Girls. What helps you to not get so horny?

Well im not a virgin i lost it to my ex of 4 years and I was so used to getting it everyday and asking for it at least 3 times a day and i always wanted more. Sometimes it was really great other times it wasn't great but I needed friction. Now im not dating and I can't get into the mind set of hooking up at all it just not me. Im a emotional person and I have to have feelings for the person. I can't separate phyical and emotions. I trued to masterbate but it doesn't really help i just get more frustrated. I never had a orgasm tho. And I don't know if maybe I should give a sex toy a try since im not really looking to date. What are some things you do to relax and not be so sexually frustrated all the time wanting sex?
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  • cold showers are a must :3 and thinking about my grandparents, and theresa bunch of stuff you can look up on how to acheive orgasm :) othereise id suggest going out to meet new people and finding someonewho you care about but dont neccessarily have to be in adating or serious relationship with straight away :D good luck hun x

    • Oh that could help cold shower i deff won't be thinking on my urge anymore lmao.

  • Have you never had an orgasm through sex or just masturbating?

    • No i haven't my ex came close to it but then he ended up cumming before I was ready and when i try to masturbate it helps at 1st then it just not enough and i can't release anything and i get more frustrated.

    • What was he doing that you came close to cumming?

    • Well the only position that it came close was when I was bent over and i guess he was hitting the right spot. Usually i feel more friction in that position.

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  • Masturbate, exercise, work more hours. Go out on walks.

    • Masterbate doesn't really help it makes me more sexually frustrated. Their times i get horny when im working/walking/ even when im exercising but ill try to add more time on it see if it helps.

    • Well you can get laid that's always a good option.

    • Lol i can't i had guys ask and i have changes but i just can't do it.

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Most Helpful Guy

  • I think try taking walk, try praying about why your having them unhealthy thoughts.LMAO

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  • I think about all the patients in the intensive care unit who may die at any given moment. That kills the proverbial girl-boner.

    • Yea that deff would.

  • lol every girl on the internet is horny as fuck.

    • Guilty. :)

    • I'm horny off the Internet too.

    • well yeah, i dont see how one could be horny on the internet but not in real life. but what i was getting at is that a lot of women feel free expressing themselves sexually on the internet but u never hear that shit off the internet

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  • i mean when i get horny , i just use my fingers , but i think you should have a side man for those occasions when you want the dick.

    • Lol i can't sleep with just anyone. But ill try a toy or something.