Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
Intro
I'm a Feminist. I support women having equal rights and being treated equally to men. What I'm about to say here may offend some people, you've been warned. This take is about Female sexuality (my knowledge of it at least, I'm way younger than my accounts age by the way). The aim of this take is to inform people of how girls view sex and the reality of dating and sex in the Modern World. I do hope you will enjoy and will learn something new about girls. Lets get started.
Sex Drive
Men and women's sex drives are actually very, very similar. Everyone is different (slightly) so girls with a higher sex drive than most guys definitely exist and vice versa. Surprise: Girls actually have a slightly higher sex drive. Now, studies say it's the opposite but that is a lie. Girls like sex and want sex a lot because they want pleasure. Sex is a fun activity for girls...they don't have the crazy, unstoppable urges than men have. Girls have sex for different reasons than guys do. Guys have sex because our bodies pressure us to - this happens to girls sometimes but usually girls want sex because they wanna feel pleasure, not to satisfy their urges.
One Night Stands and Casual Sex
There's a massive myth that people believe. The myth states that girls need an emotional connection with a guy before they'll sleep with him. This is a complete lie. Girls view sex as a simple, fun thing. Nothing more or less. Girls think a guy is hot - they'll fuck him. There is nothing deep about it (pun). Girls want raw, sex and who can blame them? Girls are on vacation...they wanna fuck a foreigner....girls are out with their friends and chat to a hot guy - they wanna fuck. It's as simple as that. Girls have a lot of casual sex and hookups. Girls have more casual sex than guys do actually - they lie about their "number" though so it seems like they don't. Girls do in fact have a higher partner count than guys do. This is actually normal and I think it's great that girls can now fulfill their sexual desires freely.
Masturbation, kinks and fetishes
Girls masturbate all the time. Just like guys do - maybe even more. They also watch porn. Natural and healthy, just like guys, except here's the difference. Girls are way more kinkier than guys - Porn sites did surveys and have stats showing us that girls are much more varied when it comes to sex and are into very "weird" sex acts. For example, girls love to watch group sex, mostly a bunch of guys fucking one girl. Girls also watch bondage and "submissive" types of porn. So girls are very fucking kinky, way more than guys are. People need to know about this too. Female sexuality is extremely perverted...WAY MUCH MORE THAN GUYS.
Girls are just like guys. They love sex. People need to realize how girls really are and accept it. Girls are kinky little sex goblins. Quote me on that. Thanks for reading. Just remember: Girls aren't saints.
What Girls & Guys Said
21 38sadly, men like it way more though xD
Fascinating
U r no damn feminist, u have a bitter hatred against them so you all this shit and the girls agree without realizing the bad light you paint over us. Stupid women
How do I paint you in a bad light? I know girls are horny little sex goblins, I didn’t mean it in a bad way.
You just here for the reactions? Too bad, you're not getting one from me other than laughter.
99% of women want money , big dick and handsome guy in the same person
therefor they fuck 3 different guys because one of them has money 1 has big dick and 1 is handsome
some girls find this 1 guy that has it all and they fuck only him , thats all
whores :)
you know... i can't argue with the logic... but i love.. LOVE that last line.
this should have been MH...
Well of course it's convenient for a guy to make these claims. Notice that every single woman here disagrees with you? Women do not have a libido. If they did, there would be no such thing as rape or the MeToo movement, and men would be getting objectified just as much as women.
You don't know many girls do you or perhaps you live in an alternate universe that the rest of us have never heard of. Where are these women that are fucking everything that moves. Newsflash, most women are sitting around right now doing the same things everyone else is doing, they are not all engaging in kinky sex.
Oh... and you might want to cut down on the porn sites.
Um... people already accept this. What the hell are you talking about.
He wants people to accept that being a slut is ok.
I would wish that everyone can judge it that way
It's bullshit because women generally have weaker sex drive and they don't experience sexual attraction until they form an emotional connection with someone.
@deliriousmistakess who told you that? 😂 Bro you know NOTHING about Girls. Girls like dick, plain and simple... they actually love hooking up and fucking different guys.
they don't experience sexual attraction until they form an emotional connection with someone. they like dick (lovers dick) but after an emotional connection with him not before
@deliriousmistakess yeah no. I’ve been attracted to plenty of men who I’ve had no emotional connection with any woman who tells you different is either lying or is demisexual.
@coralee www.reddit.com/.../
Do you think all of them are liar? Most of them say seeing men = seeing nice painting. Broad shoulders, symmetry face, abs, back muscles, veiny forearms, well-defined calf muscles is just nice as like nice painting if they already don't know the guy well or the guy is not their familiar and if stated conditions aren't met.
@deliriousmistakess Yes or they are as I said demisexual which is defined as not forming sexual attraction until an emotional connection is formed. And using a reddit post as evidence for how all women think is ridiculous. First of all reddit attracts a very specific type of person and your sampling isn’t going to be diverse enough.
@coralee Is GAG/REDDIT full of notoriously queer bisexual/demisexual girls or only notoriously queer bisexual/demisexual girls use GAG/REDDIT?
Even How often do you feel sexual attraction? ↗
How often do women feel instant sexual attraction towards strangers? ↗
All questions was just a random question but why all women shared the same comment?
If you ask the same question towards men you will see totally opposite thing.
Most women as like you cleverly use some word "some", "all" without defining what does it mean.
No one says all, rather we say most, majority. If majority of women feel sexual attraction without knowing, without interacting with a person then why do we see totally opposite things on GAG, REDDIT?
Even on real life women say the same thing.
Women rather obsessed with their own beauty and own sexuality. They watch lesbian porn, female masturbation but when it comes to men ew
@deliriousmistakess Real life women aren't telling you intimate details about their sex lives. You aren't there for things women discuss when men aren't around you only know what they are willing to show you. I can tell you the way women talk about guys changes dramatically if there are only women in the room. There are women and men who identify as demisexual but they are not the majority or even a significant portion.
@coralee I know most women wouldn't seriously fuck a stranger. But what they say is they can't feel sexual attraction until get to know the guy. "Looks alone doesn't make me feel anything more than appreciating a nice painting. Someone can be objectively good-looking to me, but until I get to know them I almost never feel any kind of sexual attraction." The more confusing thing is they are not demisexual (according to them) because they used "get to know" term not "emotional connection". Another delusional thing is "I do have to find them attractive to feel sexual attraction." I need to know the person at least on some level to feel sexual attraction." But when they see attractive guys they can't feel sexual attraction. After get to know an unattractive guys they also can't feel sexual attraction. It's not demisexuality because they don't need emotional connection, they need to know the person. This is too delusional. Have you heard this term? What is it?
Last night I have seen this post
Girls, how often do you experience sexual attraction? Are single girls basically asexual? ↗
Here @ivannna claims that women can't feel sexual attraction without emotional connection.
And here you said the opposite thing.
Can you break the confusion which one are right?
@deliriousmistakess I’m telling you exactly that I know plenty of women who have had sex with strangers. I have had sex with strangers. Some women choose not to but that has more to do with perceived danger then anything else. You are delusional if you think women don’t like casual sex.
Get to know means the same thing as an emotional connection. If they are saying they need to get to know someone in order to be sexually attracted to them they are demisexual. If they claim otherwise they don’t know what it means.
@coralee exactly. Girls are very cold an emotionless in reality. Girls don't value sex or anything like that. Girls just want to fuck like animals and that's the reality of our society.
@coralee How plenty is "plenty"? sex with strangers is norm for women? they are exception/rare? Most Pink user on this site are liar, abnormal? Real normal women don't use this site? Then you ask a question regarding this topic and invite me, I want to see the result
@deliriousmistakess Not a rarity at all. I'd say 65% of the women I know under the age of 35 have engaged in casual sex. First of all you need to learn to critically analyze the things you read. Not every pink user on this site votes on every question. This site also doesn't keep track of demographics. I can guarantee that a good chunk of the girls making these claims are under 22. When you are younger it is easy to misunderstand feelings. Lust becomes love, sad becomes depressed, and happy becomes ecstatic.
@coralee I think many guys think of girls too highly. A lot of guys think that girls need an “emotional connection” to have sex with a guy. Or that most girls have sex out of love. This is bullshit. Most girls under the age of 25 just want something casual. Girls separate feelings & emotions from sex. Sex is just a fun thing for girls. I’d say about 80% of girls have gone home with a guy on a night out. I’d say even more girls have had a Tinder hookup. Girls certainly aren’t love-oriented. They is usually just want sex.
@coralee if a girl is sexually attracted to a guy without outside factors, there's a high chance she's attracted to a girl too. Cause most girls can be attracted to guys but not sexually enough to lust or be horny, if they do feel lust for a guy, usually they have too for a girl. Cause sexually lusting girls are bisexual than straight. as like you they are also aroused by female body. so, I can't say 100% straight women can feel sexually attracted to guys without emotional connection
@deliriousmistakess This girls is the sad case of man who can't find a girl to talk to him in real life and then has to come up with elaborate theories as why his rotten luck with women is not his fault. The good ole all women are lesbians stick. We can see right through you buddy.
@coralee Then tell me most Pink user on this site are liar, abnormal? Real normal women don't use this site? Then you ask a question regarding this topic and invite me, I want to see the result. Ask a question by using this headline. Are average straight women sexually attracted to the male body without acknowledging of who that man is or what his personality is like or even what his name? or Are straight women sexually attracted to men without "getting to know" him?
@coralee if you had sex with men without emotional connection then you're a slut.
"Some women choose not to but that has more to do with perceived danger then anything else." I had never had sex with strangers because that is totally disgusting to me. Besides I respect myself and will never be able to make men use me like sex objects.
@adeqi And I’m okay with that. Your perception of me doesn’t phase me one bit. I’ll live my life and you live yours.
@adeqi I totally resent sexual experience and respect being equates to one another. I’m not being used by anyone. I engage in consensual sex that both I and my partner wanted that isn’t being used. You don’t want to engage in casual sex that is fine and a valid choice but let’s not engage in this ridiculos virtue pumping. Your better then that. Me having different views on sex and relationships then you doesn’t harm you in anyway you don’t have to act like a teenage and get all high and mighty because someone lives there life differently then you do.
@coralee If you are nothing but a sex object then you are used. You are different. Sure. I know that. And you don't have to harm me for me to abhor your lifestyle.
@adeqi Have fun with that
@coralee You forgot to replay mine? Then tell me most Pink user on this site are liar, abnormal? Real normal women don't use this site? Then you ask a question regarding this topic and invite me, I want to see the result. Ask a question by using this headline. Are average straight women sexually attracted to the male body without acknowledging of who that man is or what his personality is like or even what his name? or Are straight women sexually attracted to men without "getting to know" him?
@adeqi Yeah not a sex object I’m a person and my personhood and my value as a human doesn’t change based on the amount of sex or type I’ve had. You are the one equating a woman’s worth to sex. You can’t claim someone only sees themself as an object to be used while simultaneously treating them as an object to be used. If you think women are worth more then just being sexual objects then you can’t define them based on sex that is hypocrisy at its finest.
@coralee Only a woman just break your logic
@deliriousmistakess She didn’t break my login you can be sexually attracted to someone without having sex with the person. She didn’t say anything about not being attracted to people and one person doesn’t make or break an argument so nice try
@coralee if you let men treat you as nothing but an object for pleasure then you have no self worth. Your choice. Not mine.
@adeqi How is engaging in something I want to do letting men use me? You are mistakenly assuming that I don’t want to engage in sex just as much as the guy does. It’s not being used if I’m gaining just as much as they are in the experience. You are the one turning sex into a transaction instead of the enjoyable act two people can engage in together. You treat sex as a way to get a relationship out of a guy I treat it as something I engage in when I want it with a person I want too. Who is really being used here the person engaging in something she enjoys or the person who is using sex as a means to get a relationship. I don’t treat sex like a commodity, sorry.
@coralee Who said you don't want to be used like a sex object? I never denied it. You let men use you only for sex becasue that's what you want. No one rapes you.
Only sluts think women who have sex within committed relationship are bing used. You can't be this dense. Please stop! You don't mind getting no love becasue you know you are worthy of no love
@adeqi I am in a committed relationship sweetheart I’m doing just fine. And I am not saying all women in relationships are being used I’m saying you specifically treat sex as a commodity that you give someone rather then something you both enjoy. You can only have sex within a committed relationship and not treat it like a commodity.
@coralee If you can have sex with someone to whom you're only for fucking then you have no self respect. Only weak men date sluts by the way
@adeqi Keep telling yourself that kiddo. I’m perfectly happy in my relationship and I don’t need someone else to validate my choices.
@coralee sure. Now you are trying to upgrade yourself by bringing up committed relationships. You understand casual sex is degrading. Otherwise you would try to upgrade yourself by bringing it up
@adeqi You are the one that said I didn't think I deserved love that was me proving you wrong but okay if that makes you feel better about yourself.
@coralee you are the one proving you don't need love for getting fucked
@adeqi I don’t. I seek love for other reasons. But anyway I’m done with this conversation. Have a nice life.
@coralee Your body is very available. because you are not worthy
Someone help me out here; this take makes it sound like an average guy (granted somewhat visually attractive with nonthreatening, polite mannerisms) can just walk into a grocery store, ask a woman out, and half the time walk out with a sex partner.
i think this Take is telling you the adjacent opposite. It means be as average as you want, but if you want to have a sex partner... you gotta be a "dick"
@Tdieseler wait what does that mean
i have no idea...
Agree
Good take
Thank you!
I believe women do., but you also need some kind of control. Men and women. You also need to be responsible since a child could be the outcome. I believe if you are married anything goes.
I just love sex, and I know a lot of other women who do too.
Ok then
This is weird Malfoy
Excellent Take! Good Job.
Dude, don't write about girls. I agree with what you write. For a guy to write about womens thoughtprocess is like women talking about how it is to have a dick. They have no idea.
Absolutely right.
Well women have more options than men. All they have to do is say yes when asked. When they do the asking I don't think they are rejected as many times as men. They should enjoy sex. Why not it takes two. I'm sure society is to blame for the perception that women aren't as sexual as they are.
Having lived through the 70's I know it's quite possible that as much or more than men. Now maybe for whatever reasons we are in a new sexual revolution. Hope so I'm single right now.