Girls what would you do if you caught your husband having gay sex?

suppose you got back home a day before you were supposesd to and you wanted to give a surprise to your hubby. you just walk in quietly and you see your hubby on bottom and getting f***ed by two men. what would be your reaction to see that? do you feel embarassed, shy, angry etc. what would you say to him?
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  • As a guy I would say some of these answers are so harsh and unreasonable. The human body is constantly changing and just because a guy has sex with another guy DOES NOT MAKE HIM GAY. Just like two women having sex does not make them lesbians. Why so judgemental? A lot of times both men and women have urges and curiosities that they didn't have before and would just like to try out. Some of these answers are so judemental and just out right harsh! These are why men don't talk about it with you and do it behind your back. That is the true betrayal, knowing you can't talk to your wife about your own body and feelings. Imagine what it's like to feel trapped like that from the women that is supposed to be your best friend and life mate. It is torture. If you really loved your husband you would at least talk to him about it. Ask him if its just an urge or if he truly is gay. If he is gay, and not just experimenting, then divorce. But if he's not, don't throw him to the wolves, he may be going through something really hard and felt like he couldn't count on you to talk to or understand. Marriage is compromise and understanding, not selfish and black and white. The human mind and body is very ambiguous and constantly changing. Just keep that in mind. Love is love and sex is sex. We are animals and it is a primal instinct. There is a huge difference between the two. I'm not saying you should go sleep with whoever you want when your married, I'm saying think, there is a reason and probably a good one. There is a beginning to cheating, not just the act. Ask questions, and don't judge, maybe a week, a year, a few years may pass and you may start having urges, and it'll be a sad day if no one is there for you to talk to about, just someone telling you to get your stuff and go and make you feel inferior and extra terrestrial. Sorry for the long answer, but these other answers are just down right wrong and shameful. That being said, condom sense, condom sense, condom sense. Safe sex always.

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  • I'd probably walk into the room, see them. Yell "You piece of sh!t" at my husband. Then I would run out to my car, and just drive (and probably be weeping). I'd probably call my mom, stay at my parents or a friends for the night. The next day you can believe that I'd be going straight to a lawyer and working on divorce papers.

  • First I would super angry and wonder why the hell he even married me if he was gay. Gay guys make good shopping partners to me (I do have gay friends) but I don't want to marry one! I am straight and, therefore, need a straight man. So, of course I would leave him.

  • I'd join..hey if he's getting it from two guys why can't I get it from 3

    • but if your hubby acted possessive and tell you that he can not see you with other guys then?

    • I'd tell him to stop being jealous and tell him if I can watch..I'd also tell hin that if he wants forgiveness he has to watch me with two females

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  • I think I'd be in shock, but would definitely pack up my bags and leave.

    He is having sex with two other people behind my back and goodness knows for how long this may or may not have been going on.

    The marriage would be over and after time to recover I would try to find out:

    - how long this had been going on

    - if he was gay or bi-curious

    - why he didn't tell me

    - if our sexlife wasn't good enough, why not talk to me about it

    etc

  • I'd leave. It wouldn't matter that it was with a guy or a girl - he's still cheating!

  • Actually I would say, yea well that explains why your so rubbish in bed...and say what you find attractive is a girls arse...LOL

    • I like you :)

  • I would call the police. and pack his bags. and tell him to go home with them f*****s

    • aahahahahah <3

    • lol!

  • I would be sooooooooo furious like wtf? And disgusted at the same time. Like if you were really gay than just tell me. I don't want to walk in on a sausage fest.

  • I would feel rage and hurt. I would tell them to get the f*** out.

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  • leave him. I wouldn't be able too look at him the same way again. I would pack my stuff and leave. Kick all the homos out ahaha.

  • I would dump his ass. that is gross.

  • 2 MEN? wow.

    My reaction would me O_________O

    Then of course I would leave him because he obviously is gay and I don't like gay men. I am a girl.