Giving my boyfriend a blow job and its difficulties?

[NovaEaston]

I have given hundreds of blowjobs in my life already but when it comes to my boyfriend its different I've never gotten a single complaint from a guy but my boyfriend complains almost every time like I don't know what I'm doing and he's told me he's only had people give him bad blow jobs but when I first gave him one he came almost immediately and now its like I can give him one two hours straight and nothing he also never let's me play or suck on his balls and its the weirdest thing I've never met someone like him help please

[truthbeknown]

Well, I get no pleasure from having my balls played with. I like it if she likes it. Maybe you are trying too hard? How often is this happening? How about the timing? What I mean is, some guys have to be in the right mood with nothing bothering them or no stress. Is he worried about school, work or money? Is he tired? Maybe he is masturbating too much and simply doesn't have a lot left in the tank?

[AustinMan]

Is this helpful?

www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a7404-blow-jobs-tips-from-a-deep-throat-queen

[NovaEaston]

not really I don't usually gag while going down that's not my problem

[AustinMan]

What is your problem?

[RaeSheBae]

You have to talk to him.
While you giving him a blow job ask what he likes and if he gives you some tips while you doing it it will be cooler.
You both learning and experiencing life so just talk to him.

[SarahsSummer]

If he's given you directions on how he likes it and you still fail, it's probably something in his head that you can't fix by sucking more. Try talking to him about any stresses he has in his life.

[NovaEaston]

I try but he just tells me its nothing I myself need to worry about but I'm gonna worry if something is bothering him especially long term he basically doesn't tell me anything anymore

[SarahsSummer]

Is the rest of your reationship going well?

[NovaEaston]

yeah it is

[SarahsSummer]

Does he cum from sex with u?

[NovaEaston]

yes multiple times

[SarahsSummer]

Have you considered letting him fuck your mouth?

[NovaEaston]

he has he says a lot of the things I like are weird but it just feels normal to me

[SarahsSummer]

So does he cum from fucking your mouth?

[NovaEaston]

nope

[SarahsSummer]

That's weird. I've got nothing else to suggest.

[NovaEaston]

like he doesn't even like cumming on my face because he says its weird and doesn't like seeing me like that I'm like what even

[SarahsSummer]

Maybe you two aren't a good match for each other.

[NovaEaston]

i mean we are opposites but we love each other

[SarahsSummer]

Good luck.

[NovaEaston]

thank you girl

[chigurl33]

I'm sure you've heard this already but get to talking with him. If he doesn't want to listen, well I've got some rope?

I swear I'm just joking... please don't attack me.

[NovaEaston]

haha rope could work

[Anonymous]

stop giving him any if all he's going to do is criticize u the whole time. all that's doing is giving him a reward for being a jerk to u

[MadeInAmerica]

Not all guys are into getting their balls sucked or licked on. I wouldn't care if my wife did (she has tried), but it doesn't do nothing for me.

As for blowjob part instead of complaining you should tell him you not going to do it anymore until you have a talk about what he thinks you are doing wrong.

[NovaEaston]

I have talked to him about it

[MadeInAmerica]

So what does he say you are doing wrong? I guess you could try stroking him more to see if that gets him off.

[NovaEaston]

he's told me everything that gets him off like I have to put my body in a certain place and place my hand in a certain place then suck at a certain pace but still nothing so I don't know what I'm doing wrong I let him tell me what to do but nothing absolutely nothing

[MadeInAmerica]

Strange. Kinda like he lost feeling his dick. I don't think it's nothing on your end then.

[NovaEaston]

then what to do then

[NovaEaston]

because I like giving blowjobs

[douride2]

I think he' is the one with the problem.

[Nelsoen]

"I've give hundreds of blowjobs in my life" says a 20 year old.

That doesn't sound slutty at all...

[NovaEaston]

it doesn't if its multiple times with the people you've dated

[Nelsoen]

I'm not judging you 🙃

[NovaEaston]

seemed like you were

[Nelsoen]

I'm sure you know that looks can be deceiving

[NovaEaston]

looks how?

[Nelsoen]

Sometimes online girls online post pictures of their faces but not their body because they're actually fat.

[NovaEaston]

okay and?

[Nelsoen]

The picture is deceiving

[Cowboy6666]

Probably coz he is free with u.. That's why he says that.. But why he is not giving guide to u?

[NovaEaston]

he has guided me but I could do everything he asks but still nothing I'm getting worried that he's not attracted to me or something stupid

[TonyRyanAgain]

What specifically are his complaints?

[MissSakura]

dont do it

[Anonymous]

Tell him to stop complaining and just tell you what he wants