Girls, is a thick penis intimidating or arousing to you?

Let's say you're about to get intimate with a new guy for the very first time, and when he takes his pants off, you discover that his girth is considerably above average. Would you be intimidated, aroused, or indifferent? Would you be concerned about being able to give him oral? Would you be worried that he'd hurt you? Would you be eager to get your hands on it? Just randomly wondering what would go through a girl's head.
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  • I'd be concerned that he would hurt me as I've very petite. I'd be kind of worried that I'd have to turn him down if it ends up being to painful... and trust me, that is one of the hardest things in the world to tell someone you care about.

    • I'm assuming from your post that you've had to turn someone down before? If so, I'm sorry to hear that, but may I ask why you had to?

    • Yes, I have had to before. It was so hard to tell him. But it was so painful when he put it in that I couldn't handle it. It was just too thick. We compromised with oral and other things and eventually tried vaginal sex again but it was still too painful. I had to be honest because pain is not fun... I really liked him and he really liked me, but our organs weren't compatible lol.

    • Oh, that's a shame. I'm sorry that you had to go through that; both the pain and telling him that you couldn't do it.

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  • for me it's arousing
    it doesn't need to be huge to feel good but as long as I can take it completely without pain, being bigger is a plus

    • If you don't mind my asking a personal question: about how thick could you handle before it starts to be painful?

    • sorry but I don't measure them and I'm very bad at guessing, so I don't know. but never had any problems so far...

    • No reason to apologize at all. I wouldn't have expected you to pull out a tape measure, lol. It was more of an "if you happen to know" question. Thank you for being honest, though.

  • I don't know I don't know I don't know I don't know I don't know I don't know I don't know I don't know I don't know I don't know
    :)

    • Haha, at least you're honest. :-)

    • HHHH

Most Helpful Guys

  • This is a really good question because I have a thicker penis over length, I stretched my ex, when me and her 1st started dating I could only fit maybe 2 fingers, but after 2 months I could fit nearly my whole fist

    • lol I don't know how I'd feel about this if it happened to me.

  • @bubble_tea
    Since red_dragon forgot to call you for this xD

    • lol... I don't have to answer ALL of them xD

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  • Most probably, a little of both.

    • So, a little concerned, but still curious enough to try?

  • I like length more than girth... but I would try it out

    • How big is good?

    • My favorite one so far is nine inches makes me squirt

  • Nothing wrong with a big dick. I had better like them as I married a guy with enough to keep me very happy for a lifetime.

    • Haha, glad to hear it. Thank you for responding.

  • I wouldn't mind sucking a thick cock. Infact I would love it.

    • You wouldn't be worried about a sore jaw at all? I'm only asking because that's usually the number one comment that I get from women.

    • I don't like anal sex nor do I like cock in my ass. It's painful. I gotta please my guy. So, I learned to deepthroat. At first, it was tough. Practice made me better. But I always make sure there is a safe word.

    • Oh, yeah, I don't blame you about anal sex. It's not my thing, either, so I would have no desire to even try. Glad to hear that practice helped you with oral, though.

  • I've pushed three kids out, pretty sure a big cock isn't going to intimidate me.

    • Just because you haven't seen mine, yet.

    • Challenge accepted @yadddayaddayadda02 😉

    • @yaddayaddayadda02

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  • I've had 2 kids and that would hurt me. 😞

    • Shouldn't it be easier? Or is it because you did Kegel exercises?

    • No that's a myth, the vagina is made to stretch pretty far.

    • That's the opposite of what I would have expected. Usually women that have had kids say they can take anything after that. Thank you very much for commenting.

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  • a little bit of both

    • you made us wait 10 hours and that's your entire input haha you have to put in detail :P

    • @zorro8888 what the.. LOL no, I don't xD

    • xD (filler)

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  • I would be super wet, knowing that HE WILL hurt me as I
    not only need but am used to sex that is painful.

    HAF!!!

    • Haha, I've never had anyone react quite like that before. Maybe I just haven't had anyone who's into pain like that.

  • I prefer girth to length... not sure how big you are talking... if I guy caught me by surprise with an impressive package I just wasn't sure about it or it was out of my comfort range... I would give it my all but no promises...

    • How big is too big?

    • I really don't have an answer for that... I would have to try it and see... I know anything over about 7-8 inches it too long for me... it hurts when they bottom out and hit my cervix... but as far as girth the vagina is amazingly stretchy might take a little work but I am sure it would eventually go in

    • I was actually trying to avoid giving a specific numerical figure, simply because everyone has their own opinions on what they consider "thick". I also didn't want to use my own measurements, in an effort to avoid people thinking that I was bragging/trolling/looking for validation. I can provide you with a number, though, if you'd prefer?

  • Honestly, get turned on