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Girls, would you be angry or upset if you caught a guy jerking off to you?

My roommate had a framed picture of herself in a thong. I thought she was so hot in the picture that the other day I just borrowed it (it was in our living room) and took it into my room when I thought no one else was home, and just started going at it. So it turns out she came back and walked right in on me right when I was getting my orgasm face. She saw that it was her picture. She didn't say anything and just walked out fast. I put the picture back but when I've run into her she hasn't said anything, as if nothing has happened. I've been too embarrassed to bring it up but I really worry about what must be going through her mind.

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I apologized to her. Thanks so much for all the advice.
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  • It probably has more to do with the fact that you took her framed picture to do it and you guys literally live together. That's pretty effing uncomfortable no matter how you look at it. (It's less shocking that you're masturbating to the thought of someone you know as much as she a) had to see it and b) fund you with a picture frame from your living room. I would not want to be her right now.)

    But frankly she'll either move on or decide she's too uncomfortable with it. Just please don't do it again. Porn exists. Don't take your roommate's living room decorations for your personal time. (and dude, lock your door...)

    • Thanks. And yeah, I've definitely learned my lesson. I feel shitty and I deserve the feeling.

    • Long as you're more careful then it's probably fine. You might try like a written apology to her so that she doesn't have to address it directly but knows where you're at with the situation and knows that you're sorry. (I know paper and pencil is old fashioned, but this might be the moment for it.)

    • That sounds like a really good idea. Thank you. A good way to apologize that's not so uncomfortable for her.

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  • She's probably embarrassed she interrupted you.

    It doesn't upset me, Hubby tells me most guys jerk off to most women they know.

    • Thanks. I'm just wondering if I should apologize. Just that we haven't spoken and I feel so awkward. Part of me feels that I should. But I also wonder if that would just make things worse. She saw everything, like she came in at exactly precisely the worst possible time. I just can't stop worrying that she has that image somewhere in her mind and that if I try to bring up what happened it'll just remind her of that and make things worse.

    • Just leave it alone. She will bring it up if she wants to talk about it, which she probably doesn't and probably wishes she hadn't just walked in. As to she saw everything, so what? Believe it or not, we know what you have anyway.

    • I guess so! Thanks.

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  • C'mon man!!! From all the porn out there, from all the FREE stuff on the net!!! You just decided to Take her picture? You know niw your raised her HUGE red flag! Now she will have tousands of thoughts running through her mind like...
    Did he takes my panties too? Does he perv on me while i change? Did he ever spied on me while showering, does he masturbates thinking of me every day/night? Does he even wash his bedding? Hopefully not "staining" my home, etc, etc.. you're kinda in 🔥💦 now, just let it cool down for a few days, before getting the chance to talk to her...🤦‍♂️🤣🤣🤣

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  • She must know that guys jerk off... they all do! And at least it was a picture of her.. there is no reason to be ashamed. Just talk to her about it. How is ur sex life with her? Maybe go down on her to "make up"?

    • She's a roommate, not a girlfriend.

    • ahhhh sorry. I would apologize but as I said she must know that all guys jerk off frequently.

  • She was probably embarrassed, which is kinda understandable to be honest.

    • Yes, totally understandable. I feel bad that she had to see that.

    • On one hand it can be flattering knowing a guy likes you so much as to pleasure himself to you, however in certain situations you probably should have locked your door or something. I’d imagine she wasn’t expecting to see that going on in front of her. I would try and apologize, at the very least if she’s willing to hear you out.

    • Thanks, and I think you're right about apologizing. I do feel I owe her that. I appreciate the advice.

  • I would be more grossed out than anything else. Nobody wants to see that.

    • I just wished she'd knocked before entering. But I get that.

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