Giving a handjob over clothes?

[Anonymous]

So I've been dating this guy for 4 weeks now. You should have in mind that I'm 16 and never even had a boyfriend, and he's 19 and he's not a virgin. We've been making out in his house yesterday and he started rubbing my vagina and kinda giving me a handjob over clothes and it felt really good and he started puting my hand on his crotch and I got so scared because I have no idea what to do! I mean, I watch porn and I would know how to give him a handjob, but over clothes? And i don't really wanna do anything kinda extreme, just to touch him down there while kissing. Should I just like grab it and kinda squeeze it or like move it around? Could you guys put a gif or something? Help please, we're meeting tomorrow at his house again lol

[Bimbobambo]

Do you know the greeting they do in the startrek movies? Lol! They leave room between the middlefinger and the ringfinger. You dont have to train this greeting, just lay your hand there so his penis is between this room. And then you rub up and down to the head firmly. But also you could just tell him what you told us, that you dont know how he would like it. Thats cute and he will like you even more. And then just ask "can you show me?"

[Asker]

thank you, that really helped :)

[Flaguy]

Go ahead and rub his crotch up and down with firm pressure.

[SexiLex]

Wait until he has an errection and then stroke it. Don't squeeze it and don't touch the tip. I used to give my boyfriend hand jobs before head and it is 10x easier to go under the pants. Warning: IF you go under your hand will be warm and stick after he comes. (BTW not sure if it's legal by you to be in a relationship with someone over 18 please be careful) if you have any questions feel free to ask.

[throwit]

Just grab and rub it gently if he does that. You don't have to whip it out, especially if he's not doing anything for you.
And keep in mind that what he's doing is illegal and creepy. He's old enough to be a sophomore in college and your a junior in high school.

[Asker]

thanks for the advice, but i just need to straighten things out, he's actually not 19 yet and we go to the same high school, i'm the second grade and he is fourth, so thats kinda not a big difference.. and also i'm not doing anything really sexual with him so yeah i dont think its illegal or something

[throwit]

Oh ok. I guess that's better.

[Mickdodge]

Just rub him, stroke him. I'm sure he will let you know if it feels good to him. Or you can be honest and come out and ask him if he likes it or how you can do it better. As a guy I would appreciate a girl asking, it would make me feel good she cared enough about me to want to satisfy me

[Anonymous]

Massage (kneed) the entire area like you would your own boob. He may not come but will like the attention.

[Anonymous]

4 weeks is too soon. You are extremely young. I wouldn't recommend it. Also the relative age difference is quite a bit. There is a good chance for you to end up getting hurt.

[Asker]

yeah i know, but it really matters where you are from, i mean here in serbia, 12 year old girls have sex and stuff, i would never do anything like blowjob or an actual handjob at age 16, but this seems kinda harmless to me..

[Anonymous]

Just keep rubbing his crotch and kissing him. Good luck