Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Example: The other night, she put her feet on my lap and asked if I could massage them. As I started massaging them, she asked if they "smell bad". I took a quick sniff and said "they kinda smell but not too bad". She freaked out! Started saying things like, "why are you so fucking gross! Why would you smell my feet"! I'm thinking, "bitch, you basically asked me too"! It also happened when I undressed her and she asked if I wanted to kiss her butt. I did and again, she started with the "that's disgusting!;putting your face in my ass"! She is amazing in every other way! She is very affectionate towards me, works hard, overall, treats me good but in certain "sexual" situations, she gets kinda weird and argumentative. Have any of you girls acted like this early in a relationship? Do you think she's trying to be dominant over me? I'm hoping she will change or I think we are sexually incompatible.
Girls, what do you think of my new girlfriend's behavior? Do you think it's something I should be concerned about?
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1 2Concerned? No. She has boundaries like we all do. You either respect them or you are not compatible. Obviously she has a thing about her feet. Do you regularly call her bitch in your head? If so that is not a good start. She has boundaries. You need to discuss those with her so you know what they are. You also have to respect your partner's boundaries. She has to respect yours too. It works both ways. I had a previous girlfriend that pushed mine. We were able to come to a compromise about them.
I think the other opiner is on to something, like you are. She is sending mixed messages. She definitely made it seem like I had her permission but yes, I didn't actually ask permission. I think that is unfair to say I'm not respecting her boundaries. She asked a question and I did what I felt she gave permission to act on.
That is why you discuss this sort of stuff. She shouldn't blow up at you if she hasn't said anything previously. Trust me. Worth talking about. Had to do that with an ex girlfriend for her kink.
YES!! Thank you. I just wanted you to know I wasn't in perv mode. I was doing something I thought she was cool with. If it happens again, I will play a long and "ask permission". It could be a kink she's slowly introducing me to and that's fine.
Well don't do that either not a kink she is worried they stink! Just play along and say no! Or if they do say you don't mind... It's not sexual dummy!
@RoseySarah Can you download a Hillbilly to English translation book for me? I had to delete your first comment because I thought you might have been having a stroke in the middle of writing it! I couldn't understand a fucking word of it. And after reading this one, I can see reading comprehension isn't important in your day to day life.
Yawn another useless man Hating advice Remind me never to take a break and text! Just wasting my time 😭 looking forward to the break up! I'm not a native English speaker you ass hat go smell her feet and watch her dump you for being slutty!
@RoseySarah You're not giving me advice. If you don't have a healthy grasp of the English language, then don't waste your time or MY time with your incoherent rantings. You obviously didn't comprehend anything I wrote but have accused me of being dumb, earlier you said I'm disgusting and say I have a foot fetish? Stay on the Fashion and Beauty or How Do I Look topics.
Ok reports ty! So guy screaming don't help guys who are begging for our help on questions Yup break up good for her she deserves better then a foot sniffer!
@RoseySarah WOW! Do you need clarification on anything? Anything I wrote? I can help you. You are only making an ass of yourself. I also see your nonsense all over this site. If you wanna be a fool, write your own opinion and get off Maya's!
Another report yay Your the one who is not listening to any one so why ask any girl? So glad I did not comment my thoughts and helped @_maya_Maya's comment! Another report lmao asshat
Mixed messages. All guys have had that happen. When I was young, I massaged a friend's feet after roller skating (yes, I'm old) and she asked the same thing, "Do my feet stink"? Like you, I took a whiff and she freaked! I said "you told me to smell them"! Her, maybe not exact words but close to them, "I didn't asked you to smell them! I asked if they stink. As in, can you smell any oder from where your face is in relation to my feet". I shit you not! Girls are crazy! I love them but they are crazy!
I wonder if it's some sort of kink she has related to sex and intimacy?
That is what I'm thinking. I'm thinking a dominant kink. Like, "I didn't tell you that you can kiss my ass! I asked if you want to"! That's fine if she does, I can play a long but say it!!
Could be, or perhaps she likes a fight and some drama and needs you to be dominant with her. There is only one way to find out...