Gorgeous vs f***ing hot?

What's the the difference? My boyfriend will look at a celebrity and say she's f***ing hot. But he's never said I was hot. I only get "gorgeous". He's the first guy to take interest in me and not tell me I was hot or sexy. Says it makes you seem like an "object", yet say its fine to call other people on TV that. Explain! I want to understand.
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Okay so if you were to have two girls; one who's "gorgeous" and one who's "hot" who's better looking, and whom would you prefer based solely on how you interpret these labels? Is one better than the other or is it just different things?
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  • We won't call a hot girl hot because its pedestalling and we know you know you are hot although you probably have BDD or hate being objectified for your looks (people play down their strengths) and want a guy to like you for your other qualities and that you hear enough compliments from guy friends and girlfriends about your looks, we will compliment you in other ways like when you do cute expressions and how we look at you.

    Gorgeous > hot.

    hot is highly attractive.

    gorgeous is like hot plus you have outstanding features such as really nice eyes, if a girl has positive canthal tilt thick lashes and bright eyes I will usually think of her as gorgeous.

  • They are very similar, except that "hot" and "sexy" have a more overtly sexual overtone, while "gorgeous" means "REALLY pretty" but not in an especially sexual way.

    That doesn't mean he doesn't find you sexy, it means he's trying to give you a compliment that isn't tied to sex, because sex-related compliments make many girls feel like their guy is only interested in sex, so they get upset by them. He's trying to make this compliment "all good."

    • This. Problem is he's not thinking it all the way through. Most girls want their men to think that they're sexy/hot as well as beautiful/gorgeous, so we need to make sure we mix those in every once in awhile.

    • Most people agree with you based on the up votes, so best answer!

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  • It means that he respects you more. He sees you as something more than just a nice girl to look at. Take it as a compliment, because I would personally rather take "beautiful" than "hot" any day.

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  • Gorgeous is unique without being cute, like hot with good character.

    Every1 has different tastes for it, mine would be Emily Didonato, her eyes and lips make it for me. positive canthal tilt and the angle of her upper lip.

    Hot is like attractive but you can't see oh she has great...

    This is starting to get really shallow even for me but I would prefere the hotter hot girl because she would have better aesthetics where as the gorgous girl would have interesting features but that's not what I go for, I would rather aesthetics and a girl be photogenic over gorgeous features (eye lashes, lips, skin). (Emily Didonato is both hence a super model)

  • Gorgeous is a better compliment... refers to the whole package. :)

  • I think you can be both. It depends on what look you're going for at the time.

  • i don't really know what f***ing hot means to be honest. it probably means something that attracts you sexually but not more than that. Gorgeous would mean a deeper attraction that's wants to know the girl as a person. It also includes looking good

    • Hmm, okay. Makes sense.

    • cool yaay

  • Well, this is just me but when I call a girl hot I'm usually talking about her from a sexual and physical point of view only. When I call a girl gorgeous it's still physical but she has more of a youthful/cute look about herself.

  • "Hot" is a term that I'm sure most people don't like associated with them, even though its true. Pretty/gorgeous/beautiful are all terms you'd use with your significant other

  • "Only" Aaahahaha.

    Gorgeous >> Hot

    • Not funny! I'm genuinely confused.

  • Gorgeous is better, gorgeous stays. F***ing hot is a one night stand.

    • But hot means more attractive?

  • For me gorgeous girl means beautiful, sexy and hot.

  • Its the same thing.

  • Hot is sexual appealing and gorgeous is facially appealing

  • f***ing hot means I just want to f*** her and gorgeous means that I like her for her looks and her personality too.

  • for me, gorgeous = aesthetically pleasing to the eyes, nicely dressed, gives off the impression of a perfect person

    f***ing hot = boner popping, usually for girls with caked on makeup, fake boobs, accentuated sex features, very slutty look, etc.

    don't know about your boyfriend though

  • There's a clear difference in respect between terms of endearment and beauty. If a guy is calling you hot, he's not looking at you as a person but more as a collection of body parts to be used. This is called sexual objectification. When a guy extends beyond the terms of society such as "hot, sexy, etc" he means a lot more than physical attraction.

  • He probably just attaches more emotion to "gorgeous." Like it needs to appeal to his heart in some way to refer to a girl as gorgeous. Whereas "f***ing hot" is all about appealling to his penis.

  • They are really the same to me

    • Haha okay fair ebough.

    • :P Thanks sweet girl

    • Welcome. & I meant *enough, by the way. My iPhone is stupid sometimes.

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    • Yeah, I posted it in the wrong category the first time. Tried to stop it from uploading. Didn't work, my bad! It'll get more views here.

  • They are the same to me