Girls, most of you say your first time fucking hurts. Is it just because of your hymen breaking or is there something else about it that hurts?

[FunkyMonkee]

What do you think would help to keep it FROM hurting?

[BrookeAZ90]

I was ok the first time because I'd used my toys before the first time with a guy. But first time I put that in, it was a little sore because it was probably not as small as it should have been for the first time. But using something to stretch it out beforehand is probably the best way.

[Anonymous]

It hurts not only from hymen breaking, but also from a hole being stretched open, a hole that has never been stretched open before in that manner. Ofcourse it’s going to hurt. Only way I managed to avoid pain in my first time was by breaking my own hymen/stretching myself open with a toy a few weeks prior to losing my virginity. Had no pain when we had sex after that.

[FunkyMonkee]

That's what I was thinking but, I would've probably used a finger or two, first and gradually spread them apart.

[Opinion Owner]

Fingers don’t compare to having sex, even if you finger her, she’s still going to face pain during sex

[FunkyMonkee]

I know but, I mean, slip two in there and spread them open slightly as your rotate them around.

[Opinion Owner]

It’s worth a try, it might help to stretch her.

[FunkyMonkee]

If I was a girl, that's probably the first thing I'd try out.

[Opinion Owner]

From personal experience, I felt absolutely no pleasure from having fingers in me until after I’d lost my virginity. It was as if there was no sensation whatsoever down there until after sex. Although even to this day, I hate being fingered. Doesn’t feel good.

[FunkyMonkee]

Hmmm, I wonder why? My last girlfriend said it didn't feel comfy to her, either.

[Kichbazp_]

@funkymonkee I think how much it will hurt to a girl, it depends on dick size and the angel which he uses in her pussy, I know s girl who used to cry a lot !

[Apple1996]

Cause of the hymen and the streching. I had my hymen popped from being fingered and it was soo soo painful and blood everywhere, running down my legs, took days to heal. Sex for the first time was painful too and had some blood.

[FunkyMonkee]

Which one hurt more?

[Apple1996]

1000% when my hymen broke cause the guy was really rough with me

[SavvyyNicolee]

It did hurt but he was rather large for me tbh, I was 13 and he was older and wasn’t gentle after initial penetration.

[FunkyMonkee]

Ow!! Yeah, ya can't be rough with something like that, at least not for her first time and with a big dick!

[RuthlessAggression]

Did you do a lot of foreplay before hand. Did he take it slow when entering. Sometimes men just want to jam it in, because they're so horny that they forget that they're opening a relatively small hole. Next time you're "having sex" you might want to tell him how slow you want it to go in (we're not psychic) Synthetic lube always helps too, especially with condoms

[SavvyyNicolee]

There was very little foreplay and yeah it was a painful experience, I was face diving in the pillows more than I was communicating because it stopped hurting after a while so I didn’t say much tbh.

[FunkyMonkee]

Did it hurt to walk?

[RuthlessAggression]

I'm sorry you had to deal with that sort of discomfort. Next time remember to do more foreplay

[BillyBalls]

13? Wow!!!

[SavvyyNicolee]

It didn’t hurt to walk but I was a bit stiff, and yes 13

[RuthlessAggression]

I'm sorry you had to deal with being stiff, at least it didn't hurt. What did you do to become unstiff after it

[FunkyMonkee]

How long did it take for the pain to go away?

[PypeLayin01]

He wasn't gentle lol? Probably just excited. Where did he finish?

[Anonymous]

Mine didn't hurt at all I was very scared and then nothing happened.