GIRLS! my girlfriend really doesn't like cum?

What would you say to do? With blowjobs she doesn't want to swallow and that's kinda why she doesn't really give them. Aside from cumming in her mouth then having her run to the sink or something what can we do? Or what makes blowjobs enjoyable for the girl at all?
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  • I am not sure about you but my husband shoots his load so if his **** is in my mouth and he cums it goes strait down my throat I can't even taste it, feel it, much less find anyway to reject it since it happens so fast and so forcefully lol So if she has no problem taking it deep maybe she can avoid feeling it in her mouth and tasting it altogether. I like giving head if my husband is freshly showered, hygiene is so important. If she just can't handle it in her mouth or even the thought of it she can give you head as foreplay but not till the point you ejaculate and you can ejaculate inside of her or maybe with a handjob. I don't mind my husband cumming on me I can't avoid it since I can't take birth control we use the withdraw method man shoots like an Olympian half way across a room and the volume its mind-boggling, he can actually soak my hair and my hair is as thick as hell, I think he's desensitized me lol Once he shot it up my nose on accident that was funny as hell, we just cracked up. Ahem. You might motivate her by returning the favor if you don't if she's not a fan of oral try doing other things she really likes masturbating her, using toys, whatever but the more you give the more giving she might be it can't hurt. Also the hornier I am the more kinky I want to get, so if you get her really worked up before you ask her to do anything a lot of those inhibition fly out the door. Maybe 69 will keep her horny at the same time or fingering her while she does it so she's getting off if she's not into giving oral.

    • Umm wow you kinda got off subject there chicky lol

  • I hardly ever swallow, but I also will hold it in my mouth and do some afterglow with him and not race to the sink I think that is rude and makes the guy feel like you have to throw it up or something, which that isn't the case I just don't like to swallow it's not about him at all or thinking it's gross so much as it leaves an aftertaste that I don't care for...as for the what is enjoyable for us question it's the same as with guys and oral, we like to turn our men on and feel that power of teasing him to the point of explosion ;)

    • race to the sink I think that is rude. How?

    • how is it not rude? lol if a guy went down on you and afterward ran to the bathroom to sputter and spit it all out of his mouth wouldn't you be like "well then...I guess I'm disgusting" that's how I'd feel so I don't do that, but I"m a good southern girl so maybe it's just my raisin' :p

  • Just warn her and have her switch to using her hand when you're about to cum. That way she can decide what she wants to do. But talk to her about it so she knows that it's okay if she doesn't swallow. That way you can get your bjs and she doesn't have to do the part that she doesn't like. Problem solved!

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  • I don't think you can taste salty things in the back of your throat.. eat less caffeinated drinks, drink lots of water cut down on red meat and drink lots of pineapple juice

  • Decide early in your relationship if you want to spend a significant amount of time with a woman who has sexual hangups.

    • thats one way to put it nicely...lol

    • Not wanting what you want = sexual hangups? I thought it equaled sexual incompatibility. No one is sexually hung up or kinky. They just don't like certain things or like different things.

    • pixie, you're a child.

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  • What would you say to do?

    Is her swallowing that big of a deal?

    I tell my girls if a guy wants you to swallow give him a bj deposit it in a glass and have him swallow.

    No guy has done this. Girls come & guys come are not equal. Guy's come is thicker and usually a lot more plus it's like a shot right down your mouth for a guy the girl's come spreads out unless she's a squirter.

    Aside from cumming in her mouth then having her run to the sink or something what can we do?

    Wear a condom that way she doesn't taste any cum

    Why does she have to let you come in her mouth?

    • You don't have to get all defensive... I was asking for the reason of not coming in her mouth and to find a way to make it better for HER!

    • What's defensive? I'm just asking why is it so important that she swallows?

    • Its not. Hence finding ways around it..

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  • If she doesn't like to swallow, there's probably nothing that will change that. Maybe you could compromise a little. She could bring you to orgasm with her mouth, then maybe let you come somewhere else you enjoy, like on her boobs or something. Most guys love that anyway.

  • Maybe if you came in a towel she'd do it more often? Ask her what she would prefer.

  • You really shouldn't be asking us you should be asking her silly