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Girls, what's your opinion of guys using sex toys designed for men?

I know there are a lot of girls who use vibrators, dildos, etc. What's your thoughts on guys using sex toys for men? Any negative thoughts? Creeped out? Think it's gross? Would it cause you to lose respect for him if you knew he had one or used one? Any positive thoughts? Think it's hot? If he likes it its fine? Nothing wrong with making yourself feel good? Would love to hear all you have to say on this subject. I don't think there's a stigma attached to girls who use them, but is that true for the guys? I don't own any myself and prefer to just use my hand.
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  • Whatever works for him. I find my hands and dirty mind are enough for me, personally. But I don't judge other chicks for using something.

    However, while I love watching guys masturbate, I don't think I'd watch him screw a sleeve or anything, though.

    • I think it's cool when girls have them. It's like more power to you and do love watching them masturbate too.

    • Girls that is, just wanted to clarify that.

  • When it get's into the realm of full on sex doll then yeah it's a little weird. Things like fleshlights are just whatever though.

    • I saw an episode of HBO's Real Sex where they had the Real Doll I think it was called. I remember being impressed for thinking how realistic they were and how anatomically correct. I also remember thinking that it seemed like it boarded on Necrophilia because it was almost a human yet couldn't talk or move. It reminded me of a corpse. I think I'd feel very strange about having one of those or using one. Can you imagine opening your closet and there it sits? They're very expensive too. I think on the show they said they were selling for around $5000. Can you imagine having to explain to a future girlfriend about basically having a full body sized masturbation device that you paid $5000 for? It's like you paid $5000 for masturbation when it's free and real sex doesn't even cost that much.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Male sexuality is viewed by " society " as disgusting , perverted & vile. Most men are cursed with far higher sex drives than women.

    • I think people from both sexes can have high sex drives. Males might well have higher ones though due to high testosterone levels. I also think men get a bad rap all the time regarding our sexuality. How often do you hear women saying how we're pigs or dogs? We're pigs for being men and liking sex and big boobs, and girls wearing bikinis? That's how God created us. Were Dogs? Not all men cheat. Some do. Some don't. Male sexuality is also usually deemed disgusting, perverted, and vile because it's more raw. Can't help it this is how God made us. Don't think we should be shamed because of it.

    • In Western " society " we are viewed as sex crazed , moronic , rapist filth , you are right , women seem to bad mouth men a lot in real life too , but they are certainly not perfect either !! Media brainwashing also has a huge effect on female perceptions of men. I'm a FT working single dad , I'm so glad my libido has declined greatly , it would be a nightmare in my current situation , plus I want to stay single anyway.

    • I agree fully with what you're saying. That's the world we live in. Staying single isn't necessarily a bad idea these days either.

  • I'd definitely get one of those fleshlights if I was sure nobody would know about it.

    • I've heard good things about it, and know a few people who have one. Even considered the idea of getting one, I just think I'd feel weird masturbating with a fake vagina.

    • Yeah I know what you mean, I bet it feels way better though.

    • Hard to say. I've got the knuckle shuffle down pretty good. Tough act to follow. I've heard some guys swear buy it though.

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  • They deserve to have fun as much as we do.

    • Haha. 😀

  • o. O there are sex toys for men?

    • Yep. You've never been in an Adult Book Store? Fleshlight, pocket pu*sy, etc. Those are all male sex toys.

    • No but I will take a look next time Im in the city^^

    • You could probably find tuns of stuff on line too. I'm surprised you've never seen or heard of that stuff.

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  • I get the impression it's frowned upon more whereas girls it's encouraged

    • That's what I always thought although I never asked about it and that's what made me curious to ask the question. The response the 3 girls left appears they're ok with it, but I was hoping for more responses from females.

    • With sexual questions like this you tend to get a few open minded girls answer and that's all maybe ask again with a poll

    • Good idea. Thanks!

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  • It's whatever. If it's a guy I'm dating, I'd probably wanna use it on him.

  • Im fine with it...

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