Grinding, does it mean something when it's with someone you know?

[Anonymous]

I definitely want guys and girls opinions on this so shout out at the bottom your opinion!

My take on this, and I know I'm generalizing, is it depends on the gender. I think if you're out with close friends and a girl decides to start grinding with her non-gay best friend that's a guy, she's more than likely doing it to have fun, not because she finds him physically attractive. When we are all out and drunk, dancing is the best. We just want to have a good time. So why wouldn't we just dance with our other friends that are girls? We do, just grinding with girl friends isn't the same. Can we agree girls?

On the other hand, and again, I could be generalizing so let me know your honest opinion guys, guys are grinding with their girl friends because they're physically attacted to them. All guys are motivated by the physical, it's not biased, it's biology. I'm not saying it's a bad thing either. But if you're out with a group of girls, are you going to grind with your best friend that's a girl, or with the girl you find most attractive? More or less, those two options are blurred as one. Grinding isn't just dancing around, you're pretty much dry humping the other person. You don't get that close dancing wise with someone if you don't find them attractive

In both cases, alcohol tends to make people feel more at ease and less guarded with how they act. So that might be the influence because unless you're about to have sex, no one dry humps sober.

Let me know if you agree or think something different!

[JiminsHoe]

When did grinding become seen as something a girl does?
Low key last night I was at homecoming and a guy came up from behind me, grabbed my hips, and started grinding on me and pulling my dress up a bit too at that, I could low key feel his boner psht what the fuck lmao.
I mean honestly, I think its rather fucked up, nowadays people grind on each other and they do it without even talking to each other or having seen each other's faces before that? And its really not even dancing, its a guy who's body is positioned in a stick moving his dick back and forth with a girl trying her hardest to stick out her butt, and its pretty intimate for people who aren't intimate or closely acquaintanced. Whether its a girl who came up to the guy or the guy who came up to the girl, and honestly I get grinder on at every party I go to, its just weird girl. I mean I usually brush off the guy but I thought why not. Let me tell you, he grinned on me for a full 30 minutes until I pulled away, and there was nothing there, no sparks, just a guy's disappointing boner grinding back and forth on me and two hands wrapped tightly around my waist which had trouble letting go of me.

[JiminsHoe]

sorry my auto correct must apparently doesn't like to use the word grinding lmao

[relaxrelax]

first OFF i love grinding it's fun and feels warm

but there's two ways i go about it
my mood

if im horny then yes it feels great
if im not horny then im usually just doing it for fun
I've even got my friend mad at me cause i left middle of grinding lol

[Dousj]

here's how I see grinding, dont rub on my dick getting it all worked up and half chubbed if you're not gonna do what must be done to remove the full on erection.

[myTake Owner]

lmao good point

[stevethepervert]

Think of it this way, or question it this way.

Could grinding be considered foreplay?

[myTake Owner]

good point. id say probably yes, what about you

[stevethepervert]

Grinding is meant to turn someone on, so yes foreplay.

[Anonymous]

So I grind with the guy next door because we are both home all day and stuff because of the covid thing. We started by just wrestling and stuff while we were swimming. I like it.

[Anonymous]

Grinding and dry humping does nothing for me, I find it tacky as shit and don't engage in that skanky behavior.

[myTake Owner]

yeah could be seen like that

[Anonymous]

Personally, i would not appreciate it. Why? Swap the genders to see what is considered acceptable. Having a guy 'grind' on a girl would be considered pretty nasty, so it should be the same for a girl to do it to a guy.

[myTake Owner]

appreciate the honesty. def not for everyone