Girls use me for my penis?

My penis is a little over 8 and a half inches erect. The girl is usually attracted by me first without knowing how big it is, but after a while they become obsessed with sex and I feel emotionally neglected. Why do girls do this, and why do they try to hide it?
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I'd also like to add that every time I've had sex the girl would be in pain or bleed. They usually really really like it, for after 15 minutes it hurts a lot. This is pretty disconcerting, they say it's because of the thickness.
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  • Oh, wow! It's not every day you hear this perspective from a guy!

    I hate to say it, but this is apart of the ripple effect of women embracing hypersexuality.
    A lot of females want to use their body as they please, as much as they please, whenever they please but they don't want to be realistic about the outcomes that can unstoppably cause such as an imbalance of varied connections.

    So, with that said... I think they do it because they're so thrilled with the stance of liberated sexuality that they put most of their focus and efforts on exploring that and nurturing it to a point where mental and emotional connections may truly be neglected. I see a lot of females who seem to showcase all of their sexual potential first and then want to showcase more of their mental and emotional potential later on as time passes. That's often the case with FWB. Anyhow, I don't know that women are trying to hide it necessarily but that they're just unaware of what they're doing. Some girls honestly are not good at solidifying an emotional bond.

  • Dang, I am really sorry. I don't understand why they like your penis when your face is super attractive. If I wasn't crushing on someone right now, maybe we can get together heheeh I like to make my man feel special. ;)

  • Women tie emotion to sex. I find this hard to believe.
    Can you please explain how you feel emotionally neglected?
    Also, when do you start having sex after meeting a girl?

    • Whenever the girl is ready for 8.5 inches of love?

Most Helpful Guys

  • I think this owes more to the fact that you're attractive and not necessarily your penis size. If you were fat and ugly, no penis size would get you laid in the least bit. Maybe some of them are fetishising over the pain? But believe me, it's far from impossible for a woman to be less invested than you are in a relationship. What you need is to be able to distinguish between girls that are actually interested in having a relationship as opposed to the ones who are thinking "There's a hottie that I might have a shot at." It's no different from guys.

  • If this is true you're dating the wrong women. Most girls aren't not going to be super concerned with just sex in a relationship. I really doubt it. But I have a hard time believing you. Yes most women are in pain after 10-20 minutes but you say they keep wanting when it when they're in pain? Either you've ran to a few anomalies or I think you're trolling. Just look for a girl into a relationship. Most want that.

    • Good thing it wasn't a whole bunch of women. They're between the ages of 17-19, so I understand their horniness.

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  • Maybe you shouldn't have sex with them right away, that way you can build an emotional connection with them first.

  • My god. I'm actually the first time feeling sorry for a guy. Hey listen if you're getting your feelings hurt because of her, dump her and never talk to her again. Find someone who appreciates you for you not for your penis.

    • Girls don't know how "unhorny" a guy is after he ejaculates. After I ejaculate they usually want to go again and again and again. Anyways it's probably a dumb thing to complain about but my penis hurts after 2 goes with a woman, especially if she's on the heavy side.

    • Lol. Just tell her to stop, wth. You have the RIGHT to say stop during sex.

    • I'm afraid that she'll get mad and think I'm inadequate or not a man.

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  • Ah. I feel your pain. Some girls try to hide everything. I hate that. I'd rather for them to just say "I don't want you I just want your dick." Or w/e. People think that guys use girls for sex all the time, but girls use guys for sex too.

    • Awwwh : / I've met quite a few guys and once I've gotten to know them, found at that some female from their past using them really impacted them negatively

    • @Wondorous And I'm black so sometimes I feel it's even worst :/. The wild thing is that for now getting used doesn't even bother me. It's the lying I can't stand.

    • At first it's like "okay she really likes sex" but once I want to actually have fun with a girl like go to a movie or play sports or something she's never really up for it. Then I feel like I want a different girlfriend, but if I dump the one that wants sex too much I'd be called a pussy.

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  • Your story, same goes for women too. Some people are not capable of developing a relationship. They prefer lack of emotional relationship. So what will you do. You will stay away from those people. You seem like sincere person and you search for real relationship. So don't get involved with someone until you are sure. Wait for the sex, when you date with the girl.

  • This is kinda funny. Most people on this site are complaining about their penisess being too small and here you are complaining yours is too big. Lol

  • The good thing about being average sized. Girls date me for me. Not for my penis

  • I don't know man, girls seem to only like me for the free unicorn rides I give them.

  • i do NOT enjoy pain and bleeding during sex. this is precisely why i avoid big ones.

    those girls may be confused.

    • How can you really avoid it? :/

    • i tell them to put their pants back on

    • Lmao that's horrible

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  • You are a hot guy.. I would use you too :/ sorry.

    • At least you're honest.

    • LMAO

    • I've actually never had sex with a girl and have her not be in pain or bleed. This isn't a joke and I feel really insecure about it :(

  • Women use guys like that all the time. Women use men for sex all the time. The thing is he still had sex, so lesser men that don't have any sex, will make fun of him for complaining about getting what they can't. Women feel sorry for each other getting used, only because it is so easy for them to get laid whenever they want. So they aren't jealous about being able to get laid.