Got drunk and slept with my husband's best friend.. help?

[Anonymous]

My husband is muslim...
I want to tell him but I'm afraid he might leave me...
It was an accident that meant nothing to me. I love my husband.

[Justinaveragedude]

Wow... you got drunk (which lowers your inhibitions) and slept your husbands best friend (yeah... right, he is such a good friend he slept with his best friends wife).

Here is the thing, it is not one mistake. It is a long sequence of mistakes. Drinking more then should, a mistake, getting drunk, another, going off alone with him, there is 3, making out with him, 4, taking eachother clothes off, each article another mistake... getting him hard another mistake, letting him in, another, each thrust until the end another. And understand, you still knew better, you still could have said no.

No I am not sympathetic to you. You owe it to your husband to tell him the truth. He may leave you, but he may not. He will find out eventually, otherwise there will always be an issue with you anytime his "best friend" is around. Also, there will always be something dividing you and your husband until he can't deal with it anymore. Tell the truth. It is your best play. And maybe if you tell him you will never drink again, he might be willing to forgive you. I do not know. I do not know him.

Own your mistake. Otherwise you are likely to repeat it.

[FakeName123]

Sure. It was an "accident". People who are drunk never ever do anything they wouldn't otherwise do. Yepyep.

Take responsibility. You ruined two relationships. Your marriage and your husbands friendship. Now at least once in your life do the right thing.

[Wonderer89]

You've acted against your vows. You made your choice and you need to be honest with him so that he can make his on whether or not to continue the marriage

[DenizTr]

Are you muslim your self

[Asker]

Converted

[DenizTr]

What

[Asker]

Converted to the religion

[DenizTr]

Still dont get it

[DenizTr]

Im dumb

[Harlock2045]

keep it to yourself, depending on how devout he and or his family is, keep it to yourself. but question, are you Muslim yourself and if so, why are you drinking alcohol, isn't that a big no no

lastly, religion in general is tearing the world apart and only serves as a way to separate and label people who do not believe the same crazy bullshit as oneanother

[SeVBooM]

I don't think you really grasp the concept of religion all too well

[Harlock2045]

believing in the magic man or woman in the sky who will reward or punish you based on some arbitrary act? you might as well believe in Santa Claus and the tooth fairy

[SeVBooM]

honestly I don't know how to respond to ur comment, usually people have better arguments. to me it sounds like ur just mad about the idea of God, must have not treated u well in the past.

[Harlock2045]

primitive man was just that, primitive. they did not know how life, the universe, and everything worked. to help them not be afraid of the dark they began to attribute the things the didn't understand to imaginary beings. it made the "unknown" a little less scary if they thought some other worldly being was kinda handling those scary unknown details. as people started to gather into communities, it became very clear very fast that some kind of rules of behavior we needed to stem off the chaos

[Harlock2045]

and thus the seed of organized religion was planted. if people felt that their actions and thoughts were open books to some being who would be sitting in judgement of them in the afterlife, it helped to curb undesired activities like murder, and theft

[Intraluminal]

You better run and keep running.

[OfDeath]

Interesting..

[OlderGuy965]

Accident? Drunk? No excuse! He's a Muslim? He's gonna chop your head off! Run! Fast.

[Whaaaaa]

Jerry Jerry Jerry Jerry Jerry!

[Ste117]

😂😂😂😂

[roy_ricky09]

Don't blame it on alcohol, even a fully drunk knows what s (he) is doing. I would say keep it a secret.

[Regular1]

Accident? You tripped and landed on a guy's cock?

[BADBOY22]

damn... go n honest with ur hubby.

[BlackJackAce]

accident? Please don't name yor fantasies as accident.

[He-man]

Well you may love your husband but you sure do seem to fancy his friend

[skyler2020]

don't tell him, but also don't let it happen again

[De_Brada]

my opinion don't tell him at all it's hard to accept

[martynas_hz]

well , you fucked up

[Anonymous]

It was an accident? did you fall over and land on his dick? If so, then I suggest new flooring.

[Anonymous]

It will be your secret for the rest of your life.

[Anonymous]

onno that​ why i m strictly against drinking

i dont bbbiggg think u shall tell him...
Muslim people r mostly with old thinkings...

[jacquesvol]

And it's why I don't drink at parties.

[Opinion Owner]

must not do it ever