Going to lose my virginity tonight, is it normal to be a bit nervous?

Basically, met this girl on Tinder and going to hers tonight. She's implied sex, so I'm guessing it might happen. But I'm also a bit nervous. Should I just go with the flow? I'm 21 and quite happy to finally be losing it tbh
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  • If you want it to happen, sure go with the flow.
    First time at anything, it is normal to be nervous.
    No shame in asking her what she wants or asking her if she likes something that you are doing to her - even some experienced guys will do that. It shows that you want to do what she likes.
    Some guys will initially be in submissive role (eg let me be on top) so they can learn what I like.

  • YES, it's normal, but I wouldn't lose my virginity to someone over the internet. If she implied sex, she might just have sex and leave. You should ask how many guys she had sex with to make sure she isn't a hoe looking for a quick woohoo.. But if you don't care go for it buddy

  • Tinder, eh? If you're still with us in the land of the living tomorrow morning, let us know how it went. If the serial killer murdered you, well, we won't be expecting to hear anything...

Most Helpful Guys

  • Just make sure you're comfortable with everything that's happening! The first time can be a little clumsy and awkward, but it's the same the first time you do anything! Just try and stay calm and relaxed, there's no pressure except what you put on yourself, and pressure is likely to make you psyche yourself out!

  • Tell her you are a virgin, if she is a nice person she will help you. Take your time, and try not to cum too quickly.

    • If I do cum quickly, would round 2 let longer?

    • Normally yes, and being nervous can make you cum quick, getting too excited. If you can cum before penetration that should dull sensation a bit at make you last longer. Most girls should understand that as a virgin you are more likely to cum quickly anyway, a condom should help to reduce sensation a bit. But all orgasms come from your brain, if after penetration you can shift your thinking a bit, to reduce excitement, it can delay your orgasm.

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  • It's always normal to be nervous about doing something for the first time. Yeah just go with the flow, whatever happens happens. Seems like you're ready. Just please use protection haha though I probably don't need to tell you that.

    • how did you lose yours? was nervios?

  • I guess? Just don't build it up too much in your head, it'll probably be a let down.

  • don't do it.

  • Hope you had fun and we're safe.🎉🎉

  • Wear a condom no matter what she says/does.

    The rest is irrelevant and will take care of itself.