Girls, when do you see hot guys and think that someone is hot does it mean you are experiencing "attraction"?

[Anonymous]

Many girls say there's a difference between thinking that someone is hot and actually being physically attracted to them. When do you see hot guys you don't experience any attraction physically or sexually? You need more to experience Attraction?

When do we look at our father, mother, sister we can know conventionally that they are "attractive" but we don't feel any attraction towards them because they are our family member. Here the glance is neutral. But do girls also experience same when do they see hot guys because they are stranger to them? No difference between seeing stranger vs family member. Both are same and indifferent?

How do you define "opposite attraction"

[Bunnysweetheart]

So, there's a small difference between aesthetic attraction, recognizing the beauty of something, and sexual attraction, wanting to have sex with someone, and romantic attraction, wanting to have a relationship with someone. What you're talking about here seems to be aesthetic v. sexual, which can sometimes be confusing, but you can look at it like this. You can look at an artwork and feel that it's amazing, but not want to paint your own. You can look at a cup of coffee and think the details on it are impressive, but not want to drink it. You can look at an impressive car and think that it's awesome as fuck, but not want to drive it.
Basically: you can realize something is beautiful / aesthetically pleasing without wanting to have sex with it.

[Asker]

so what makes you different than asexual? gay guys can look at women and can think she is cute. asexual can look at attractive person and can think they are attractive. straight can look at attractive person and can think they are attractive. here all persons of different orientation experience the same towards their target objects? girls also expeience same towards guys and girls according to this?

[WhistleThuslyTWEETs]

She is fake anon LOL

[Lillyhope]

He's just hot and that's it

[Asker]

you dont experience anything?

[Lillyhope]

I just think "he's cute" and stare a little

[Asker]

Is it based on sexual orientation or attraction? Or you look at guys in the same way gay guys look at female and think that she is cute?

[Asker]

Actually this question was for straights lol

[Lillyhope]

do you think I'm lesbian?

[Asker]

seems like asexual

[Lillyhope]

ahahah.. okay :)

[Asker]

i asked you Is it based on sexual orientation or attraction? Or you look at guys in the same way gay guys look at female and think that she is cute?

[Lillyhope]

no it's different when I look at attractive guys and attractive women... like if I look at a guy I think hm, I' date him, if at girl hm, I'd have her dress or smt like that.. But I don't feel any strong sexual desire, get horny, wet or whatever

[Asker]

yes exactly what I asked. but beyond thinking is there any feelings, impulse, instinct (I can't find better words)? example : when do we see human blood, horror movie what do we feel, what do we experience? we think blood is quite scary, horror movie is quite scared but... what do we feel when we see it? scared, fear, danger etc - what does it feel like? our body, heart, mind react to it.

[Lillyhope]

if I watch him from distance I feel nothing more than I've described.. but if we also had some convos and I developed slight feelings for him, and then he touches me not purpously, or I start imagining us being together (like kissing/cuddling) I get butterflies in stomach and feel a sort of heat in my body.. smth like that

[Asker]

so you don't experience anything just from seeing? (visually) you have to have some sort of connection with him and have to be touched by him? visually you don`t experience any stimulation? suppose you never got the chance of meeting, touching, convos except visual then you won't experience anything in your entire life? you do get this sexual feelings only from the guy whom you have some sort of connection and whom touched you? is it demisexality?

[Lillyhope]

everything just apart from visually seeing random hot guy! how many times will you ask me the same questions, huh? yes I should have a sort of connection. And prolly I'm demisexual, You should ask 100 other girls, and then diagnose me with this!

[Asker]

I don't know how female attraction works. Do all women feel same as like you? they are totally unaffected by hot guys if they are stranger?

[Lillyhope]

I know that 3 of 6 of my close girl friends don't even want to have sex more than twice a month, other three are in kinda the same category as me, and as I've said, ask 100 girls, and then judge females as a whole!

[Asker]

I asked this on gag and more than 100 women said the same thing. So it is female sexuality? Female don't experience anything visually except neural appreciation. If it is the case then they should not date guys because until some sort of connection they won't experience sexual turn on. and if they don't make any connection then they can go their whole life without being horny and without experiencing sexual attraction. Wish we guys were girls then we would go our entire life without experiencing sexual urge.

[Lillyhope]

with the help of dates/talks/romantic stuff they build connection, that's what girls love and what'll make things go faster... we do feel horny, and have sexual needs mainly based on menstrual cycle, but not visually. just when we're in mood

[Asker]

based on menstrual cycle means? their sex drive isn't stable or constant as like guys?

[Lillyhope]

yes.

[Asker]

So, according to you in which time they experience sexual urge and get horny? It's not last through out the month and they experience it only certain times of the month. How lucky women are. WOW...

[Lillyhope]

There're many questions as you're asking me here on gag, if you're so interested in this topic, don't hesitate and spend some time on searching it here

[Asker]

No, just tell me this. It's my last question... (So, according to you in which time they experience sexual urge and get horny? It's not last through out the month and they experience it only certain times of the month. Certain time = 3 or 4 time a month)

[Asker]

Hi dude. How is your dick going on?

[WhistleThuslyTWEETs]

Totally bullshit conversation. This girls is not heterosexual she is grey asexual and tried to claim that all women are grey.

[WhistleThuslyTWEETs]

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gray_asexuality You are not straight :D

[estrellaceleste]

You are fake