Sexual Relationships 
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The first time I did it, I felt really intimidated. I thought it was going to be the hardest thing ever and I wasn’t gonna be able to give her an orgasm. The only experience I had came from the couple of times I had gotten head before… which weren’t good at all. That first time was was from perfect but after a while I got better, and now while I’m not an expert on the subject, I do consider myself pretty good at it.
I don’t wanna make this too long so let’s just go straight to the point:
- Pay attention to the rest of her body: Remember the girl’s whole body has a sense of touch. Tease her and kiss the insides of her legs, belly, etc. While eating her out, grab her hips (which will also give you more stability and control), caress her legs, butt and breasts. If you’re in a relationship, holding her hands can make the experience 10 times better. This last thing will make things feel more intimate and loving, so I wouldn’t recommend it for friends with benefits or one night stands.
- Show how much you’re enjoying it: The girl will enjoy what you do with your mouth but it will be even better if she knows you’re having a good time too. Look at her in the eyes, smile, show you’re feeling hungry and that you’re doing it with passion (don’t exaggerate, tho). This is important especially when you’re going down on an insecure girl or one with no past experiences.
- Take your time: Some girls can reach climax in less than 5 minutes while others will take more than half an hour. Don’t hurry or feel frustrated if it takes too long. Get to know what works for her.
- Pay attention to how she reacts: You’ll probably keep your eyes shut most of time time but be sure to open them from time to time and look at her, or keep them shut but focus on what you hear. You might do something she really likes which will make her moan or move her legs or upper body in a certain way. Once you notice what are the things that drive her crazy, you’ll be able to have better experiences.
- Finger her: Even though the vagina doesn’t have as many nerve endings as the clit, it still is an erogenous zone and you can make her have an incredible time if you play with her G spot while eating her out. Start start slowly and with one finger, then introduce some more. That way she’ll be able to lubricate herself.
- Play with her vulva: The protagonist in oral sex is the clit, however, it’s not the only character. Lick, suck, kiss and play with her outer and inner lips, lick along the vulva, penetrate her with your tongue, etc. Be creative!
Change the speed, pressure and motions: Don’t just stick to one thing. Variety is fun and pleasurable. Some people use the ABC method (“drawing” all the letters with your tongue), others just make random motions. Experiment and see what works better for both of you.
When she’s about to reach climax, stop changing: You’ll most likely notice when the girl is about to have an orgasm due to some signs like her having less control of her body, more moans, heavy breathing, etc. This is when you should stop changing what you’re doing. Changing what you’re doing could actually be counterproductive.
Communication is the key: These tips can work for many girls but remember everyone’s different. What can feel amazing for one may not work at all for the other. Some girls aren’t fans of fingering; others are too sensitive around the clit, so they prefer to be stimulated in other ways, etc. Remember the most important thing is to talk to your partner. Take the time to get to know her body and find out what feels better for her.
IMPORTANT: Don't even think about bitting her unless you've talked about it before and she said it was ok. While some girls do enjoy some nibbling, teeth can be extremely painful for others.
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21 38Light it and bite it! :)
Don't forget to twist it
That's what @linkywinky likes
Ayyyo
1A. The best position is her on her back and you on your tummy between her open legs. Position your arms and hands beneath her knees and up onto her boobs to massage them. Your hands can also reach down to assist you in oral.
6A. When you begin, first spread her lips widely with both hands and look at the landscape between them. Then begin lapping her from her vagina all the way to her clit. Sometimes stop on the way to probe the tip of your tongue into her urethra, if you can find it. Retract her "prepuce" and lap her clit directly.
8A. When orgasm approaches, go onto "urgent mode". Whatever you were doing to bring her into the run-up, do it as strongly and fast as you can. A good thing here is that your saliva will ensure she remains very wet.
8B. When the moment of orgasm arrives, French kiss her vagina as deeply as you can manage, Swirl your tongue around inside. A fun thing here is that you should feel her contractions clench down on your tongue.
I'm bookmarking this 😜
Hahaha
4, 7 and 8 are worth their weight in gold.
Yup, specially 8, at least for me lol
It's worth noting it works the other way around too... too often just as a guy is getting close, the girl decides it's time to change it up and switch to just a handjob or to stop movement all together and lick the shaft or something, and the build-up quickly subsides. Then she complains 'you take forever'.
Yes to all. Especially 8. An ex used to do that and it was frustrating.
Yeah it gets me back to 0 ugh
Never had the pleasure of going down on a girl as its only something i would do when in a relationship.. not with randoms which has been the case for me so far. Definitely getting in the research though... thanks for the helpful article. Hopefully i will be good at my first go!
lol I love this take. Now guys don't have a reason to be bad at going down.
Heheh thanks!
Awesome take
Thanks. I'm glad you enjoyed it :)
Wow! You're great!!
I wish my next love could do everything that you just gave.
Thanks :) good luck! haha
Only if he would
What if you're a virgin how would he know what you like
You'll have to work on discovering that together. The first time is far from perfect for most people (sex in general) but it gets better with time.
Huh. I always assumed you lesbians were automatically perfect at it, since you knew exactly what a girl wants.
Also, everything here except the hand holding thing was already obvious to me, and I'm a virgin!
That's great. Some people are so clueless you wouldn't even believe it.
Nice take!
I would've ended up just licking like it was ice-cream if I didn't read it lol.
Enjoy it like its an ice cream
I see, lol
"Change the speed, pressure and motions" do you mean engine rpm's? how much do i have to rev? what if the engine explodes from all the pressure? Do i get a warranty when i do this?
You also state to "take your time", but the people behind me will honk
"Pay attention to how she reacts" so the "she" is my car right? well what if she losses control what do i do?
Finally you say "When she’s about to reach climax, stop changing", then my transmission will blow cause i'm at redine with my rpms and i NEED to change gears.
Are you sure your advice is good, i never heard this before, i how can i trust you?
👏😂
;) i was bored so yeah lol. But @TheEmma, is this reliable information?
Well, many people here seem to agree. I didn't major on cunnilingus but wrote this based on my experience of both sides and hearing what my friends on other women say.
hmmm so my engine will be alright correct? ;)
what if i was sucking on her vaginal lips? is that a good one? and what do you think of when guys make the girl get vaginal contractions?
it's a good thing
i wish guys would take this in cauuse girls like most of them
Haha :)
It appears a lot of guys are taking it in. But you gals keep cheering them on so more take it in! :-)
Haha that first pic though... Looks so much like a vagina...😜😂
Well good take I will keep that in mind..
must translate to japanese, print out and tape to wall
Make fliers!
yes ✩°｡⋆⸜(ू˙꒳˙ )
or ask a dedicated consultant to come over :-)
I am not attracted to the pussy this is one of the things I would be scared of doing during sex.
Very informative :) now I know how to eat it right ;)
Thanks. You know the theory, now put it to practice
if only i could find someone willing lol
Haha soon :)
is it enjoyable?
Giving or getting? for me yes to both, but I've seen people here saying they don't like it.
is it ok to use vibrators while we lick
I guess that depends on the girl. I have 0 experience with that lol so I don't know.
the vibration may help lol
Haha yeah it sounds good to me but I've never really tried it
you like both genders?
I used to think I did but nope
This is good advice I guess.
Grapefruits are weird.
I thought it was a mandarin
Perhaps. I am eager to go down one of you lucky ladies someday. Thank you for the pointers.
Haha you're welcome