Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
I am a student in sexology and we did a research in sexual behavior on Tinder.
It's something we can't deny that it has a big impact on many people's sex lives. We asked questions to 300 guys and 300 girls who use tinder about their sexual experiences. They were easy to find since it seems to be extremely popular with people from ages 18 to 35! Here are some results that surprised me.
- Unlike I thought, 240 of the 300 girls actually had sex through tinder! Only less than 50 of the 300 men, which is remarkable.
- When we asked for numbers to the people that did have sex: Girls did it on average less than the few guys that did. That means that a couple guys score with almost al the women.
- These men do however show a lot of similarities: Muscular, well-endowed relaxed and (surprise!) a little beerbelly? The girls described the men's attractive personal traids as "they know what they want and don't hold back to take it."
- The opening lines that worked, were often extremely flat but to the point. One that seemed to work was just "wanna smash".
- It appears that these dates where sex was involved were mostly not related with hopes for relationships, just casual sex. The sex in most cases happened on a first date or even just immediately at someones place.
- The terms that came up most to describe the sex were: emotionless, hard, wild, fast, fun, physical and although that wasn't our question, doggystyle (lol). They rated their sexual encounters almost always as very good (other options were bad, mediocre, good). Many even said their best sexual experience is through tinder.
- Neither girls nor guys regretted the sex afterwards, but almost all girls like to keep it a secret, or with very close friends. Many guys liked to share their stories in detail. (not so surprising maybe)
- Something negative: Around 50 women admitted to have cheated through Tinder. Very few guys have. In almost all cases, the partner doesn't have a clue.
- Something positive: Almost everyone agreed that Tinder is a very positive influence on their sex lives.
So it seems that a lot of girls show more sexual interest than we thought. Also it seems (and not only through tinder) that women are, and this is increasing fast, daring to admit that they really enjoy casual sex without emotions and prefer certain guys simply for that purpose. This is a very posivive evolution for sexual/mental health. The number of women cheating however (this is also discovered through other researches) is also increasing VERY fast, and it is becoming less and less taboo, which in my eyes is a little shocking. The cheating doesn't mainly happen through tinder though, but apparently mostly at work with a boss or superior figure.
What Girls & Guys Said
17 63Non of this surprise me, already knew it. It should shatter the delusions of a lot though.
This kinda makes you wonder about future STD trends, like a few guys with STD's and tons of women with them. Kinda makes me worry a lot more about catching something from the women I see, yikes!! I wonder how long it will take for common opinions to be that women are dirty and full of STD's because you know that is where this is going...
Or a few hundred guys having kids with thousands of single moms, single moms are terrible for society! This trend might have been fine in a tribal community for what ever reason but in the modern world it's a recipe for disaster.
Not to mention the problems that are caused when a large group of a cultures men finds them selves disenfranchised, especially when it comes to women. Likely we will see a lot more violence, war or men just giving up and opting out of society until it all collapses from the lack of male participation and burden of single mothers. Plenty of evidence this is all happening right now.
This reminds me of another study I read a while back, I'll sum it up quickly. They took turns giving a group of male then female children a supply of resources, I think it was candy of some kind, then they told them they could trade the candies for stuff or something...
Anyway when the boys were in charge of the candy, everyone, more or less, got an equal share. When the girls were in charge of the candy a few boys got most of it, most boys and a few girls got a small portion and a small group of girls got zero.
std transfer from women to men is higher than from men to women. Studies show that 1 in 3 women in college with at least 4 or more sexual partner count has an STD. So in essence from this finding ini Mytake. Women sleep with men who are sleeping with multiple girls. They contract STD, and then well the guy who doesn't get any gets the lovely privledge of getting STD infections from a girl who got it from the guy she was sleeping with.
@Roostah Women are more likely to get infected based on her anatomy alone, down stream partner, other then that I agree with what your saying and was actually saying the same thing.
Yes it's true: most women's natural aversion is towards polygyny - the most high status 20% of the male population tend to sleep with 80% of women. This is because women are hypergamous by nature.
So it’s exactly what I thought. Tinder is a tool for women only. And it’s very bad for men.
Guys don’t have an app where they can be normal and find a sexy woman to have sex with once in a while. There is no equivalent, and thus this is female privilege.
Unless you’re a rich man on a sugar daddy website*
This isn't especially good news for guys. It just means that women only want the best of the best, but men will be happy to oblige. Most men aren't getting laid, and it's not them who are turning down the women.
Women are in very high social demand for sex and are just loving the ride. Men (except for the most physically fit) are just left out to dry.
Just like before Tinder. Tinder just reveals it.
Besides, did anyone ever doubt that women smash? On tinder or otherwise?
Red pill men have been saying this for decades. If blue pill men want to keep denying it, they can continue to feed the system and marry a tinder, 'modern', 'liberated', 'princess' who can do no wrong, and who's taken more D- than a cock farm.
I agree with most of these assessments.
"Wanna smash" makes me laugh, I can see why it works.
What would be interesting to hear is the common scientific knowledge that men and women have different ways of estimate their numbers. Men generally exaggerate while women understate. So the difference should be even bigger.
That being said, Tinder is a place for hookups and thus only a certain demographic moves there. Interesting nonetheless.
Really? Do you 'exaggerate'? I know I don't.
So every time someone comes on here and talks about how 20% of men get 80% of the women they are basically telling the truth? Disappointing...
Sorry but I'm afraid it's true.
Its something a lot of guys suspect is somewhat true but seeing proof of it is unsettling.
Fuckin hypocrites! (Hoes that is.) only difference between a prostitute a wife or a girlfriend is the prices. ... and the prostitute is cheapest!
I have a friend who made a fake profile of a hot, white, buff, model. His only message to girls: "Wanna fk. Give me your number." Numbers proceeded to roll in minutes later. These are the women white knights treat like princesses and work to win over like servants. I took the red pill 2 years ago. Never been happier with the truth.
This only reaffirms my belief that Tinder is terrible... but I keep using it anyways, out of hope I guess...
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1713321-why-are-the-women-on-tinder-so-freakin-ridiculous
And yeah the women on Tinder are total hoes. Found that out quick. Had to swipe left for a ton of them to find just one or two decent girls. Kinda ruins women as a whole for you the longer you're on there.
Wait why are they hoes? Because they are there to smash on a known hookup site like yourself doesn't that make you a hoe to? ill wait
@squeelz I clearly state I'm only there for realtionships (and I am), and there's some girls on there for that too. I mean hoes as in have low standards for who they have sex with. I've seen some of the guys on there from a friend's profile and many of them look absolutely disgusting, like those dudes must be carrying some VD. So if the women on there are banging these guys without thinking they probably have gotten a VD too.
My fault I didn't see the relationship searching part. But I respect your response and your opinion
hmm so this means that women in tinder smash more than the men there do?
I bet they do since its easier for them to do so, they also bang and get free stuff in return while playing mind games. this further proofs my theory on all women being whores one way or another correct.
Yes. That was the point of the article,
@Robertcw I was being sarcastic. Obviously ALL women smash more than men cause as I already said before, they have it way more easier. Tinder is basically an escort app for women. That offers free service and awards
I wouldn't say all. Lots of girls spend their lives rejecting keeping body count in the single digits. Only some get embroiled in the Tinder lifestyle. I've been lucky to have very marginal success on the app in the past. But aside from those few exceptions I completely hate it.
sooo basically a fraction of guys are getting their dicks very wet, very often
Well, basically yes
this is the 80-20 rule. 20 percent of the men get 80% of the women. remember men never seriously date a women over 23. if you can't lock one down early then she's not worth doing it latter.
what? please explain more, do I have a 2 year time limit to find a serious boyfriend? You have literally just given me a panic attack.
@Suhmer lol no i was telling other men to not take a women seriously after 23.
agreed. a lot of female 'sexologists' fall for the apex fallacy. they judge all men on the top 1-20%.
@dudeman ohhh i understand now. I am still panicking about running out of time though lol
@Suhmer As more and more men wise up to how all this works, I'd say it's more like a 1 year window. After that, men will assume that you're trash and they'll chuck you in the garbage the way those 300 women chucked those 250 men in the garbage. Isn't gender equality awesome?
everyone on tinder is looking for some surfer white boy to fuck.
Here's my week long Tinder dating history:
1. Got on tinder, right swiped for like an hour or 2.
2. Got some matches, said simple intros
3. Started talking to a couple, setup a date with one girl.
4. Went on date at a nice steakhouse, she ordered a Vodka dirty martini (you know what this means if you are American and in your 20s...)
5. Watched fireworks after.
6. Made out because she literally raped my mouth. She wouldn't stop kissing me.
7. Stopped using Tinder because I date classy girls lol.
What kind of intros do you usually use? I always struggle with that part xD I have 2-3 that work, but not all the time and in the end it gets boring.
@AleDeEurope Well I'm no Casablanca but I like to form my strategy with women based on what every other guy is NOT doing. So think what are the other guys doing: 1. "Hey whats up" 2. "wow you are sexy!" Don't be simple, boring or generic like #1. Don't be superficial like #2. Say something genuine/fun/classy/unique like: "Wow you have a really beautiful smile!" "We just matched, does that mean we are bf-gf now?" good luck!
Ok, thanks man ;)
@AleDeEurope Welcome brother, good luck!! You got that Spaniard-Exotic thing goin' for ya.
more like swiped right endlessly for days on end never finding a match T. T All well, that all stops when you have a girlfriend. It should at least.
@schnipdip Ya man
"Well I'm no Casablanca..." Casanova?
@Bysshe what? i don't follow
What did you mean by "Well I'm no Casablanca..."?
@Bysshe haha oh shit man, I meant Casanova!!
You women piss off sometimes with your ignorance. It's the most duh thing that more women would have sex. In any given environment a girl if they choose to will get sex. Guys don't have this luxury.
Men with money can get laid just as much as men with looks. Its men with average looks and average money that get few to no one
Most people are built to look for sex first, i. e sexual attraction, then look for something deeper if needed.
Most romantic relationships, NSA, friends with benefits, and ONS all have the same denominator: sex.
Yeah, it shows that sociological civilization is coming to an end and people are more willing to pursue their primal urges. Minority of the males getting to mate all the females. Just like any other animal species that live with packs. Back to the nature, we're becoming smart apes with technology and losing our humanity by disregarding our social rules and ethics.
@0112358 is right in something he said in a comment. When you take a sample group, you also take the distribution characteristics of the whole group to a pretty good degree. Which means, the ratios actually gives us (Succesful Men in Tinder/Total Men in tinder) and (Successful women in tinder/Total women in Tinder) not (total sucesful men/ total number of men) and same for women. So, if there are significantly more males in Tinder than females, the gross number of men and women having sex through Tinder might actually be equal. So, it might not have produced a significant, scientific result in polygamy and female sexual behaviour.
Ill give it a shot if I am not busy, ya know, working on my life.
Tinder sounds like crap to me and It's very dangerous. Rapist, murderers can easily use it to commit their crimes and I don't see how It can be something positive, plus It don't gives that interaction you need to know well the person whit who you are having sex whit. I would rather go to a bar or some night club, socialize, have a good time and see what comes up instead of using any social media to do that.
Isn't that literally internet?
What I take from this. If your a woman, tinder is good. If your a man, you'll be just as frustrated as in real life.