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Got period during sex. Not sure what to do?

Hi. I met up with this guy last night and I had just gotten off my period I thought. I had a tampon in and I didn't think we would have sex. Right before i went to the bathroom and took it out and there was no blood on it. The sex was really good and I really liked it and him a lot. After we finished, I looked and I thought I saw some blood but I wasn't sure. I left and when i got home I texted him telling him I was bleeding a little and that im really sorry if i got blood on his bed. he said "yea there's some blood" and i said "Im so so sorry im so embarrassed" and he left me on read. IM SOOOO EMBARRASSED. His snapchat score hasn't moved all day so its not like he's texting/talking to anyone. I don't know what to do someone please help. If i was him I wouldn't want to talk to me anymore, so I understand. I think im just going to leave him alone and let him come to me?
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He had ignored me for a couple days and I reached out saying "hey is everything ok" he said "yea" I said "ok, im just assuming you dont want to hang or see me again?" and he said "yea im just chillin rn im sorry" i said "did i do something" he said "No it has nothing to do with you at all" i was like "yes it does its because i got my period I had no idea and I said I was sorry" he said "im sorry" i said wtf and he left me on read. so thats the end of that!
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Most Helpful Guys

  • To be honest first time when happened to me i was like..."wtf?"... really she couldn't tell me she's on the time of the month? then i sat and weighted my thoughts and change my thinking...2nd time that happened it was with a partner that i had sex before... but to be honest... felt like she was "virgin" again... i was like wow!, never felt that before, and since then... i said everytime i have the chance, i'll take it!
    And plus, to some women helps with releasing the periodic blood"sooner" and end the "waiting time" earlier... so yeah.. depends from man to woman and viceversa...

    • thats interesting that you changed you're thinking about it. i wish he was like u lol

    • Maybe he will.. and if he doesn't then.. he doesn't know what his missing... as not many girsl/women are willing to satisfy their men on period... so yeah...

    • Yup as i can read from ur update!.. thats exactly what the issue.. well.. HIS LOSS!

  • Don’t feel embarrassed it’s natural.
    You certainly didn’t do it on purpose.
    Be proud that you are a woman, and your pussy needed to do what it had to.

Most Helpful Girl

  • "If i was him I wouldn't want to talk to me anymore" and why is that? seriously, it could happen to anyone, so anyone who ghosts another because of this is a scum.

    • you're right thanks. i guess i just am embarrassed about it and i feel like he wouldn't want to see me again. which he's kind of already shown to me

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  • It shouldn't be a big deal at all, especially after you explained. It if bothers him, he doesn't know how women's bodies work.

  • I mean it really depends on the guy but hell I don't mind period sex... usually more intense and hotter. But if he ignores you because of a little blood then that's sad. Sheets can be replaced. Amazing women are hard to come by. Hopefully he'll message you soon. If he doesn't then that just shows his character.

    • yea you're right. thank you that made me feel a lot better :)

    • Not sure why 2 days later I just got a notification you replied, but I am glad I could make you feel better. Always a message away if you need a little uplifting.

  • Don't overthink it. Guys understand periods!! It is a normal body function. I hope there was a condom involved? Text him and tell him you had fun. There is nothing at all to be embarrassed about. He had a good orgasm (s) so he won't be upset at all. Your thoughts?

  • He needs to grow up.
    It's a natural bodily function

  • If he blows you off, he is a jerk

  • You shouldn't be embarrassed. You explained what happened and apologized. If he's a decent guy and cares for you, that should be the end of it. If he can't handle it it's his problem, not yours.

    • yea you're right. should i reach out to him?

    • 👍 I hope it all works out for you.

    • It's his loss if he doesn't want to see you again.

  • I would have asked for more sex right away. Period sex is amazing and I would be begging you for more.
    He is a jerk for treating you in a bad way for a function most females have 25% of the time.

  • It's not a huge issue. It happens with every girl. Heck, my girlfriend is on her period right now and she is staying over. Hard sex can cause you to bleed a little bit, so that's a possibility if your period was actually over. In the future put a darl dark towel down to avoid staining anything where it'll show up.

  • Sometimes if a guy goes deep enough he can bring it down that's probably what happened

    • yea exactly and i tried to explain that to him. im so confused why he's ignoring me

    • Wait he's ignoring you over that

    • yes he did but now i know he doesn't want to see me anymore

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  • I guess the most important question is... Did you use protection?

    The next question is, did you communicate to him that you were coming off your period?

    If not, what the hell Karen? (Or whatever your name is) 🙂😁😊😆😂

  • You shouldn’t be embarrassed about your body. But maybe in the future don’t have sex with strangers while on your period 😂

  • it is not that big of deal, if it is for him, he needs to grow up

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