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Girls, Why did I not feel much when I got eaten out for the first time? Have any other girls had this experience? Does it get better?

I got head for the first time yesterday and I did it through a dating app since honestly I am so busy with work and school and an irl boy already wasted so much time we were finally gonna do it (he wanted to go on a few dates before we did anything *eye roll*) then he went back to his ex. Anyways so I asked him to go down on me first to make sure he didn't get his bj and dip and he said yea. I thought I was gonna like it so much not just because of wattpad fanfics and romance stories and movies but just because of how most girls that I was around talked about it like it was the best thing ever. I don't know we were both 19 so maybe he sucked because he is so young. I never really wanted to get head until like a week ago so I just downloaded a dating app and picked whoever messaged quicker and bam lol. Anyways he was really nice and kept asking if I liked what he was doing and I was honest I said no and I didn't know what I liked when he asked because it was deadass on god my first time. He was just licking it and I assumed that would be the best feeling in the world but I guess I was wrong. Anyways girls has this ever happened? Is there any hope for me? I just wanna orgasm once then I can die happy. Thank you to anyone who responds. I think because he was so super hot that girls lied to him when he asked if he was good n just peed on him and he thought he made them squirt. Or maybe those girls have different vaginas then I do.
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  • Sorry, couldn't tell if this post was intended for just women or for anyone. A guy needs to know -either from experience or some damn good books- what turns you on, how much pressure and when. Most girls do not like a lot of direct contact to their clit until they are fully wet and turned on, before that I try to keep it indirect or just do light flicks. Squirting by the way always contains some part urine and most guys don't have a problem with that. Guys sexual education does not include some important topics, such as the sexual response of girls. I'm guessing some guys try it w/o having the faintest idea where your clit is. It doesn't hurt to tell him or move him or you so that he's licking what and where you want. If you are uncomfortable with using words just use whatever sounds you use when you are turned on and amp it up a bit. It sucks that he was at least considerate enough to do it though you did say you had to ask. I happen to be good at it because I love doing it and after getting over 40 girls off- some multiple. I feel like I know what I'm doing. Also ) I've been getting girls off by giving them head since I was 13 years old. I think it is a huge turn and because of that I probably do it with a good degree of enthusiasm which I think is important. You need to enjoy it in order to sense a girls rhythms, her degree of arousal and a few tricks. I like using a vibrator on her at the same time I am giving her head so she is getting multiple inputs of pleasure.
    I can edge her orgasm so much better when my face is between her thighs. There is a book entitled Girls Come First that has explicit instructions for guys who want to improve their skills, perhaps he needs that as a birthday or Christmas gift.
    Has a guy who is more skilled ever given you head? If not, maybe try keeping an eye. It too prevalent in the under 25 crowd. will likely be someone who is 30 years old or more since it doesn't seem a skill mastered by too many guys younger than that/ I hope you find someone who can give you an orgasm so intense you have trouble walking. If only you lived nest door- but you don't

    • Why are so many really good at it?

    • craziest part is I picked him because he seemed into it and he was. He was like do you think you're gonna climax soon I really want you to and I was like no. It was my first time receiving head and honestly ever doing anything sexual so I had no idea what I would like. He did try his best lol.

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  • In all honesty, he didn't know what he was doing. Going down in a girl for the first time takes patience, the guy has to figure the girl out as each one is different. Trial and error seeing what is pleasing and what isn't. The biggest mistake guys make is to hard too fast. If he doesn't take the time to build you up then it's not gonna be very good. Realistically, giving head the first time to a girl can take an hour or more, cuz once he figures out what works and what doesn't, it gets better and better and the orgasns start coming. Dont be discouraged. Just gotta find the right guy into taking the time.

    • it was most definitely not his first time going down on a girl lol I j think those other girls lied to him bc he's so hot n rich

    • I was meaning the first time going down her (you), as in pussy he hasn't gone down on before.

Most Helpful Girls

  • If you want something from an inexperienced guy you will have to tell him, otherwise you will never be satisfied. I mean what can you expect from a one night stand?

    • yea but it was my first time every doing anything sexually so I had no idea what I wanted but now I think I do but he doesn't wanna hook up again :(

    • So? There are more fish in the sea that you can catch so you are not down for the count yet.

  • Yeah sometimes it can just feel like nothing. Usually because they're in the wrong spot

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    Girls, Why did I not feel much when I got eaten out for the first time? Have any other girls had this experience? Does it get better?Girls, Why did I not feel much when I got eaten out for the first time? Have any other girls had this experience? Does it get better?

    • Are you on drugs 😃

    • @jabberwocky00 I am not but I am just saying Do not compare your experience with someone else. Do not compare your achievement with other, but rather have goals and work with your partner to meet them. It is about you. You want to get eaten.. Why you want... Do you really enjoy that or you have listened or watch stuff and just following what everyone is doing. But it is your personal stuff. Find it by yourself... Then it is your choice tho.

    • Are you Indian?

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  • Next time she will just ask her friend Luscious lips Lucy. It may have had nothing to do with his technique, it could have been lack of connection. The guy was practically a stranger. All of the build up begins in the mind.

    • nah it was technique he didn't use fingers cuz i said no but another dude who did a week ago he made it feel soooo good lmaoo

    • Oh... so it was your fault in the end. Poor guy probably thought his 300 years of muff diving was all useless!

    • not really because it was my first time getting head how was I supposed to know fingers felt good? he jammed all 4 in and I told him to stop bc it hurt but the other dude put em in even tho i said no bc he told me trust me ull like it lmaoooo

  • Time to have oral sex from a guy that knows what he's doing.

  • Ask him to keep trying and give him some guidance if it's new to him. If you're not shaved or trimmed consider doing that so he can see what he's doing and you can educate him.

  • he didn't know what he was doing. 19 Didn't get any practice. Try agian with direction. Google it. Tell him what motions feel good. He will figure it out. If nothing feels good try with someone else.

    • he had 3 years of experience lol

    • Ok you need someone else that is just pathetic then. Wrong guy. What exactly did he do? fast, slow, did he change motions, spell the alphabet or numbers, internal or external, or did he just lick you like a dog?

    • ahhh it sounds so mean but I guess he kinda just licked me. in his defense he did ask him to do anything I wanted him to do to make me feel good. I had no idea what I wanted but now I think I might.

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