Girls question about a partner?

[Anonymous]

Hi, so I have quite an embarrassing question here.

Some years back I noticed a white lump under the head of my penis. I had it checked out the doctor she told me it's most likely a peraly penile papule. Its not an Sti or anything like that but hasn't caused any issues to warrant it's removal.

I was wondering if you started dating a guy and you got to the point of being intimate and he could provide a clean thing for no STI's would you be off out at seeing this lump?

I'm wondering as I'm not currently dating or anything but I'm wondering about seeing if I can get it removed and also if that would be better for possible future relationships?

[PrettyPriya]

Best seek medical advice as far as removal. To address your other point, it may be off putting to someone who isn’t familiar with the condition. It would be hard to blame the girl for her ignorance if it does happen. If it were me, I would calmly explain what it is. If she needs further validation, you can always present a recent, clean STD health exam. Best of luck!

[Asker]

Yeah I do think about going back to my GP for removal. But I have concerns with that showing it for one, and also if I need someone to drive me to the removal appointment I worry as the only person who would is my best friend. And wouldn't know what to say if she asked whsr it's for. I would definitely explain I'd had it checked and it's nothing to worry about. And if any partner asked for an STI check I'd be happy to get checked out and share my results. I would hope she would do the same. I feel like that is an important part of a healthy relationship the open and honest communication. I think before sex even with a condom for extra safety both parties disclosing if they have an STI or going to get tested is a good idea.

[PrettyPriya]

@asker I think you have it covered pretty well then. I suspect your best friend would understand if given an explanation. She is, after all, your best friend. Should be able to share such information. If not, can you take a taxi, Uber or likewise? I trust you will feel better having it removed. That said, I wish you the best and hope that I helped, even in the littlest way. ❤️

[Asker]

Thank you for your help and yeah your right with my friend I've helped her with similar. You have definitely helped thank you so much.

[PrettyPriya]

You are most certainly welcome! Good luck to you!! ❤️❤️

[PrettyPriya]

Thank you for mhg ❤️❤️

[Lowiu]

So how big of a lump are we talking about?

[Asker]

Like something like 5-2 mm

[Lowiu]

Thats not so bad I thought you meant realy big

[Asker]

Its not massive it's just noticeable.