Girls why does my mom call me and my sisters a hoe😂?

[Anonymous]

Basically I’m 15 my mom was upset for my sister moving in with her boyfriend so early and called her Easy which my sister isn’t the type to be easy or anything he is the first guy to ever treat her with respect but ofc she is taking it slow. My mom tells me not to do what she did and don’t be easy and follow her steps cuz I will be like her. Next she tells me not to shave my down there which okay I prefer no hair it has always been like that it’s not for sex and I’m still a virgin and everything she says she used to tell My sis but she didn’t do what she said and I felt Intimidated. What do u think?

[zollo]

Uh, I mean I guess it all really depends. But overall your moms the real stupid one because she the one who raised this so called "Hoe" so she really has nobody to blame but herself. How old is your sister and how long has she been seeing this guy? I mean regardless of whether she's being "easy" or not your mom should be trying to help her understand instead of just shaming her because that'll only drive her farther away.

Also the fact that you shave down there OBVIOUSLY doesn't make you a hoe because you're literally a virgin. I get that she doesn't want you to be promiscuous but your body is your own and just as you stated you're not doing that for any man you're doing it for yourself so there's no reason to stop.

[Asker]

Well my sister is 19 and we like have a toxic family and she is the middle child never liked it here. I wouldn’t call her a hoe like she never did hoey stuff n has been loyal to her boyfriend they’ve been together since like may ish but yeah like or when I wear smth to sleep and it showed a bit of my cleavage she gave me this type of look I just don’t understand why she thinks of us like that

[Asker]

I don't know I guess I’ll have to learn to like ignore her but I just know I’ll have to deal with her shaming as I get older

[zollo]

Girl Ima be 100% honest with you, It's ALL on your mom. You don't got any issues, she does. Being only 19 and going to live with a guy you've only dated for 5 months is not at all a smart idea but it's obvious that his place feels a lot calmer and less judgmental than your current home because of the environment you mom created. Unfortunately because of that it will inevitably effect you and your siblings because you were raised by her and have to live there. You could try and talk to her and explain specifically how you feel BUT I have a big suspicion she's already set in her ways. Since there's probably no changing your moms view you kind just gotta' lay low until you can kick it out of there. and on that day you can give her the big speech that's been building up about how she's fuck your life and how she's sown horrible seeds into all of her children with her toxic ways and that's why everyone leaves.