, I wouldn't stick around and be unhappy. There's always room for improvement (for girls and guys)!

  • Sexual satisfaction is one of the things that make a relationship grow and continue to stay on track and good. This said if he can't get the job done in the bedroom it is time to move on.

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  • Yes I would gladly stay with my boyfriend if he couldn't sexually satisfy me. I could personally live with it, and to be entirely honest, seeing him being sexually satisfied by me, is enough for me... I would be completely happy never having sex and giving him head, either way it doesn't bother me.

  • Personality and Sexual attraction are important in a relationship. I learned that the hard way. If there is no sexual attraction then the guy might dump you. My fiance loves me because of my personality and he thinks i'm the sexiest woman alive.(I know some people may disagree, but that's in his eyes) My fiance was afraid of there no being sexual attraction, but then he changed his mind.

  • It depends, if he's willing to work on it then no, but if he's just a selfish lover who couldn't give a shit if you come or not, then no, definitely not.

  • If my boyfriend and I don't have sexual chemistry, I would not stay with him.

  • no.. its sorta the whole point

  • I would if what I told/taught him would lead him to improve.

  • imma put this out there and say that if anyone makes sex the pinnacle of their relationship then they are delusional to the concept of love

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    • I completely agree. To be honest, my current boyfriend has yet to make me climax, and I get him there a lot. But I am quite content in giving and not really receiving. Sure he doesn't sexually satisfy me, but he satisfies me in other ways which make up for it.

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  • No way! There's many ways to get a woman off. If he can't take his time or care enough to get me off for some selfish reason then... Why would I stay? Not being satisfied sexually is way deeper than just sex.

  • If it's lack of skill, that can be worked on:)
    If he's just an asshole and doesn't care, he's probably generally like that.. So no.

  • Probably not but it depends on his personality and how he treats me.

  • I'd attempt to incorporate toys into the bedroom.

  • The only way that would happen is if he's totally vanilla. If he's open-minded, we'll be fine. I think good sex isn't necessarily instantaneous. People give up too easily.

    • Whats totally vanilla?

    • I guess someone who only wants to do missionary, not open to anything else.

  • NOPE I wouldn't. I need sex. And if for whatever reason he wouldn't ever be able to satisfy me sexually it's not going to work out.

    • Maybe we need each other. My girl seem doesn't really care about sex lately.. it is always me to start it, and there is no more flirting from her anymore like she used to be when we fisrt met..

  • No, I'll stay. I'll communicate to him what I want and I'll let him to tell me what he wants. Find a middle ground. And make it all better.

  • Probably not.

    • Actually I think it depends on whether he works on it.

  • Yeah, Id stay.

  • yes, if i really love him and have someone on the side that has a better sex drive to please me. lol

  • I would bring other people in the bedroom to teach him.

  • If I tried to teach him and nothing worked then I would have to leave.

  • Yes, I'd have to be all fake to have a boyfriend